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re: Question about bringing in a second woman...
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:24 pm to northshorebamaman
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:24 pm to northshorebamaman
But why should she need permission? Permission for what? Does she need permission to have a conversation?
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:25 pm to Mattwells90
Doesn't make it false either.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:25 pm to northshorebamaman
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Unless you lived with them, how would you honestly know? Because they told you? Serious question?
I and my wife were close to both partners and talked to them. Either they were lying to us, or they were telling the truth about bringing in outside sexual partners damaged their marriage. They really had nothing to profit from lying far as I can tell .
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:25 pm to Mattwells90
Mattwell- outside of religious beliefs what if one partner had a particular fetish or kink that the other partner did not? What if a partner has a medical condition that prevents sex/sexual activity? Do you not think they could agree on something that works for both of them?
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:26 pm to white perch
The bigger question is why are all you dumb fricks married?
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:27 pm to Mattwells90
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But why should she need permission? Permission for what? Does she need permission to have a conversation?
That was your word, and your question. Your constant attempts to spin your point are pretty amateurish.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 11:27 pm
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:27 pm to Darth_Vader
True, but that doesn't mean swinging or bring an extra party in was the end all be all reason they split. It may have been a contributing factor, but not the only or main reason.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:28 pm to madamsquirrel
Madamsquirrel
I personally think marriage should be about much more than just sex and a couple can make things work without bringing someone else into the relationship.
I personally think marriage should be about much more than just sex and a couple can make things work without bringing someone else into the relationship.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:29 pm to Darth_Vader
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. Either they were lying to us, or they were telling the truth about bringing in outside sexual partners damaged their marriage. They really had nothing to profit from lying far as I can tell
Come on man. Most people keep that stuff to themselves. Even among best friends. They don't have to lie to withhold info.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:29 pm to RunningBlake
Reasons to be married that don't have to do with sex: love/companionship/friendship/sharing common interests and hobbies/etc etc etc
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:30 pm to northshorebamaman
North shore-
Not spinning anything. I'm trying I understand why if sex is of no significance and is no more intimate than having a conversation, why should your wife need permission? Unless of course it actually is more meaningful than you paint it. You can't make the argument that sex isn't anything special but then require permission to partake in it.
Not spinning anything. I'm trying I understand why if sex is of no significance and is no more intimate than having a conversation, why should your wife need permission? Unless of course it actually is more meaningful than you paint it. You can't make the argument that sex isn't anything special but then require permission to partake in it.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 11:32 pm
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:30 pm to CoCo311
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True, but that doesn't mean swinging or bring an extra party in was the end all be all reason they split. It may have been a contributing factor, but not the only or main reason.
All I can tell you is what they told me. And two couples said flat out that it was in one instance a threesome and in the other swinging that doomed their marriage.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:30 pm to Mattwells90
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I personally think marriage should be about much more than just sex
We agree.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:32 pm to Mattwells90
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Not spinning anything. I'm trying I understand why if sex is of no significance and is no more intimate than having a conversation, why should your wife need permission? Unless of course it actually is more meaningful than you paint it.
If you would be kind enough to post what I said, I'd be happy to explain what an analogy is.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:33 pm to Mattwells90
It is about much more than sex. No married or partnered couple would say different. Not ever person bringing someone into their bed is trying to "make something work" though. I'd even say that all or most people who try to bring another person into their relationship to " make it work" would fail.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:33 pm to RunningBlake
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The bigger question is why are all you dumb fricks married?
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:35 pm to Darth_Vader
I'm not trying to make you sound like a liar, I'm just pointing out that there are other factors that may have been at play in those situations that you were unaware of.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:38 pm to northshorebamaman
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Come on man. Most people keep that stuff to themselves. Even among best friends. They don't have to lie to withhold info.
I don't know what to tell you.
One couple had a threesome with another woman. The wife thought she wanted it but it turns out she could not handle it. The husband wanted to keep doing it and she got jealous and no longer trusted him. They tried to worn it out but split within a year. They both said it was the threesome that opened " Pandoras Box" (their words).
Couple two had been married for almost 20 years and decided to try swinging. They loved it. They went to parties, has their favorite friends, the whole 9 yards. Then he suddenly falls "in love" with a woman and decides his current wife and the swinging life style are not for him. The woman he fell for was one of their swinging buddies and her marriage likewise ended.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:40 pm to northshorebamaman
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If you would be kind enough to post what I said, I'd be happy to explain what an analogy is.
No thanks. Already know.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:40 pm to Mattwells90
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There are people who say cocaine improved their life. Doesn't make it true
Besides people that use cocaine have real world impacts on other people's lives. As far as I can tell swingers do not affect your life in the slightest.
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