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Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:49 am to tigerfoot
quote:Which is the crappy part?
Why are you giving such crappy advice in a situation you have no idea about, you have no idea how big of an a-hole he may have been or if he has been busting his arse for years to resolve their differences.
quote:That's bc your understanding is small. I suggested do what it takes. He can do what is ideal later. For the time being, he can tell her what she wants to hear if that's what it takes.
You suggested manipulating and faking it to make the marriage 'work', I cant imagine there could be worse advice.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:50 am to More beer please
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And my wife thanks her dad constantly for ending his marriage even though her and her brother were extremely young. He got full custody and raised them almost their whole lives. He is far from perfect but not every situation can be saved by foolishly begging your wife to stay with you for "the sake of the kids".
Don't disagree at all.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:50 am to CadesCove
quote:Those are inaccurate absolutes. My life is proof.
It absolutely takes two to wreck a marriage, just like it takes two to save one.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:51 am to arcalades
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Those are inaccurate absolutes. My life is proof.
so your wife did nothing to save your marriage? it was all you?
I'm sure she would disagree
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:52 am to Salmon
And she didnt have any faults at all. Yeah ok
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:52 am to Salmon
quote:No, I don't think he is doing that. That much is obvious. He said he is clueless. How can he be telling her what she wants to hear if he is clueless?
You don't think he is doing that? It sounds to me like he has/is fighting for his marriage and for some time now.
quote:The day after the end of the world.
At what point do you think it is ok to say "you know what, frick it, you're being unreasonable, I tried, I failed, lets end this"
never?
signed--God
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:53 am to mach316
That woman blames the husband for the situation they are in. You are right she served the papers and believe it or not she is riding cock somewhere else. OP needs to move on and try and take care of 7 kids. oh my lord 7 kids
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:53 am to arcalades
quote:
Attack me personally bc you lack understanding. Well done. Ad Hominem is always a sign that you can't discuss/debate very well.
You stated that 100% capitulation to her demands is what saved your marriage. People have gained understanding about you from your statements in this thread. If they don't know the full story, it's because you aren't telling it. If incorrect, expand and educate them.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:53 am to More beer please
quote:Are we really going to jump that far ahead?
Later, they can work at making the marriage what it should be.
She's the one that already gave up once, why do you think she wont do it again?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:53 am to Salmon
Y'all ever notice how the OP in threads like this abandons at about page 3, leaving the rest of us to bash each other like lunatics?
Guys, nothing is absolute. Learning to discuss and debate without getting personal is a good thing.
Guys, nothing is absolute. Learning to discuss and debate without getting personal is a good thing.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:53 am to arcalades
quote:
How can he be telling her what she wants to hear if he is clueless?
maybe because she isn't communicating with him?
quote:
The day after the end of the world.
signed--God
you're delusional
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:54 am to KosmoCramer
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I would start documenting everything for court if it goes that far. You want as much custody as you can. get a damn fricking good lawyer that specializes in male clients
This and This!
If you want to keep trying that's your gig bro.
I've been down this road including the counseling part. Getting joint legal and residential custody was the best thing I ever did. It's worth the money you will pay to an attorney to have your kids with you as much as possible. Try not to settle for that every-other-weekend shite.
I promise, you will get past all of this and things will get better. After I was divorced for a while I realized how genuinely unhappy I was being married to my Ex. Life is great today and my son is an awesome kid.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:54 am to arcalades
quote:
The day after the end of the world.
signed--God
Wife cheats on you, does drugs, and puts the kids in danger and yet divorce isnt possible. What were you saying about incorrect absolutes?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:54 am to TigerPanzer
quote:
Okay, your priority at this point is simple—be the best dad you can be.
The only thing that really matters at this point. Use this situation to become a better human being. It is an opportunity to do that. It will hurt but use it to challenge yourself to grow.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:54 am to Mo Jeaux
quote:quote:
Link?
Nope.
quote:
Got a link to these stats?
No. You're free to not believe it.
quote:
Hyperbole kinda removes the honesty.
Not really.
Well at least you're pretty much admitting you're full of shite. Takes a man to do that, amirite?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:54 am to Salmon
quote:For a long time it was just me
so your wife did nothing to save your marriage? it was all you?
quote:How can you be sure about something you are wrong about?
I'm sure she would disagree
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:55 am to TigerHam85
quote:
Problem #1
First red flag.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:55 am to arcalades
quote:
Are we really going to jump that far ahead?
But you are jumping ahead to her changing the way she thinks about working things out.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:56 am to TigerHam85
quote:
You probably play golf every Sunday, and you hate golf.
What movie this from?
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