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re: Another heartbreak, I'm just done with dating...
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:04 am to AnarchySupporter
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:04 am to AnarchySupporter
quote:
Someone tell me why I shouldn't do that because my heart just can't take this anymore.
Your heart is broken from a chick you have never dated?
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:07 am to AnarchySupporter
Whew
This bring me back. You sound like me between 20 and 25.. you need some self confidence bud. Stop focusing on dating so much, do things you enjoy doing. Still pursue online dating, but don't make it such a big deal. You will go on plenty of bad dates, you will even get to kiss some of them before they decide they don't like you. It happens. You have to learn to not take that shite personally and that it's not a big deal. You're just living your life and you're allowing them to join you on the ride.
This bring me back. You sound like me between 20 and 25.. you need some self confidence bud. Stop focusing on dating so much, do things you enjoy doing. Still pursue online dating, but don't make it such a big deal. You will go on plenty of bad dates, you will even get to kiss some of them before they decide they don't like you. It happens. You have to learn to not take that shite personally and that it's not a big deal. You're just living your life and you're allowing them to join you on the ride.
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:09 am to SuperSaint
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Scruffy being 5'4" he was always just going to be an oribter that couldn't hold frame and had to pick from the leftovers.
Wrong. Scruffy could be 5'0, pimply, and have a speech impediment, but when Scruffy said, "I am in med school", value was shown. Scruffy had plenty before settling down.
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:10 am to AnarchySupporter
WTF did I just read?
This post was edited on 4/2/17 at 8:11 am
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:12 am to SuperSaint
quote:5'7"
Scruffy being 5'4"
Get it right. Those 3 inches make a big difference.
quote:If only you knew Scruffy in real life.
he was always just going to be an oribter that couldn't hold frame and had to pick from the leftovers.
As a side, what does "hold frame" mean?
This post was edited on 4/2/17 at 8:13 am
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:14 am to Scruffy
Not sure, just copying words from GN who in turn copies them from r/theredpill
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:15 am to goldennugget
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Lots of good stuff here
As a disclaimer, I should mention that I have not been on a date since 1994. I am aware things have changed. I also left out the easiest tell that she is interested. I am still kicking this thread around in my mind and will get to that part later.
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:18 am to SuperSaint
Scruffy doesn't recommend that.
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:21 am to Scruffy
/hijack
Are you practicing in Shreveport.
One of my best friends finished his residency this past year went to LSU Shreveport and decided to stay in the area as a GP. He is originally from Houma btw
Are you practicing in Shreveport.
One of my best friends finished his residency this past year went to LSU Shreveport and decided to stay in the area as a GP. He is originally from Houma btw
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:21 am to Hulkklogan
quote:
This bring me back. You sound like me between 20 and 25.. you need some self confidence bud. Stop focusing on dating so much, do things you enjoy doing. Still pursue online dating, but don't make it such a big deal. You will go on plenty of bad dates, you will even get to kiss some of them before they decide they don't like you. It happens. You have to learn to not take that shite personally and that it's not a big deal. You're just living your life and you're allowing them to join you on the ride.
Everything he said.
Get your body right - go to the gym
Get your career right - focus on work
Get your mind right - join a team sport or pick up a hobby
When you start focusing on you and becoming successful then women will notice, remember the harder you go after them and the easy you are to get the less of a "catch" you are. Moral of the story don't force love man it'll come.
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:30 am to AnarchySupporter
You fell in love with the cick before you even met her, jeez that is desperate.
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:41 am to Hangit
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Scruffy said, "I am in med school", value was shown.
so, scruffy gets used for his wealth
solid advice, chief
This post was edited on 4/2/17 at 8:42 am
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:41 am to SuperSaint
quote:No. Just went to school there.
/hijack
Are you practicing in Shreveport.
One of my best friends finished his residency this past year went to LSU Shreveport and decided to stay in the area as a GP. He is originally from Houma btw
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:44 am to Adam4848
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When you start focusing on you and becoming successful then women will notice
largely depends on how attractive OP is and since he keeps ignoring those inquiries....
all of goldennuggets redpill hold frame, show value, and 2/3rds theory means jack shite if youre ugly af
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:45 am to Abadeebadaba
"I don't want you to be the guy in the PG-13 movie everyone's really hoping makes it happen. I want you to be like the guy in the rated R movie, you know. The guy you're not sure whether or not you like yet. You're not sure where he's coming from. Okay? You're a bad man. You're a bad man, Mikey. You're a bad man, bad man."
Trent (Vince Vaughn) from Swingers
You sound like Mike from Swingers. You should watch this movie, then do what everyone else said. Get in the gym, focus on career, realize that women want an edge to their man because to them it indicates success in money/career. Be the rated R guy.
Trent (Vince Vaughn) from Swingers
You sound like Mike from Swingers. You should watch this movie, then do what everyone else said. Get in the gym, focus on career, realize that women want an edge to their man because to them it indicates success in money/career. Be the rated R guy.
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:46 am to AnarchySupporter
Honestly you shouldn't invest that much in someone you haven't met. Just go out and meet as many people as possible and stop trying to find "the one."
Dating is a process. Enjooooyyy it. Get that strange and make some memories. Then in 10 years when your sex life dries up you have a spank bank.
Dating is a process. Enjooooyyy it. Get that strange and make some memories. Then in 10 years when your sex life dries up you have a spank bank.
This post was edited on 4/2/17 at 10:18 am
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:46 am to rocket31
quote:yep, I asked this I think on the first page and never got a response.
largely depends on how attractive OP is and since he keeps ignoring those inquiries....
You don't have to be the most handsome guy but if you are dog arse ugly, you really just have to lower your standards.
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:47 am to rocket31
quote:
hold frame
quote:Maybe you can fill Scruffy in on what that means.
rocket31
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:47 am to SuperSaint
quote:
You don't have to be the most handsome guy but if you are dog arse ugly, you really just have to lower your standards.
Posted on 4/2/17 at 8:47 am to rocket31
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all of goldennuggets redpill hold frame, show value, and 2/3rds theory means jack shite if youre ugly af
I think most men would be surprised at how attractive they can become
Lose weight and get in shape your face will lose the fat and become more angular. Losing weight helps greatly with facial aesthetics
Max out your attractiveness. If you are still ugly oh well. Go out there and approach anyway. It's what I tell guys all the time. Whining gets you no where. You won't get any women by whining about how you look. Play the hand you are dealt. Do what you can with it.
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