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Posted on 10/9/14 at 12:41 pm to
Posted by LSUengineer12
The Best Side
Member since Dec 2011
1850 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 12:41 pm to
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Im surprised you would collectively know 300 people well enough to consider inviting them to your wedding


My Mom comes from a family of 11. We used to rent out the local community center for our christmas parties.
Posted by JumpingTheShark
America
Member since Nov 2012
24800 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 12:41 pm to
about 140 people. perfect for us because we didn't invite anyone we didn't know (i.e. not a lot of random parents friends) and we didn't have to walk around all night catching up with people, danced the whole night
Posted by iluvdatiger
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jan 2004
42971 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 12:42 pm to
each of our parents got 35 invites and me and mriluv had 35 invites. 35 invites goes very quickly if you have big families or lots of friends. Ended up somewhere around 100-200 attended. All of our favorite people were there, and I wouldn't have changed it for anything in the world.
Posted by reginaphilange
Member since Mar 2014
415 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 12:53 pm to
I wanted a small wedding, but went with a large one. I'm not one to "regret," but I will always wish I had the smaller one.
Posted by iknowmorethanyou
Paydirt
Member since Jul 2007
6618 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 12:57 pm to
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Still paying for ours.


And you will be paying dearly for the rest of your life.
Posted by Spelt it rong
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
10837 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 1:09 pm to
We tried to keep it under 150 but the final tally was around 230
Posted by MrBiriwa
Biriwa,OH
Member since Nov 2010
7162 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 2:22 pm to
We budgeted for 150...not a soul more
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
58619 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 2:26 pm to
Spent $30k, had 200-ish folks. It was the first (and hopefully ONLY) wedding for either of us. I wouldn't change a thing, but wouldn't want to do it again either. Far too much going on and wore us both the hell out.
Posted by LSU 08
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2008
747 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 2:54 pm to
I'm not a dude, but planning my wedding now. We currently have 460 people invited. I wanted a smaller wedding and a check from my parents, but my fiancé and our parents all insisted we invite all these people and its turned into a circus. I would elope in a heartbeat.
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
85313 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 2:55 pm to
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I'm not a dude, but planning my wedding now
there's still hope
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
88805 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 2:55 pm to
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I'm not a dude, but planning my wedding now. We currently have 460 people invited. I wanted a smaller wedding and a check from my parents, but my fiancé and our parents all insisted we invite all these people and its turned into a circus. I would elope in a heartbeat.


Another impossibility because it doesn't fit the cliche.
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
103821 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 2:57 pm to
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We currently have 460 people invited.


Holy shitballs. Good luck cutting that in half.
Posted by Bard
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Member since Oct 2008
58619 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 2:58 pm to
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I'm not a dude, but planning my wedding now. We currently have 460 people invited. I wanted a smaller wedding and a check from my parents, but my fiancé and our parents all insisted we invite all these people and its turned into a circus. I would elope in a heartbeat.


Even with the standard 20-ish% not showing up, that's still a shite-ton of people. Make sure someone gets you some food as soon as the reception starts, otherwise you won't eat until it's all over. My cake was freaking awesome and the only way I know it is because someone made sure to save some for the wife and I before it was all gone.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80617 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 2:58 pm to
250 people. Man that day sucked.
Posted by LasVegasTiger
Idaho
Member since Apr 2008
8654 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 2:58 pm to
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We currently have 460 people invited.


God damn. Come from royalty?
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
88805 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 2:59 pm to
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My cake was freaking awesome and the only way I know it is because someone made sure to save some for the wife and I before it was all gone.



Yall didn't do a cake cutting thing? We were the first people to get cake, and it's been that way at most weddings I've gone to.
Posted by LSU 08
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2008
747 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 3:03 pm to
I wish. That would help pay for the wedding!
Posted by atchafalaya
Bayou Chene, Louisiana
Member since Dec 2006
1530 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 3:32 pm to
If she is up for it, destination wedding.

Economically superior option.

More importantly, the benefits and pro's relative to traditional wedding are dispositive on this issue. You will both realize after its the best move you ever made.

Your invitees should be "everyone that wants to come."

After you get back you have a reception type party for anyone who couldnt make it.

Know this. Act now.
Posted by DOC42
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2012
612 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 3:54 pm to
About 20-25. Only very close friends and family. We went to Jamaica to get married. The week long celebration with friends and family was awesome! Wouldn't change a thing.
Posted by Bard
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Member since Oct 2008
58619 posts
Posted on 10/9/14 at 4:09 pm to
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Yall didn't do a cake cutting thing?


We did, but only got the bite she fed me since the moment the picture-taking of it was over we were swarmed by folks wishing us well.
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