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re: Spanking a kid--where do you stand?
Posted on 4/28/19 at 7:51 pm to Conner4real
Posted on 4/28/19 at 7:51 pm to Conner4real
Tell me, what’s dumb about it?
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Posted on 4/28/19 at 7:53 pm to ForeverLSU02
quote:
One party said it is never right to spank a child (even a slight pop to the butt)
and thus the snowflake generation began totally unprepared to face adversity or ever be told they have to face the consequences of their actions or hear the word no in their life without dropping to the fetal position in tears
This post was edited on 4/28/19 at 7:55 pm
Posted on 4/28/19 at 7:53 pm to Conner4real
My 3 year old son and 2 year old daughter both get spanked. Usually 3 pops to the butt. Another trick I’ve learned is the lip flick when they are being sassy. Take my middle finger against my thumb and flick the shite out of the corner of their lip. Limited damage but it’s stings them just enough to hate it. It’s a solid go to in a public setting where you can be discrete
My dad made us pick our belt out of his dresser. That was some psychological warfare but 3 boys and none of us ever got into any real trouble with school or law etc so....
My dad made us pick our belt out of his dresser. That was some psychological warfare but 3 boys and none of us ever got into any real trouble with school or law etc so....
Posted on 4/28/19 at 7:55 pm to lsufan9193969700
"He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes."
Posted on 4/28/19 at 7:56 pm to lsufan9193969700
I got my arse whipped with all kinds of stuff. Worst of which was a clothes hanger. Damn
Posted on 4/28/19 at 7:57 pm to lsufan9193969700
I popped mine on his leg the other day for insistent whining and telling his mom he wasn’t going to do something.
Posted on 4/28/19 at 7:57 pm to lsufan9193969700
My wife teaches my son (two years) not to hit... by telling him no and hitting him 
Posted on 4/28/19 at 7:58 pm to Dicky
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My wife teaches my son (two years) not to hit... by telling him no and hitting him
Do what I say, not what I do son
Posted on 4/28/19 at 7:59 pm to Conner4real
This is also the thread where people without kids come tell us parents that were evil for spanking our kids and claim “there are other ways.”
This post was edited on 4/28/19 at 8:03 pm
Posted on 4/28/19 at 8:00 pm to lsufan9193969700
Well this is the south
If you're a kid with parents that have legitimately lived to be unrespectable to everyone and/or are incapable of deep thought in order to teach underlying good with explanation to instill it in the child to want it for themselves...
The "parent" that usually has other undesirable traits like impatience can't use privilege take aways either(although negative post bad behavior teaching is still secondary as a method, kids should be raised to know right from wrong and wish to please their parents to atleast reasonable extent). They act on impulse like hitting a remote that suddenly stops working
Kids that get beat can't put their own first by accepting their own parents didn't give a frick and changing how they choose to raise theirs
Cycle continues
"I turned out fine" = not in jail, alive lol
If you're a kid with parents that have legitimately lived to be unrespectable to everyone and/or are incapable of deep thought in order to teach underlying good with explanation to instill it in the child to want it for themselves...
The "parent" that usually has other undesirable traits like impatience can't use privilege take aways either(although negative post bad behavior teaching is still secondary as a method, kids should be raised to know right from wrong and wish to please their parents to atleast reasonable extent). They act on impulse like hitting a remote that suddenly stops working
Kids that get beat can't put their own first by accepting their own parents didn't give a frick and changing how they choose to raise theirs
Cycle continues
"I turned out fine" = not in jail, alive lol
Posted on 4/28/19 at 8:01 pm to fallguy_1978
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Do what I say, not what I do son ?
This is gonna hurt me more than it hurts you
Posted on 4/28/19 at 8:01 pm to lsufan9193969700
I don’t believe in spanking
My 19 year old son is a really good person
His dad was spanked relentlessly and is a pos narcissist
Imo spanking just teaches children to hide their misbehavior better
My 19 year old son is a really good person
His dad was spanked relentlessly and is a pos narcissist
Imo spanking just teaches children to hide their misbehavior better
Posted on 4/28/19 at 8:02 pm to Prominentwon
quote:
This is also the thread where people with kids come tell us parents that were evil for spanking our kids and claim “there are other ways.”
Are you suggesting that there aren’t “other ways”?
Posted on 4/28/19 at 8:03 pm to lsufan9193969700
quote:
Spank only for certain reasons?
It's not the best long term, but it works immediately. If the kid is doing something dangerous, you don't have time to reason with them. One smack on the buttocks and they get the message.
Posted on 4/28/19 at 8:04 pm to DCtiger1
quote:Well, apparently, thumping them in the face is a thing.
Are you suggesting that there aren’t “other ways”?
Posted on 4/28/19 at 8:04 pm to BigOrangeBri
quote:
This is gonna hurt me more than it hurts you
When I knew I was getting my arse whipped ahead of time I'd put every pair of underwear on that I had in my drawer and then put my pants back on
Posted on 4/28/19 at 8:06 pm to lsufan9193969700
never received a beating I didn’t deserve
and growing up I deserved a lot of them
and growing up I deserved a lot of them
Posted on 4/28/19 at 8:06 pm to lsufan9193969700
I say “Paint that back door red” any chance they deserve it. Never excessive and not more than a couple pops. Kids need limits. They also need to understand circumstances. If it shows on their butt, then you went too far.
Posted on 4/28/19 at 8:08 pm to BigOrangeBri
You do realize that rod means discipline and not a literal rod, right?
Posted on 4/28/19 at 8:08 pm to lsufan9193969700
We have a 4 year old, and often timeout and other things don’t work. Spanking does.
When i grew up, spanking worked on me, not on my brother. He just laughed, but he couldn’t stand timeout.
We use what works. If spanking stops working, we use something else.
I’m more willing to spank my son than I will he my daughter when she’s old enough. Don’t know why.
Lastly: my granddad used to say “never punish them when you’re angry, and don’t stop punishing when they’re angry.” As I’ve become a parent, I’ve learned the wisdom of those words.
When i grew up, spanking worked on me, not on my brother. He just laughed, but he couldn’t stand timeout.
We use what works. If spanking stops working, we use something else.
I’m more willing to spank my son than I will he my daughter when she’s old enough. Don’t know why.
Lastly: my granddad used to say “never punish them when you’re angry, and don’t stop punishing when they’re angry.” As I’ve become a parent, I’ve learned the wisdom of those words.
This post was edited on 4/28/19 at 8:10 pm
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