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Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:26 pm to
Posted by gooch11
Member since Jan 2015
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Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:26 pm to
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Start keeping secrets, even small ones here and there, and the relationship has cancer. Eventually, it will spread, and it will die.



What dies, the cancer or the relationship?
Posted by SmackoverHawg
Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:26 pm to
I had a woman text me "I wanna ride your face for hours." Her husband saw it. She told him it was the punch line to a joke. He bought it. He was wrong. Same shite here. As a professional "Jody", I can tell you without a doubt your wife is fricking this guy or really wants to. Probably too late to stop it.
Posted by AZTarheeel
Member since Feb 2015
3702 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:33 pm to
-Married 11 years and no kids.

-Approaching 40.

-Reboots a college friendship, "claims never hooked up".

-Guy is loser = probably a bad boy who banged her so well she is pining for him a decade later.

-Wife calls you insecure for calling her out.

Every single one of these is a red flag for cheating. Count your blessings there are no kids involved and get out.
Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:35 pm to
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What dies, the cancer or the relationship?


Both. Cancer cannot live without the host.
Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:36 pm to
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Once again...you have given the worst possible advice


And what advice do you offer?
Posted by LawLessTyGer
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Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:39 pm to
Time to take your balls off the mantle and put them back on...Man the frick up now bro!
If he's truly a "loser" then you really don't have shite to worry about, she could truly be attempting to help an old friend .
Posted by AZTarheeel
Member since Feb 2015
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Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:39 pm to
Professional Jody

Posted by DanW1
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:41 pm to
Hopefully this is just a troll, though it seems less likely to me now.. if not, the guy sounds like a homewrecker.

I'd have a long chat with him before it's too late, if it's not already, as well as with the wife. She's the only one who knows for certain what's going on.

If after 11 years of marriage she's not interested in quelling this misunderstanding over another guy, chances are there's been a problem for a while anyways and it's now coming to a head.

Nip it in the bud asap before the sanctity of your marriage has been broken.

I wouldn't do anything out of spite just yet without at least some hard evidence. I have to believe that two people commited to their marriage would have a much easier time working out some rough edges (trust/communication issues, etc.) rather than explaining, understanding, and forgiving why one or the other slept with a side piece.

Even if the marriage ends due to it, it's probably better ending it on your own terms than finding out the hard way your marriage has been a lie.






Now, if she's already been screwing him all bets are off. Cheating to me is unforgivable though I have seen it overcome by other couples, albeit rarely.

If it were me, with no kids I'd move on in a heart beat.

But that's your choice if you want to rebuild your marriage
Posted by TulaneUVA
Member since Jun 2005
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Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:41 pm to
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I had a woman text me "I wanna ride your face for hours." Her husband saw it. She told him it was the punch line to a joke. He bought it. He was wrong. Same shite here. As a professional "Jody", I can tell you without a doubt your wife is fricking this guy or really wants to. Probably too late to stop it.


Congrats. You're a homewrecker.
Posted by GREENHEAD22
Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:42 pm to
Aren't you a pediatric doctor?
Posted by cusoonkpd
Big Mamou
Member since Apr 2015
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Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:43 pm to
Board has given good advice. OP needs to man up and end this right now!
Posted by weagle99
Member since Nov 2011
35893 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:44 pm to
To be fair, I don't consider someone else's home / relationship to be my responsibility.
Posted by SmackoverHawg
Member since Oct 2011
31111 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:44 pm to
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Aren't you a pediatric doctor?

Not exactly.


And I didn't say any of my bad behaviors were current. And with this being the OT, they could all be hypothetical.
Posted by SmackoverHawg
Member since Oct 2011
31111 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:45 pm to
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Congrats. You're a homewrecker.

Nope. In fact, more a of home fixer sometimes.
Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:45 pm to
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o be fair, I don't consider someone else's home / relationship to be my responsibility.




That's your right.

I hope the world feels the same about you. God forbid you need help one day and the person decides you arent his responsibility and leaves you stranded.
Posted by tigerpimpbot
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Member since Nov 2011
68948 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:47 pm to
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Why is "guy" in quotations? Is there a possibility that it's a gal?


Or maybe one of those types that gets declined service at an Austin whataburger.
Posted by SmackoverHawg
Member since Oct 2011
31111 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 9:48 pm to
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That's your right. I hope the world feels the same about you. God forbid you need help one day and the person decides you arent his responsibility and leaves you stranded.

Can someone MAKE a woman cheat? If it's in her nature, who's fault is it? The man who may have pursued her or her for giving in? What if her current man is a complete POS? Does that make it better? Lots of variables here.
Posted by Mckinley9293
Out of the Womb
Member since Apr 2015
85 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 10:32 pm to
no room for Sissy Boy in your relationship.
Lay down the Law and end it now.
This post was edited on 4/14/15 at 10:33 pm
Posted by Mckinley9293
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Member since Apr 2015
85 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 10:34 pm to
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This post was edited on 4/14/15 at 10:34 pm
Posted by Mckinley9293
Out of the Womb
Member since Apr 2015
85 posts
Posted on 4/14/15 at 10:34 pm to
Don't be a Cuck
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