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re: How long should a roadside memorial stay up?

Posted on 5/10/19 at 4:17 pm to
Posted by WHATASHAME
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2009
717 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 4:17 pm to
You should feel bad for starting this thread.
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 5/10/19 at 4:21 pm to
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Posted by Squid
Goodlettsville
Member since Sep 2006
1360 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 4:24 pm to
There was a story in my area a few years ago: a woman had created a memorial for her daughter. Trouble is, it was in somebody’s front yard. The yard owner took down the memorial, the mother got outraged and called the local news, etc etc.

I’ve told my wife that I’ll haunt her if I die in a car accident and she puts one of those stupid things up. She also better not dedicate her rear windshield to me, either (another tacky custom that needs to end).
Posted by whitetiger1234
They/Them
Member since Oct 2016
6511 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 4:32 pm to
quote:

Well, they picked up the pieces and stuck a test tube into his chest cavity to do the blood test. Nothing too out of the ordinary. I guess the transmission and hood laying in the ditch for several months after a grade crossing hit could be a kind of memorial as well.


Please start from the very beginning. This is very interesting.
Posted by Jj283
Houma
Member since May 2015
810 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 4:42 pm to
The thing that gets me is that if anyone dies in some other way than a car accident you never really see a memorial other than their grave site.

Someone dies at the hospital- no memorial at the spot it occurred. Guy has heart attack on treadmill at the gym- they aren't putting a cross next to the treadmill.

I get people are grieving, but it has s always struck me as a little strange.
Posted by QuietTiger
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2003
26256 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 6:58 pm to
These's one at Friederick's and Wisner that's been there for over 20 years. Obviously replenished when needed.
Posted by 225bred
COYS
Member since Jun 2011
20970 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 7:00 pm to
Op sucks cocks n dicks
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
49649 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 7:04 pm to
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I'm actually going to say one year....however, you must apply for a permit and pay a small fee, in addition to posting a $ 100.00 removal bond. If at the end of one year you remove it, you get your bond back. IF you do not remove it, the bond is forfeited and goes to the DPW of the municipality that is charged with removing it.

The memorial must likewise meet certain guidelines
( ie cannot obstruct line of sight, traffic, construction materials etc).

I am against the willy nilly setting them up



I guess we found the fricking politician that wants to tax the memorial.
Posted by SlapahoeTribe
Tiger Nation
Member since Jul 2012
12483 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 7:19 pm to
Someone got killed in a car wreck on the road right in front of my neighbor’s house. Complete stranger. The family put up a small (< 3 ft) cross with various adornments in the ROW right where it happened. At first my neighbor didn’t say anything, but as the weeks turned into months and the family kept adding to it - a little trinket hanging from it, a picture frame attached to it, and eventually a solar powered light to shine on it at night - my neighbor began to complain to the rest of us.

Didn’t quite know what to tell him. I sympathized with the family, but I also understood his displeasure with a somewhat tacky memorial basically in his front yard.

It’s been a few years now and it’s still there, and they’ve never said a word to each other, I’m not sure he’s even met the family.
Posted by Eauxs Binder
Member since Nov 2016
54 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 7:25 pm to
What about the 5 just north of the parish line on I-10?
Posted by Marciano1
Marksville, LA
Member since Jun 2009
19917 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 8:33 pm to
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roadside memorial

They don't bother me at all.
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
12149 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 8:37 pm to
Should never go up.
Posted by BBATiger
Member since Jun 2005
16754 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 8:53 pm to
Nothing Memorial about it. It’s just done by people who can’t deal or let go. If the body is removed and buried, the place to memorialize is the gravesite.
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
22127 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 8:57 pm to
As long as family wants
Posted by dagrippa
Saigon
Member since Nov 2004
12169 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 9:19 pm to
When they stop manicuring it they are in the acceptance stage and it goes away
Posted by AUsteriskPride
Albuquerque, NM
Member since Feb 2011
18385 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 9:23 pm to
I've explicitly stated to family that if I die in a car crash, leave no memorial behind. Hell, I don't even want a funeral, just cremate me, spend the rest on a cool vacation, and chunk the ashes where you see fit.
Posted by cwil177
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2011
29571 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 9:31 pm to
There is one in Shreveport on line avenue for a guy who died on a motorcycle with a sign that implores people to look out for motorcyclists. It makes it sound like irresponsible drivers were the cause of the crash. The guy died because he was going 30+ mph over the speed limit and didn’t see the line of cars stopped at the light...
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
60768 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 9:44 pm to
I see the one on Drusilla in front of the park, frequently. Makes me sad for all the kids who died there and I send a quick prayer to the families.

I like them in 3rd world countries because they mark dangerous curves in the road.
This post was edited on 5/10/19 at 9:46 pm
Posted by Langland
Trumplandia
Member since Apr 2014
15382 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 9:50 pm to
I feel sorry for the road crews that mow around that shite. If I were them, I'd be like "opps, I didn't see it in that high grass."
Posted by Bigbee Hills
Member since Feb 2019
1531 posts
Posted on 5/10/19 at 9:51 pm to
All I see is a rainbow.

A double rainbow.
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