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Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:04 am to
Posted by LSUAlum2001
Stavro Mueller Beta
Member since Aug 2003
48255 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:04 am to
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Someone tell me why I shouldn't do that because my heart just can't take this anymore.


Your heart is broken from a chick you have never dated?
Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43482 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:07 am to
Whew

This bring me back. You sound like me between 20 and 25.. you need some self confidence bud. Stop focusing on dating so much, do things you enjoy doing. Still pursue online dating, but don't make it such a big deal. You will go on plenty of bad dates, you will even get to kiss some of them before they decide they don't like you. It happens. You have to learn to not take that shite personally and that it's not a big deal. You're just living your life and you're allowing them to join you on the ride.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
46037 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:09 am to
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Scruffy being 5'4" he was always just going to be an oribter that couldn't hold frame and had to pick from the leftovers.


Wrong. Scruffy could be 5'0, pimply, and have a speech impediment, but when Scruffy said, "I am in med school", value was shown. Scruffy had plenty before settling down.
Posted by WildcatMike
Lexington, KY
Member since Dec 2005
44078 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:10 am to
WTF did I just read?
This post was edited on 4/2/17 at 8:11 am
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
76706 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:12 am to
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Scruffy being 5'4"
5'7"

Get it right. Those 3 inches make a big difference.
quote:

he was always just going to be an oribter that couldn't hold frame and had to pick from the leftovers.
If only you knew Scruffy in real life.

As a side, what does "hold frame" mean?
This post was edited on 4/2/17 at 8:13 am
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
149114 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:14 am to
Not sure, just copying words from GN who in turn copies them from r/theredpill
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
46037 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:15 am to
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Lots of good stuff here


As a disclaimer, I should mention that I have not been on a date since 1994. I am aware things have changed. I also left out the easiest tell that she is interested. I am still kicking this thread around in my mind and will get to that part later.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
76706 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:18 am to


Scruffy doesn't recommend that.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
149114 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:21 am to
/hijack

Are you practicing in Shreveport.

One of my best friends finished his residency this past year went to LSU Shreveport and decided to stay in the area as a GP. He is originally from Houma btw
Posted by Adam4848
LA
Member since Apr 2006
19720 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:21 am to
quote:

This bring me back. You sound like me between 20 and 25.. you need some self confidence bud. Stop focusing on dating so much, do things you enjoy doing. Still pursue online dating, but don't make it such a big deal. You will go on plenty of bad dates, you will even get to kiss some of them before they decide they don't like you. It happens. You have to learn to not take that shite personally and that it's not a big deal. You're just living your life and you're allowing them to join you on the ride.


Everything he said.

Get your body right - go to the gym
Get your career right - focus on work
Get your mind right - join a team sport or pick up a hobby

When you start focusing on you and becoming successful then women will notice, remember the harder you go after them and the easy you are to get the less of a "catch" you are. Moral of the story don't force love man it'll come.
Posted by Abadeebadaba
FL
Member since Sep 2010
5036 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:30 am to
You fell in love with the cick before you even met her, jeez that is desperate.
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41887 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:41 am to
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Scruffy said, "I am in med school", value was shown.


so, scruffy gets used for his wealth

solid advice, chief
This post was edited on 4/2/17 at 8:42 am
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
76706 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:41 am to
quote:

/hijack

Are you practicing in Shreveport.

One of my best friends finished his residency this past year went to LSU Shreveport and decided to stay in the area as a GP. He is originally from Houma btw
No. Just went to school there.
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41887 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:44 am to
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When you start focusing on you and becoming successful then women will notice


largely depends on how attractive OP is and since he keeps ignoring those inquiries....

all of goldennuggets redpill hold frame, show value, and 2/3rds theory means jack shite if youre ugly af
Posted by Flavius Belisarius
Member since Feb 2016
978 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:45 am to
"I don't want you to be the guy in the PG-13 movie everyone's really hoping makes it happen. I want you to be like the guy in the rated R movie, you know. The guy you're not sure whether or not you like yet. You're not sure where he's coming from. Okay? You're a bad man. You're a bad man, Mikey. You're a bad man, bad man."

Trent (Vince Vaughn) from Swingers

You sound like Mike from Swingers. You should watch this movie, then do what everyone else said. Get in the gym, focus on career, realize that women want an edge to their man because to them it indicates success in money/career. Be the rated R guy.
Posted by Jorts R Us
Member since Aug 2013
17262 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:46 am to
Honestly you shouldn't invest that much in someone you haven't met. Just go out and meet as many people as possible and stop trying to find "the one."

Dating is a process. Enjooooyyy it. Get that strange and make some memories. Then in 10 years when your sex life dries up you have a spank bank.
This post was edited on 4/2/17 at 10:18 am
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
149114 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:46 am to
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largely depends on how attractive OP is and since he keeps ignoring those inquiries....
yep, I asked this I think on the first page and never got a response.

You don't have to be the most handsome guy but if you are dog arse ugly, you really just have to lower your standards.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
76706 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:47 am to
quote:

hold frame
quote:

rocket31
Maybe you can fill Scruffy in on what that means.
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41887 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:47 am to
quote:

You don't have to be the most handsome guy but if you are dog arse ugly, you really just have to lower your standards.
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Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:47 am to
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all of goldennuggets redpill hold frame, show value, and 2/3rds theory means jack shite if youre ugly af


I think most men would be surprised at how attractive they can become

Lose weight and get in shape your face will lose the fat and become more angular. Losing weight helps greatly with facial aesthetics

Max out your attractiveness. If you are still ugly oh well. Go out there and approach anyway. It's what I tell guys all the time. Whining gets you no where. You won't get any women by whining about how you look. Play the hand you are dealt. Do what you can with it.
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