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re: Question about bringing in a second woman...
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:52 pm to Mattwells90
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:52 pm to Mattwells90
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The fact that you're making the point that literally the same deeply meaningful act means something sometimes and not other times is enough for me to say, I'm out of this convo. There is seriously nothing more to say.
The fact that you don't understand analogy makes me think you're making the right choice.
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:52 pm to Mattwells90
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It'd be hard to know because getting honest answers from a large enough sample size would be difficult.
Good point. The only reason I know about the couples I mentioned here is we were especially close. I'd bet anything there are other couples close to me that do these things and I'd never know it.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:53 pm to Mattwells90
Look man, I get that you don't condone it, but at least admit why you don't condone it. Just come out and say it is not in line with your religious beliefs. Don't sugar coat it and try to convince us that you are against it because it harms marriages. Admit, it has absolutely nothing to do with the effect it has on people's marriages and everything to do with what YOU believe.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:54 pm to UpToPar
Coco, thanks for the advise
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:56 pm to Mattwells90
Thank you for the in depth analysis.
Would those psychology classes also tell me that every person I had sexual encounters with, I was also in love with?
I agree with Uptopar...... If this is your stance for religious beliefs, just say that and walk away. You aren't giving any other plausible reasons.
Would those psychology classes also tell me that every person I had sexual encounters with, I was also in love with?
I agree with Uptopar...... If this is your stance for religious beliefs, just say that and walk away. You aren't giving any other plausible reasons.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:56 pm to white perch
You're welcome, love!
Posted on 6/14/14 at 12:05 am to CoCo311
why did the last big thread disappear?
Posted on 6/14/14 at 12:47 am to white perch
You'll read a ton of posts that will wail on you and completely miss the only point that you made in your post. Tune them out. Your wife is pitching this to you so you need to accept and deal with that reality.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 12:53 am to white perch
quote:
But, what if the wife is the one who makes the suggestion?
Posted on 6/14/14 at 6:12 am to northshorebamaman
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The fact that you don't understand analogy makes me think you're making the right choice.
Whatever you say.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 6:17 am to UpToPar
quote:
Look man, I get that you don't condone it, but at least admit why you don't condone it. Just come out and say it is not in line with your religious beliefs. Don't sugar coat it and try to convince us that you are against it because it harms marriages. Admit, it has absolutely nothing to do with the effect it has on people's marriages and everything to do with what YOU believe.
I never claimed my opinion wasn't in part due to religious beliefs. The OP asked a question on if we thought it was a good idea. I replied no because between knowing people who tried swinging, my religious convictions, and the opinions of certified clinical psychologists, I have my opinion that it would be a bad idea. But I guess posters on an Internet forum know more than trained professionals with years of experience in their field. If swinging works for you, fine. It's your life and I'm not responsible for how you live it but making swinging out to be a normal thing or something that works for everyone is irresponsible.
This post was edited on 6/14/14 at 6:19 am
Posted on 6/14/14 at 7:23 am to Mattwells90
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Why is it such a difficult concept to grasp that when you agree to marry someone, you agree to have sex with them and only them from that point forward? Good lord people.
Maybe that's what you agreed to with your spouse. How do you know what this guy and his wife's relationship is all about?
Posted on 6/14/14 at 7:39 am to white perch
Black Bream:
A few questions:
1) What does MrsPerch think of you railing her friend in front of her? Have the two of you discussed this yet?
2) Are you ok with the two of them being together if you were not there?
3) What does she think of you and the other woman being together if she is not there?
4) Is the other woman married or seeing someone?
A few questions:
1) What does MrsPerch think of you railing her friend in front of her? Have the two of you discussed this yet?
2) Are you ok with the two of them being together if you were not there?
3) What does she think of you and the other woman being together if she is not there?
4) Is the other woman married or seeing someone?
Posted on 6/14/14 at 7:48 am to white perch
We've had second women, second men, and second couples. Enjoy!!!
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:03 am to 4LSU2
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Black Bream: A few questions: 1) What does MrsPerch think of you railing her friend in front of her? Have the two of you discussed this yet? 2) Are you ok with the two of them being together if you were not there? 3) What does she think of you and the other woman being together if she is not there? 4) Is the other woman married or seeing someone?
1- my focus will be on my wife
2- no
3- that wont happen
4- she's single
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:03 am to 4LSU2
As 4LSU2 has noted, the OP is leaving too much info out of this. What are the wife's primary motives? Does she want to have a lesbian relationship with the other woman without the guilt of cheating? Is she in love with the other woman, both are bi, and she will gain a feeling of security if she can have control over the other woman's choice of male partner? Will she derive any pleasure from watching her husband rail another woman? Does she fear the husband will stray so she is attempting to keep him with the reward of a threesome?
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:05 am to white perch
Do you already know this other woman is down for this? Has your wife already approached her with this idea?
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:07 am to tigerspot50
I couldn't imagine seeing another dudes dick penetrating my wife and the mother of my kids.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:08 am to CorkSoaker
quote:
Do you already know this other woman is down for this? Has your wife already approached her with this idea?
We think so, my wife is talking with her about it.
Posted on 6/14/14 at 9:10 am to Walt OReilly
quote:
another dudes dick
Not involved in this case, mine is the only one
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