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Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:14 am to
Posted by Murray
Member since Aug 2008
14824 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:14 am to
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And how many guys are gonna ask their wife if it's OK to grow facial hair


I do and she nixes it every time. The catch is that I don't want to grow facial hair anyway(she doesn't know that).

I give her that win so she can't say anything when I veto her request for short hair. I would find short hair on her less attractive.

Ultimately, she can do whatever she likes and same for me but it's just easier this way. Path of least resistance.
Posted by LSUTigersVCURams
Member since Jul 2014
21940 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:14 am to
Your wife cuts off all her hair without telling you first, go ahead and file for divorce because there is a 100% chance she's taking the BBC.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43367 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:17 am to
Or munching carpet.

Who wants to be married to a woman who looks like a fricking man.
Posted by SpqrTiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2004
9676 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:18 am to
I prefer long hair, and my wife knows it.

I've told her if she ever cuts it short, she's going to sleep outside until it grows back.

Now, I know I sound like an a-hole, but this is actually the opposite. I'm being a good husband because I'm telling her what my limit is on something. I'm communicating that, so that we never have that problem. If something is really important to you, don't keep it inside. Share it. You have to let each other know what the deal-breakers are. She has them for me, too.

Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16648 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:19 am to
I wouldn't expect mine to ask for permission, but I would like her to ask my opinion. I did before I grew a beard.

I hate pixie cuts and that dipshit Kate Gosselin haircut every fat housewife was getting there for awhile.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
117415 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:21 am to
Ummm.....

It's her hair, not his. And hair grows back. It's not like it is a permanent change. This is ridiculous
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
117415 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:22 am to
Glad to see you married your wife for the right reasons. Sometimes I really hate men.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43367 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:22 am to
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It's her hair, not his. And hair grows back. It's not like it is a permanent change. This is ridiculous


No one is arguing that it's not okay to do what you want to your hair.

Just don't be all pissed off when your man leaves you.
This post was edited on 6/5/17 at 9:24 am
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16648 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:25 am to
quote:

Glad to see you married your wife for the right reasons. Sometimes I really hate men.


Attraction is a huge part of a relationship.

Let yourself go and got left?
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
46241 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:26 am to
Should he be obligated to tell his man-haired wife about sticking his dick in a woman that has hair like his wife used to?
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
117415 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:29 am to
I'm just saying that hair grows back.

Do I like a shaved head? frick no. But when my husband did it I didn't make him sleep outside until it grew back

I let him know I didn't like it. He didn't do it again. I'd be much more unhappy about something PERMANENT done without discussion, like a tattoo.
This post was edited on 6/5/17 at 9:31 am
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
20107 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:31 am to
Drastic change in appearance = having an affair
Posted by SpqrTiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2004
9676 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:40 am to
quote:

Glad to see you married your wife for the right reasons. Sometimes I really hate men.


Now don't be such an extremist. I married my wife because she's an incredibly kind and intelligent person. So capable, and so caring.

There's nothing wrong with having standards. My wife has very high standards that I have to live up to. If I let myself turn into a huge fatass... she would not be happy with that. If I grew a beard... not happy. If I lose my temper... bad news. If I show bad moral judgement... it's bad for me. But I know these things because she's told me these things. And I'm cool with that. We put our best foot forward for each other because it makes our marriage hum like a fine-tuned engine.

If people outside our house think otherwise, well, honestly, we couldn't care less. All that matters to us is that our castle stands strong.
Posted by MyNameIsNobody
Member since Dec 2013
1203 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:41 am to
is this her?

Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
46241 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:46 am to
quote:

It's her hair, not his.


Wrong. Each individual in the couple has a responsibility to the unit. If he likes her with long hair, we an ascertain that her hair is one of the things, in the package, that attracted him to her. She has a responsibility to maintain a feminine appearance.

I am not a cave man and understand that everybody ages though.

Under your system of "It is her hair and she will do as she pleases with it, screw him" attitude there is a deeper meaning. You don't care about his wants and likes enough to take his opinion into consideration. "He should love her for who she is inside" only goes so far when she has a man's haircut and a 33" butt crack.

Under your system he should be able to do whatever he wants, whenever he wants, with no regard to her feelings, or how it affects her and them, as a couple.

Lighten up on the narcissism a little and grow your hair back out.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16648 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:49 am to
quote:

I let him know I didn't like it. He didn't do it again. I'd be much more unhappy about something PERMANENT done without discussion, like a tattoo.


Wouldn't you have preferred you discussed it before hand and he didn't do it in the first place? Communication is a big part of a healthy couple.
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
42235 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:49 am to
My wife does this. I told her, its your hair. Cut it off if you want. I may or may not like the results. It will grow back.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
117415 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:52 am to
I'm not saying this as someone who has ever had a massive hair change. Still long and curly here.

But, what if he happens to like her super blonde. Years of over processing have killed her hair and she has to cut off the fried parts. Then what?

Or god forbid, someone's wife gets cancer and loses their hair. Should they have to sleep outside? This is just ridiculous.

Should I have kicked buzz cut husband out? Or is that different because he's a man? I'm adult enough to know that hair grows back.
Posted by randybobandy
NOLA
Member since Mar 2015
2088 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:53 am to
Landing pad to clean shaven would probably excite her spouse. No need for prior approval, wax that baby.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
117415 posts
Posted on 6/5/17 at 9:54 am to
Nope. It's hair. And it's his hair.

I may not have known if I liked it or not without ever seeing it, anyway.
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