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re: Just got served divorce papers today
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:35 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:35 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
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7 kids
On the way to kids r us
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:35 am to TheOcean
quote:Which part, like the part where I said they should work at their marriage and never give up? Maybe it sounds psycho bc you have been corrupted by society and don't recognize good when you see it.
Your advice is borderline psycho/stalkerish/creepy
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:35 am to arcalades
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when did men become such quitters. Quitters are worse than pussies.
she was the one that served the divorce papers
he was the one that wanted to go to counseling
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:36 am to arcalades
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when did men become such quitters. Quitters are worse than pussies.
Dude I'm pretty close to your line of thinking on some things. But saving every marriage is just not sensible.
I know of some marriages not worth saving. Like where one person literally was so inept at being a partner and parent that lives may have been at risk. It wasn't neglect or abuse, just someone completely unsuited for parenthood or marriage. As in, undiagnosed cognitive issues that didn't fully show up until deep into married life.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:36 am to More beer please
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when did men become such quitters. Quitters are worse than pussies.
God god you are pathetic
Because you disagree with him? C'mon.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:36 am to arcalades
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like the part where I said they should work at their marriage and never give up?
THEY*
They is the key word there. They implies more than him. What if the other part of "they" does not want it to work?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:38 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
You may want to PI up and catch her banging some other dude with no rubber. For the financial pain with 7 kids will mirror the emotional pain you now feel very soon. Keep your chin up, don't remarry, bang randoms and put kiddos first. Prayers sent
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:38 am to Tigertown in ATL
I disagree with his idea that every marriage can be saved and all the man has to do is get on his hands and knees, beg, manipulate, or whatever for "the sake of the kids".
Kids arent stupid. I promise they would rather have a civilized set of divorced parents than watch their parents be miserable and fight constantly. If I watched my dad act the way this guy suggests I would be embarrassed.
Kids arent stupid. I promise they would rather have a civilized set of divorced parents than watch their parents be miserable and fight constantly. If I watched my dad act the way this guy suggests I would be embarrassed.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:39 am to Tigertown in ATL
There is middle ground.
This board is not a good source of advice for men with serious relationship problems. It is a good source of advice if your wife is a cheating whore, but that isn't nearly as common as we indicate on here.
However, if the OP really tried to work it out, gave his full effort, then he's got to deal with what he's been handed. There is no sense in flinging yourself to her mercy.
Now, if after some real self-evaluation, he realizes he's not been a very good husband and hasn't taken stuff very seriously, by all means, go beg for your life back. I'm not above that shite if it means there is a chance of saving my family.
This board is not a good source of advice for men with serious relationship problems. It is a good source of advice if your wife is a cheating whore, but that isn't nearly as common as we indicate on here.
However, if the OP really tried to work it out, gave his full effort, then he's got to deal with what he's been handed. There is no sense in flinging yourself to her mercy.
Now, if after some real self-evaluation, he realizes he's not been a very good husband and hasn't taken stuff very seriously, by all means, go beg for your life back. I'm not above that shite if it means there is a chance of saving my family.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:39 am to Salmon
quote:That doesn't mean she doesn't want it to work. You are limiting your thinking. Even if she thinks she's 100% done, that doesn't mean he can't work it out.
she was the one that served the divorce papers
he was the one that wanted to go to counseling
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:40 am to arcalades
quote:Are you just trolling? You're trolling aren't you?
No, Salmon is confused/deceived
when did men become such quitters. Quitters are worse than pussies.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:40 am to arcalades
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Even if she thinks she's 100% done, that doesn't mean he can't work it out.
So he should spend the rest of his life trying? Come on dude
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:41 am to Salmon
quote:I have been there. You don't know she isn't interested in working things out.
They is the key word there. They implies more than him. What if the other part of "they" does not want it to work?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:41 am to Will Cover
quote:she's making a play on him for custody and sole ownership of the domiciliary home.
Did you verbally abuse her?
Some bitches be trippin'.
Domestic abuse claims come with an automatic 1 year criminal restraining order against you and the children.
That's right bud. Just let that sink in for a minute.
A year before you get to plea your case,and by then your children will be accustomed to living without you in their lives.
This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 10:00 am
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:41 am to soccerfüt
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Counseling an option?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:41 am to Salmon
quote:
THEY*
They is the key word there. They implies more than him. What if the other part of "they" does not want it to work?
You're not responsible for what she does. If you mean what you said on the altar (in a Christian marriage), then you yourself never stop trying to make things work. If you're Catholic like the OP, "divorce" is not the end of the marriage anyway.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:42 am to The Sad Banana
quote:No. You sound like a quitter so naturally you wouldn't understand.
Are you just trolling? You're trolling aren't you?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:42 am to arcalades
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You don't know she isn't interested in working things out.
It is way more likely that she isnt. Since, you know, she is trying to divorce him and quit counseling.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:43 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
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23 years of marriage
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7 kids
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4 are 9 and under.
Every sperm is sacred?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:43 am to arcalades
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You don't know she isn't interested in working things out.
well neither do you
although I would find it hard to believe that a woman would be so callous to just casually throw away 23 years of marriage and the father of her 7 kids
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