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Posted on 7/14/15 at 1:58 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:00 pm to meauxjeaux2
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that epic post will come in good time. It will be an all inclusive thread with names and pics and evidence i have gathered.
Till then i'm just lending experience and knowledge in this thread in sporadic instances
This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 2:39 pm
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:01 pm to Spaceman Spiff
I have seen this scenario in the military, Navy mostly. Its a rare relationship you have being a military spouse and male. But the military holds true to its standards and the female officers get a good feel for what men go through.
Not a single one I have seen or heard got primary custody of their kids. Most have to pay (deducted from their salary automatically) child support. Even some cases where the husband made more money.
And then all of them will pay retirement to their former husbands. Its that, "may be called into duty" that screws them over, regardless if they are in a field that doesn't deploy.
Not a single one I have seen or heard got primary custody of their kids. Most have to pay (deducted from their salary automatically) child support. Even some cases where the husband made more money.
And then all of them will pay retirement to their former husbands. Its that, "may be called into duty" that screws them over, regardless if they are in a field that doesn't deploy.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:02 pm to volnavy
Incoming 
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volnavy...I think the Vol Navy is one of the coolest things about any road trip...you guys should think about getting a Navy ship docked in Knoxville ala the USS Kidd in Baton Rouge...
...would really fit in well there IMO...
Sorry for hijack...back to OP and wishing him GL!
... volnavy...I think the Vol Navy is one of the coolest things about any road trip...you guys should think about getting a Navy ship docked in Knoxville ala the USS Kidd in Baton Rouge...
...would really fit in well there IMO...
Sorry for hijack...back to OP and wishing him GL!
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:06 pm to TigersOfGeauxld
I actually started going through the process of trying to get a MK V for one of the games. I'm calling it a recruiting tool 
Its no Destroyer but I don't really oversee things like that
Its no Destroyer but I don't really oversee things like that
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:07 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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The occasional PI
This is what you need. It's amazing what these guys can find out. You need to ask around and get a good one - one that's willing to climb trees and hide in bushes - no joke.
2 years ago one of my best friend's husband left her. Come to find out he left her for a woman who was an equally dear friend. (Full-disclosure, I am a woman). They were sneaky as hell and it took the second PI (first was a track and follow guy, useless) to get anything on them. No one even had a clue until the PI got them on camera.
It amazes me what people are willing to go through and what they will put their families through for p@ssy and d%ck. sorry to be crude, but that's what it comes down to.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:07 pm to volnavy
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:10 pm to HaveMercy
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:15 pm to meauxjeaux2
Best representation of life I have seen in a while.
Upvotes on me!
Upvotes on me!
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:20 pm to volnavy
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have seen this scenario in the military, Navy mostly. Its a rare relationship you have being a military spouse and male. But the military holds true to its standards and the female officers get a good feel for what men go through.
Not a single one I have seen or heard got primary custody of their kids. Most have to pay (deducted from their salary automatically) child support. Even some cases where the husband made more money.
And then all of them will pay retirement to their former husbands. Its that, "may be called into duty" that screws them over, regardless if they are in a field that doesn't deplo
This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 2:38 pm
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:29 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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if she tried to get sole custody and keep me from them or something even more nasty
She will be in for a nasty shock when she consults the JAG. I watched an 05 walk out of that meeting with a thousand yard stare.
She is now trying to make her marriage work too.
This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 2:29 pm
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:32 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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As an officer, adultery is especially troublesome.
Depending on rank, etc. doesn't the military look at adulterous relationships as a security risk?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:34 pm to Spaceman Spiff
Word to the wise: might want to delete some of your posts, especially if she knows you post on here
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:35 pm to volnavy
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She will be in for a nasty shock when she consults the JAG. I watched an 05 walk out of that meeting with a thousand yard stare.
She is now trying to make her marriage work too.
Mine is an O5. Deciding if wants to stay in for Capt, but I think she has had enough. Been in for 20 years now, but part was enlisted and then reserves during college.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:35 pm to TheOcean
As far as I know, she doesn't know I post on here, much less my screen name.This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 2:36 pm
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:40 pm to Mid Iowa Tiger
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I thought was faithful, catholic marriage. 7 kids
Yeah, no shite.
Sorry to hear about this though.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 2:44 pm to TheOcean
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Word to the wise: might want to delete some of your posts, especially if she knows you post on here
Better?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 3:00 pm to Mid Iowa Tiger
[quote]Yes and no. We are not formally separated but she has been in McKinney for a little while helping her mom with health issues and actually filed in Collin County Tx even though Harris county is out home[/quot
that is not how it works. you have to reside in the county with the kids for 6 months I believe. check the family code.
that is not how it works. you have to reside in the county with the kids for 6 months I believe. check the family code.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 3:01 pm to Spaceman Spiff
Yeah Spiff, glad to see you went back and edited some stuff.
My take is that your marriage is toast. At this point your wife is having things hung over her head to keep her there. Ironically, it's the same crap that keeps most men in marriages they would rather walk away from but can't because they have too much to lose. She isn't going to forget this and she is going to resent it. Right now you are giving her time and space to plan her exit strategy and plan her revenge. She may just wait and the day after retirement you get served, who knows? Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn. Truer words have never been spoken. Sweet part is that I am guessing you will end up with half her retirement regardless, so that's good.
This is a great example of how things have shifted in our society. That babble earlier about how these "princesses" are upset that men now see them as peers and treat them like co-workers. These millenials growing up have had it beat into their heads how the sexes are equal, etc. Women shouldn't expect to get treated differently, yet they do, only when it serves them best. Well, you wanted women's lib and equality, you got it. About time our family court systems caught up with the times.
Anyways, you might want to really assess whether your marriage can even last and it might be a good time for you to file while you have such leverage. Doesn't mean any of the info you have needs to go public, it may be what you need to keep things amicable and come to a settlement agreement yourselves. FYI many divorce cases never go to court and usually end up settling when the parties figure out case law is prety much in place and it's pretty much a matter of using formulas to divide your stuff up.
My take is that your marriage is toast. At this point your wife is having things hung over her head to keep her there. Ironically, it's the same crap that keeps most men in marriages they would rather walk away from but can't because they have too much to lose. She isn't going to forget this and she is going to resent it. Right now you are giving her time and space to plan her exit strategy and plan her revenge. She may just wait and the day after retirement you get served, who knows? Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn. Truer words have never been spoken. Sweet part is that I am guessing you will end up with half her retirement regardless, so that's good.
This is a great example of how things have shifted in our society. That babble earlier about how these "princesses" are upset that men now see them as peers and treat them like co-workers. These millenials growing up have had it beat into their heads how the sexes are equal, etc. Women shouldn't expect to get treated differently, yet they do, only when it serves them best. Well, you wanted women's lib and equality, you got it. About time our family court systems caught up with the times.
Anyways, you might want to really assess whether your marriage can even last and it might be a good time for you to file while you have such leverage. Doesn't mean any of the info you have needs to go public, it may be what you need to keep things amicable and come to a settlement agreement yourselves. FYI many divorce cases never go to court and usually end up settling when the parties figure out case law is prety much in place and it's pretty much a matter of using formulas to divide your stuff up.
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