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Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:23 pm to
Posted by jefforize
Member since Feb 2008
45816 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:23 pm to
In all seriousness tho if a judge ruled that fricko has to pay that then he should. Else...warrant issued. If he'd really rather skip town and risk jail over caring for his own son then he is a true piece of shite and no woman should have to deal with that.

There is no simple solution and the OT cannot help her in any way. But I'm sure she knew that and is just venting. In reality I don't think her son will be able to continue going to his school , but that's just the facts of life. Good luck
This post was edited on 10/28/14 at 11:24 pm
Posted by Mud_Till_May
Member since Aug 2014
9685 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:26 pm to
I think logic escapes the OP so I wont say much. I will say this though. I grew up in a divorced family. My dad paid $60/week for me and my brother and my mom didn't take him back to court. I also didn't expect to get anything from my dad. The "new" car I had was an 1988 chevy blazer that I paid for working at a grocery store after football practice and through the summer. I went to school all day, football practice, and stocked shelves till 12:00 at night. Friends would come in to buy bait and go fishing, I worked my arse off for 5.15 an hour and put money into savings every week. I had a roof over my head and a good bed to sleep in. I went to a public school so I didn't have tuition but saved enough to pay for my first semester of college. I have no pity for you OP. I think you should get off your arse and stop waiting for a $24,000 handout from your ex-husband. The problem you have is when you got divorced you still thought you could control your husband. If It was me, I would give you the money and count down every single day till the kid is 18. If he's a shitty dad then that's on him but and he will pay for it for the rest of his life by not having a relationship with his own flesh and blood son.
This post was edited on 10/28/14 at 11:28 pm
Posted by lsugal121212
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
886 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:26 pm to
My ex husband made $9,500 a month. I'm not getting anything extra believe me.
Posted by Mud_Till_May
Member since Aug 2014
9685 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:30 pm to
Because your ex-husband works hard at his job means that he has to give you 21% of it? I think you just want him to suffer. You didn't really need the money.
Posted by lsugal121212
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
886 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:31 pm to
You can kiss my arse if you think I'm asking for a handout. I should of taken my ex back to court years ago but I didn't . I took him back so I wouldn't have a repeat of last year.
Posted by lsugal121212
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
886 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:33 pm to
I want him to man the frick up and take care of his responsibility.
Posted by lsugal121212
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
886 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:34 pm to
There is no warrant because the police won't even take a report
Posted by yurintroubl
Dallas, Tx.
Member since Apr 2008
30192 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:34 pm to
Just go the court route. In the meantime - kid should get a part-time job. He could pay for his phone and car insurance. These things are "perks" - not creature comforts.
Posted by boddagetta
Moulton
Member since Mar 2011
10059 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:35 pm to
quote:

I wont say much


bullshite. You followed this statement with a wall of tl;dr text.
Posted by T
Member since Jan 2004
9889 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:36 pm to
Your ex sounds like a piece of shite but you are coming across on here as a greedy bitch.
Posted by Mud_Till_May
Member since Aug 2014
9685 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:36 pm to
Sounds like your bitching ran him out of the house and you want him to pony up. If you were more logical you would turn to more humble means.

If you get divorced you no longer have two incomes so the expenses have to adjust as well.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
134094 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:36 pm to
quote:

My ex husband made $9,500 a month. I'm not getting anything extra believe me.



You fricking him still? What entitles you to almost a quarter of his earnings?

He might be a piece of shite but if I had to pay that much to someone who gave me nothing in return...I wouldn't be happy.

Posted by Mud_Till_May
Member since Aug 2014
9685 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:37 pm to
quote:

Bull shite. You followed this statement with a wall of tl;dr text.


The butt hurt just kept flowing, I couldn't make it stop.
Posted by yurintroubl
Dallas, Tx.
Member since Apr 2008
30192 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:37 pm to
quote:

fr33manator


Not letting anything in your past jade ya, eh?
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
134094 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:38 pm to
quote:

I want him to man the frick up and take care of his responsibility.



What's his responsibility exactly?

To make sure you get to continue on "in the manner to which you have grown accustomed"?

Posted by lsugal121212
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
886 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:39 pm to
He's responsible to help pay for my son's expenses
Posted by Mrtommorrow1987
Twilight Zone
Member since Feb 2008
13457 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:41 pm to
Is your ex husbands name Will
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
134094 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:42 pm to
I'm just glad my ex hasn't done me wrong in this arena. I came out smelling like a rose on that front and I'm thankful every day that I don't have to deal with BS.


But I take care of my kids though.
Posted by Mud_Till_May
Member since Aug 2014
9685 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:42 pm to
quote:

He's responsible to help pay for my son's expenses


That's where your mistaken bacon, he's responsible to pay for HIS son's expenses. If he determines he doesn't need a phone, car, insurance, ect. then that's up to him. You can't force him to pay for ways for you to keep up with your son. If you want him to have it then pay for it yourself.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
134094 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 11:43 pm to
I'm just glad my ex hasn't done me wrong in this arena. I came out smelling like a rose on that front and I'm thankful every day that I don't have to deal with BS.


But I take care of my kids though.
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