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Posted on 9/20/19 at 10:02 am to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
298305 posts
Posted on 9/20/19 at 10:02 am to
quote:

Letting go of expectations is one of the hardest things in life.


This

Waaay too many people overthink things. Broaden horizons, meet people, odds are you find someone you really are into that's not in your original tiny box

One of my best friends from HS had this list. I always told him it would make him more miserable than happy. The girl he's been married to for 30 years isn't anything like his original expectation.
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
23973 posts
Posted on 9/20/19 at 10:06 am to
Sounds to me like you are being too rigid in terms of what you want these women to be. She may be perfect in all areas except for a couple minor issues you could probably overlook, but you are turning it in to a dealbreaker. There has to be some compromises made both ways or you will never find a woman that's perfect for you. And you for her. The odds are just not in your favor doing that.

There is no way you can tell if these women could fit into your future life from going on one date. The woman you are meeting on a first date is not the full picture of that woman. They are somewhat playing a bit of a character they think you want.

My advice would be to relax. Sounds like you are going on dates looking for a woman for the rest of your life. Dont make it so serious. Go have fun with some girls and dont just cross them off the list after one date because she doesnt fit perfectly into your idea of what you want. Let the relationship grow and form naturally. And that's gonna take having a second and third date if you're into her. Good luck and relax man.
Posted by saint tiger225
San Diego
Member since Jan 2011
47657 posts
Posted on 9/20/19 at 10:15 am to
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Posted by lake chuck fan
Vinton
Member since Aug 2011
22392 posts
Posted on 9/20/19 at 10:54 am to
Hmmmmm.... when I first meet a lady, I don't have room in my thoughts for any of those considerations.
I constantly am thinking about sex!
What is my best angle?
Play nice or play it cool?
What does she look like on her knees looking up at me?
How does she look on her knees backwards looking over her shoulder?

Maybe something is wrong with me...??
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
59610 posts
Posted on 9/20/19 at 11:00 am to
I only have a couple rules/dealbreakers/whatever

Don’t be fat
Moderately pretty face
Conservative values
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