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Posted on 11/9/14 at 5:41 pm to
Posted by glassman
Next to the beer taps at Finn's
Member since Oct 2008
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Posted on 11/9/14 at 5:41 pm to
My sister and her high school boyfriend broke it off before college. They each dated other people in college. After college they got back together and have been married for 14 years and have three children.
Posted by lsudat10
Lexington, KY
Member since Mar 2010
2834 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 5:52 pm to
My advice:
Girls are hot in high school so frick them while you can, but don't fall for that. They're way hotter in college, but don't be a fool. All they want is for their daddy to buy them their dream wedding so just frick them for sport while you're in college. Wait until you get out into the business world to get married. That's where you'll find the hottest girls. But in the business world, sport fricking for a couple of years is very important. The eventual ex-Mrs. Bleak is out there, but do your manhood justice by using it while it's available. You're only here once, and you can't take your balls with you when you die.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 5:53 pm to
Subtle brag about graduating from high school. Congrats bro.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
12293 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 5:55 pm to
Why people engage in committed relationships in high school is a fricking mystery to me. Senseless.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
90208 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 5:56 pm to
quote:

Why people engage in committed relationships in high school is a fricking mystery to me.

hormones + only enough blood to run one head at a time
Posted by SwaggerCopter
H TINE HOL IT DINE
Member since Dec 2012
27449 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 5:56 pm to
Philip Rivers made it work. Dated the same girl since 7th grade. If I'm a great college quarterback, I'm probably playing the field a bit.
This post was edited on 11/9/14 at 5:58 pm
Posted by prostyleoffensetime
Mississippi
Member since Aug 2009
12341 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 6:05 pm to
quote:

My advice:
Girls are hot in high school so frick them while you can, but don't fall for that. They're way hotter in college, but don't be a fool. All they want is for their daddy to buy them their dream wedding so just frick them for sport while you're in college. Wait until you get out into the business world to get married. That's where you'll find the hottest girls. But in the business world, sport fricking for a couple of years is very important. The eventual ex-Mrs. Bleak is out there, but do your manhood justice by using it while it's available. You're only here once, and you can't take your balls with you when you die.



I've posted/lurked/had 3 different usernames on this site since the Fall of 2007. This may be the best piece of advice I've ever read on this subject, and wish someone would have told me this a long time ago.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 6:08 pm to
This post was edited on 11/9/14 at 6:08 pm
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
76595 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 6:30 pm to
quote:

Every woman in the world is a slut except my wife

- The OT

"Don't get married. Your wife will stop putting out. I only put on 40 pounds and refused to go out and do anything with my ex wife or make any sacrifices to make her happy. I HAVE NO IDEA WHY SHE STOPPED SUCKING MY DICK AND CHEATED ON ME THOUGH! ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES AND CHEATERS!!!"

-The OT on marriage
Posted by bird35
Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
13521 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 6:35 pm to
Bringing a girlfriend to college is like bringing sand to the beach.
Posted by Johnny4lsu
Opelousas, LA
Member since Apr 2008
5143 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 6:38 pm to
GF of 4 years....She stayed local and I went to LSU...Worked for about 6 months after I got to BR...Nearly impossible in that scenario
Posted by ZZTIGERS
Member since Dec 2007
17372 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 6:38 pm to
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One of my childhood friends(she is 36 now) met her bf when we were in 8th grade. They have been married since she was like 18-19 and have 2 kids. Very happily married couple and stable family.

My wife and I are similar to this. Started dating when we were 16, married @ 20, going on 13 years now, and have 4 children.
Posted by Bama323_15
Member since Jan 2013
2100 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 6:38 pm to
Personally, I think it is sad for someone to end a relationship with someone that has been a good fit for them, is a good person, treats them good, etc. just because they are heading to college. But if someone does take this route...they probably are not the person you thought they were...not that they will not eventually mature.

I have actually been having conversations with my son about this and being careful in who he decides to date now that he is getting to this age...but have always told him he has to make his own decisions on this.

I have given him examples of family members who have recently done this, my own experiences being around teenagers as a coach and administrator.

My advice to him is to find someone who is interested in him and not interested in the attention being in a relationship brings them. (It is amazing to see how many teenagers date based on this very thing...the guy who wants to date the cheerleader or the girl who wants to date the QB mentality) in my simplistic view of the world...these are the people more apt to engage in this behavior.

If you find a good person in high school who treats you good, be faithful etc., why give that up just because you are going to college...what you find there may not be good in the long run.

And I know I am in the minority...but I never saw the appeal of playing the field, sewing oats, or any other way we want to describe it. Find a good person and stick with them and hopefully they will do the same.
Posted by CaptainPanic
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Member since Sep 2011
25582 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 6:41 pm to
quote:

bj's
overrated
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 6:42 pm to
Totes
Posted by TOKEN
Member since Feb 2014
11990 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 6:42 pm to
Broke up before Senior trip and banged every bitch I could.

I'm sure word got back to her.
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
49649 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 6:43 pm to
I was over 30 when I got married. It was by design and I highly recommend it. I'm a better man, husband and father because I allowed myself those previous years to do whatever the hell came along and enjoyed my young adulthood unbridled.

Had many friends married much younger and very few of them are still together. A lot of broken families, ugly scenarios, financial problems and general mayhem amongst them and I attribute most of it simply to pure age and immaturity.

Be smart and pay attention to your life and it hopefully will pay dividends as an older adult. It certainly has for me in every facet of life.
Posted by AubieALUMdvm
Member since Oct 2011
11713 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 6:49 pm to
Don't take a girlfriend to college with you. I know a lot of people that did this. Only one couple stayed together and all of the others really regretted it. They were always driving back home and on the phone with that gf during freshman year when the rest of us were out having fun
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171959 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 6:51 pm to
damn, we really got some youngins here
Posted by yurintroubl
Dallas, Tx.
Member since Apr 2008
30192 posts
Posted on 11/9/14 at 7:00 pm to
A maturely handled distance relationship will teach you a lot about yourself. I dated a guy from my Sr year in HS through most of college, but he was in the military and stationed FAR away. We had a "don't ask, don't tell" policy about our free time... Kinda the best of both worlds. Ended up going different directions after 5 years but still friends to this day.
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