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re: Just got served divorce papers today
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:06 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:06 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
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Mid Iowa Tiger
Stay off of social media and message boards about the divorce. If she gets a lawyer he will do an internet search on you to find incriminating information.
Go back and delete anything and everything you might have said that can be used against you.
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Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:08 am to meauxjeaux2
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mid Feb. for me. Hurts pretty bad right up until waking up this morning and watching the 5'10" former model strolling across her bedroom floor wearing nothing but a thong.
You need to focus on not letting your happiness rely so much on someone else. You're probably going to get burned by this one too.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:09 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
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Mid Iowa Tiger
Wow dude, all kidding aside, I really do hope she comes to her senses and comes home. I know what it's like to build a lifetime and a family together with someone (my 18th anniversary is in 5 days). I cannot imagine the pain of having them just out of the blue one day decide to destroy it all. I'm so sorry for what you're going through and wish you all the best.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:11 am to ctiger69
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Stay off of social media and message boards about the divorce. If she gets a lawyer he will do an internet search on you to find incriminating information.
Go back and delete anything and everything you might have said that can be used against you.
This, even though I don't seem to be following it.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:12 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
Bro, I want to give you a hug and drink a beer with you. I'm sorry it ended like this.
Best of luck.
Best of luck.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:12 am to SabiDojo
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Bro, I want to give you a hug and drink a beer with you. I'm sorry it ended like this.
Best of luck.
All of this minus the hug.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:14 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
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I will most likely live the rest of my life celibate and alone except when my kids are with me. I have never wanted or do I see wanting another person not her in my life.
Yea, no. I'm not saying go whore it up like I did when I was 19, but you gotta find some arse eventually.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:15 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
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5) For those saying crude things about dating, sex, etc. That is not where I am headed or who I am. I will most likely live the rest of my life celibate and alone except when my kids are with me. I have never wanted or do I see wanting another person not her in my life.
I feel like maybe if you changed your outlook on this that would be the surest way to guarantee that she comes back.... your confidence and self worth is probably more transparent than you think it is. If you really desire to be celibate the rest of your life that seems like a very passive and give up mentality that is not attractive to women
And not to pile on because you seem like a good dude but what kind of example is that setting for your kids? You're the victim in this but you need to rise up and live the rest of your life and the best way that you can
This post was edited on 7/15/15 at 9:19 am
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:15 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
No counseling or discussion... just straight to papers?
That's harsh.
That's harsh.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:18 am to TheIndulger
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This post was edited on 9/21/15 at 9:02 am
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:20 am to SirWinston
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I feel like maybe if you changed your outlook on this that would be the surest way to guarantee that she comes back.... your confidence and self worth is probably more transparent than you think it is. If you really desire to be celibate the rest of your life that seems like a very passive and give up mentality that is not attractive to women
And not to pile on because you seem like a good dude but what kind of example is that setting for your kids? You're the victim in this but you need to rise up and live the rest of your life and the best way that you can
dude,this is awesome.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:33 am to SirWinston
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I feel like maybe if you changed your outlook on this that would be the surest way to guarantee that she comes back.... your confidence and self worth is probably more transparent than you think it is. If you really desire to be celibate the rest of your life that seems like a very passive and give up mentality that is not attractive to women
And not to pile on because you seem like a good dude but what kind of example is that setting for your kids? You're the victim in this but you need to rise up and live the rest of your life and the best way that you can
Agreed, this is awesome! However, it is much easier said than done. I try to be the rock. At times it works, and others I end up trying to test the waters and all. But what I always do is let my kids see that nothing is wrong. I always give her a hug and kiss (she will only allow the cheek or forehead) when she comes home and at odd times during the day. I never talk bad about her, either. I think my son is starting to notice her reciprocation, or lack of. That kills me.
AS I said in my original post, I am going to counseling on my own to be the best that I can. And that trickles down to everyone else.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 10:10 am to meauxjeaux2
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Hurts pretty bad right up until waking up this morning and watching the 5'10" former model strolling across her bedroom floor wearing nothing but a thong.
Pics, or you're full of crap!
Posted on 7/15/15 at 10:13 am to SirWinston
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I feel like maybe if you changed your outlook on this that would be the surest way to guarantee that she comes back...
The above is good advice.
Also - LINK
Posted on 7/15/15 at 10:20 am to fr33manator
She's cheating but she has a rude awakening coming. Typical woman, she thinks the guy that's fricking her loves her. She is an idiot if she thinks any man is going to marry a who're with 7 kids. She will be alone soon!
Posted on 7/15/15 at 10:25 am to SirWinston
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I feel like maybe if you changed your outlook on this that would be the surest way to guarantee that she comes back.... your confidence and self worth is probably more transparent than you think it is. If you really desire to be celibate the rest of your life that seems like a very passive and give up mentality that is not attractive to women
And not to pile on because you seem like a good dude but what kind of example is that setting for your kids? You're the victim in this but you need to rise up and live the rest of your life and the best way that you can
#1 your opinions seem to be based on a preoccupation with sex. Obviously the OP has no such preoccupation.
#2 the example he is setting for his kids is that he is a man who keeps his promises and doesn't let the pursuit of pleasure dictate his actions
#3 what rule are you using to conclude that living his life the best way that he can includes introducing a strange woman into the lives of his little children? Again, this is an opinion that seems to be based on a preoccupation with sex that leads to people rationalizing all other concerns.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 10:31 am to Spaceman Spiff
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My wife has emotional issues stemming from childhood that are having a definite impact in our marriage
I feel you bro. They are amazingly able to hide that stuff while you are dating, and even long into the marriage. Sadly, they WILL pop up at the worst time. You can be supportive, but you can't fix them. they have to want to be fixed, and do the work necessary to resolve their issues. Some just drown them in alcohol and drugs, prescription and otherwise.
You just have to provide stability to the kid, regardless of what the ex does. The kid will figure it out eventually, and you will have a good relationship with him/her. My last one heads off the college this year, and she(no pics) is amazingly well adjusted. Went thru some rough patches that first split year though. you have to be a rock for your child/ren.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 10:56 am to meauxjeaux2
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He gave you too much of everything you wanted, and life got too easy. You wanted conflict and hardship as if everything else in life did not promise you an endless journey of just that. This is where you failed. The nice guy has been hurt, too, he just chose to stay nice. He learned that different people were going to provide him different things in life. The nice guy also chose not to let any of it change who he was. So, he let you walk away and he called it a day. Everyone always says there are plenty of fish in the sea, and he let you go knowing this, even though it hurt. What you don’t know is that someone else is out there, and she won’t be as foolish you. When you realize all you really want is the nice guy who cares about you too much, it’s going to be too late. Some other girl will be able to see how great he is, and she won’t waste a minute.
This is one of the best things I've read on this site, and perfectly describes the situation between my ex and myself, and now with my new girlfriend.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 11:02 am to LSUZombie
quote:because TD is badassery
This is one of the best things I've read on this site
Posted on 7/15/15 at 11:26 am to Spaceman Spiff
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