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re: Ross Harris found guilty on all 8 counts in the death of his kid.

Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:46 pm to
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91514 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:46 pm to
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Hot car deaths are always suspicious to me.


I know this is well discussed on this board. The most I'll say is that they're always negligent on some level. Whether that level is criminal or not is incredibly difficult to ascertain.

In the case like the OP, he deserves the same fate his 22-month old suffered.
Posted by sicboy
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Member since Nov 2010
79447 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:46 pm to
In other situations, it does happen. Especially if you're off routine (wife is usually the one who takes the kid to daycare) and the child is asleep. I've been quick to judge people for this, but sometimes it is an honest, horrible mistake.

Read a suggestion when a lot of these were happening of taking one shoe off and putting it by their car seat so you'll HAVE to see the child. It sounds stupid and "I would never do that", but I'm sure a lot of the parents this has happened to thought the same thing, and I just never want to risk it. Ever.
Posted by GeauxTigerTM
Member since Sep 2006
30596 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:47 pm to
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don't know if he did it on purpose or not but that shite can happen to anyone, quick.


No...it can't, assuming you're not so self absorbed that you remember you're responsible for a living thing in the back seat.

I say this as a father of two boys, who works from home and had both of them for long stretches when they were not in daycare before they started kindergarten. If you forget your kid is in the backseat, it's because he's not a priority to you...

To this day, even though they are 14 and 9 respectively, I still occasionally glance in the backseat when running errands during the day out of habit from doing it countless times when they were young. This bullshite excuse needs to die.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
298305 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:47 pm to
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Baby sleeping quietly in the back. Stressed out parent that doesn't normally take child to daycare goes on Shiro pilot headed to work. It happens frequently.


I can understand someone forgetting or making a wrong turn temporarily. All day or for hours? I call bullshite.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
75122 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:48 pm to
if this guy purposely left his son to die in a hot car. he needs to die a slow painful death.

tie his worthless arse in a car in death valley and every time he starts to pass out...take him out, let him recover just a little and put him back in. about 50 times.
Posted by sicboy
Because Awesome
Member since Nov 2010
79447 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:49 pm to
It can and could happen to anyone. I'd beg any parent to not get too high and mighty thinking they could never make a mistake.
Posted by PearlJam
NotBeardEaves
Member since Aug 2014
13908 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:49 pm to
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father of two boys, who works from home and had both of them for long stretches when they were not in daycare before they started kindergarten.
Not really the type of circumstance where this happens. It is almost always a parent who normally doesn't take the child to day care getting out of their routine. It can and has happened to plenty of good parents.
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38986 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:50 pm to
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I'd beg any parent to not get too high and mighty thinking they could never make a mistake.

Too late for that.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
75122 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:50 pm to
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It can and could happen to anyone. I'd beg any parent to not get too high and mighty thinking they could never make a mistake.


agreed. but if somehow they prove he did it intentionally ......
Posted by PearlJam
NotBeardEaves
Member since Aug 2014
13908 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:51 pm to
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I can understand someone forgetting or making a wrong turn temporarily. All day or for hours? I call bullshite.
You get to work and walk in and don't think about it until it is too late. It doesn't sound like that happened here, but I have seen it in several other instances.
Posted by sicboy
Because Awesome
Member since Nov 2010
79447 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:53 pm to
That's the difference in this case. It was premeditated. While his son was baking in the car, he was sexting teens.
Posted by sicboy
Because Awesome
Member since Nov 2010
79447 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:54 pm to
Before it's too late, I should say.
Posted by dmjones
Acworth, GA
Member since Mar 2016
2303 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:54 pm to
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Not really the type of circumstance where this happens. It is almost always a parent who normally doesn't take the child to day care getting out of their routine. It can and has happened to plenty of good parents.


Wasn't the case with this dirtbag. He regularly dropped the kid off and had breakfast with him just minutes before forgetting him.

Chuck Boring is a hell of a prosecutor. Glad that he got the case.
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
45047 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:54 pm to
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It can and has happened to plenty of good parents.
Absolutely. A friend of my family (a couple)forgot their kid in their car in MY driveway. They came by for a visit and when I asked "hows the kids" they both panicked and ran back outside to get her out the car. Luckily it had only been a few minutes but it was a hot/humid evening and the kid was crying and overheated tbh.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91514 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:56 pm to
quote:

I say this as a father of two boys, who works from home and had both of them for long stretches when they were not in daycare before they started kindergarten. If you forget your kid is in the backseat, it's because he's not a priority to you...


To be fair, this isn't exactly the situation where it happens. It is usually routine oriented, not a situation where you're working from home for a time and what not.
Posted by PearlJam
NotBeardEaves
Member since Aug 2014
13908 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:56 pm to
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Luckily it had only been a few minutes but it was a hot/humid evening and the kid was crying and overheated tbh
It doesn't take long to heat up to dangerous levels. I hate hearing and thinking about these cases.
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
45047 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:59 pm to
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It doesn't take long to heat up to dangerous levels. I hate hearing and thinking about these cases.
It was scary, the mother was devastated thinking about the "what if" scenario. Definitely an eye opener.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
88817 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:03 pm to
The situation in the OP clearly isn't an accident. And the thread has apparently moved on from that situation. Having said that...

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No...it can't, assuming you're not so self absorbed that you remember you're responsible for a living thing in the back seat.

I say this as a father of two boys, who works from home and had both of them for long stretches when they were not in daycare before they started kindergarten. If you forget your kid is in the backseat, it's because he's not a priority to you...



Always that one a-hole in these threads. Congrats on your mistake-free life.

Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91514 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:05 pm to
I've got kids. I've never come close to a situation of this type. I've never forgotten them anywhere.

However, I certainly understand how it can happen and I'd never be so callous as to act like it is beneath me.
Posted by Swoopin
Member since Jun 2011
22046 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:05 pm to
I think that was proven to not be true in the trial.

But he did talk incessantly about wishing he wasn't tied down.
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