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re: Single women on social media
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:11 pm to kingbob
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:11 pm to kingbob
He didn’t apply shite. He stated, matter-of-factly, that Pareto was developed because of the selection principles of women. Which is 100%, unadulterated, bullshite.
As for you, if you’re expecting a woman to not be in contact with you everyday, you’re gonna be a very lonely man.
As for you, if you’re expecting a woman to not be in contact with you everyday, you’re gonna be a very lonely man.
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Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:11 pm to kingbob
Hey 
I think you're fine. I just think setting "rules" instead of just picking a compatible partner and letting things fall where they naturally do is a poor idea. Find someone whose ideas on communication align with yours vs. setting rules to make yourself seem more confident.
Because really that's what it sounds like. Like you're making arbitrary rules to seem aloof and confident like dudes who are that way naturally, but you're dating women who are needier and even demanding.. so the entire thing is a mess.
Even the aloof dudes become a lot less so when they're very into someone. If you don't feel that way about the chick you're seeing, on to the next.
I think you're fine. I just think setting "rules" instead of just picking a compatible partner and letting things fall where they naturally do is a poor idea. Find someone whose ideas on communication align with yours vs. setting rules to make yourself seem more confident. Because really that's what it sounds like. Like you're making arbitrary rules to seem aloof and confident like dudes who are that way naturally, but you're dating women who are needier and even demanding.. so the entire thing is a mess.
Even the aloof dudes become a lot less so when they're very into someone. If you don't feel that way about the chick you're seeing, on to the next.
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:13 pm to AllDayEveryDay
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AllDayEveryDay
You're out of your element, Donnie
We all know that Aggies love dudes
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:14 pm to AllDayEveryDay
You’re in that bottom 80%, aren’t you?
Literally the only reason to explain why you’re so rustled right now
Literally the only reason to explain why you’re so rustled right now
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:15 pm to Rouge
Man, woman, Lipstick/butch, catcher/pitcher. What’s the difference these days.
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:15 pm to AllDayEveryDay
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He didn’t apply shite. He stated, matter-of-factly, that Pareto was developed because of the selection principles of women. Which is 100%, unadulterated, bullshite.
Bit of a stretch there chief. Most people just mention it as being applicable to the dating world. You are grasping at straws in attempt at a gotcha. Mega yikes.
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As for you, if you’re expecting a woman to not be in contact with you everyday, you’re gonna be a very lonely man.
Feelsbadman
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:17 pm to AllDayEveryDay
quote:Mikel is the only one here with all those experiences
Man, woman, Lipstick/butch, catcher/pitcher. What’s the difference these days.
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:17 pm to LouisianaLady
Pretty much. I think it’s hard to know what someone’s ideas are on communicating early on in a relationship. You have to set boundaries early or else you’ll develop habits that are much harder to break. If they cannot respect those boundaries or reach a compromise that works, then you’re right, the relationship won’t work out. In relationships where I didn’t set boundaries early, we got a lot deeper into it before realizing it wasn’t sustainable and breaking up.
As for the point about not messaging every day, that was more about insecurity and perception of situations. Women nearly always assume the worst case scenario when their man doesn’t respond right away yet never think the same of themselves not responding for hours at a time because men rarely jump to conclusions as quickly.
As for the point about not messaging every day, that was more about insecurity and perception of situations. Women nearly always assume the worst case scenario when their man doesn’t respond right away yet never think the same of themselves not responding for hours at a time because men rarely jump to conclusions as quickly.
This post was edited on 2/7/20 at 1:20 pm
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:19 pm to Jeff_B
IWSWH then PIIHB
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:20 pm to LouisianaLady
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NGL, I have a feeling a lot of the problem in this thread and all over the internet regarding the topic is just that a lotta these people are ugly and cringey. There I said it.
Always going to be a frustrated part of a population but I think a big part is their market is even smaller now. The 4, 5, 6s that they should be able to comfortably date now think they are too good for them. Used to be celebrities were seen as important bc they had widespread access now random people think Twitter/IG/etc. gives them that same level of importance.
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:26 pm to Hoops
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Hoops
You've made a lot of good posts in this thread that I 100% agree with.
Kingbob I emailed you something
Or maybe its not you. But I think it is.This post was edited on 2/7/20 at 1:27 pm
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:26 pm to Hoops
And like I said...
Men are just as guilty of this as women are
Men are just as guilty of this as women are
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:27 pm to OrangeBoi
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A girl who has her head on straight usually had a tough father who was the actual leader of the house/not hen pecked husband
It's true. One who didn't "ask" that you respect his daughter on that first date. You knew you damn-well better- or it would mean 'we have business to tend to'.
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:28 pm to Aspercel
Apsy is right. A few of my single guy friends are awesome dudes that would make a great catch, but their #1 priority is looks while they're average. When they finally land a real hottie, she's of course batshit because the sane girls that are their level of hot are not settling for them.
Everyone really has an inflated sense of what they actually have to offer. Believe it or not, your existence is NOT an asset Ya gotta bring more to the table than they, ladies and men.
Everyone really has an inflated sense of what they actually have to offer. Believe it or not, your existence is NOT an asset
Ya gotta bring more to the table than they, ladies and men. 
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:30 pm to LouisianaLady
quote:I have to spend the rest of my life with my wife...damn right she better be my best fricking friend ever
Seems very boring and sad to not have a friend in your SO.
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:32 pm to LouisianaLady
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Kingbob I emailed you something
Jk, received
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:41 pm to Aspercel
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Men are just as guilty of this as women are
I mean yeah men do it too but there’s no way it’s as widespread. How often would you say attractive women frick ugly guys just bc of easy access vs the opposite?
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:45 pm to Aspercel
Men are guilty of a lot in this dating-relationship arena. This is a 99% male board tho so you’re not going to hear much about it.
Posted on 2/7/20 at 1:47 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
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Men are guilty of a lot in this dating-relationship arena. This is a 99% male board tho so you’re not going to hear much about it.
Pete Nocchio
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