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Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:16 am to
Posted by caro81
Member since Jul 2017
6123 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:16 am to
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Basically it’s just the girls in my family that don’t really like her.


Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6533 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:17 am to
Listen here Bobby Bouche. Why don't they like her? She a minority?
Posted by rexorotten
Missouri
Member since Oct 2013
5064 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:17 am to
Dump that filthy whore.
Posted by OldRebYeller
Member since Jan 2017
363 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:17 am to
Sounds like your mom is being insecure... give it time and I'm sure your girl will grow on her.

Especially if the guys in the family like her then I wouldn't worry
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
38368 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:18 am to
Women are bullies to other women. This is nothing new
This post was edited on 12/23/21 at 10:27 am
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
40145 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:18 am to
Depends on why momma doesn't approve ... if it's a personality/appearance thing then that's pretty shallow. If she sees things like rudeness/selfishness/ugliness then that's different.

So .. how do you know they don't like her and what did they say as to why??

Personally as a mom, I'd point out what I thought were valid concerns BUT I'd be very careful how I did it and would realize it's STILL up to my kid to make his own choices.
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
66950 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:19 am to
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Nah my mom is super tiny and puts to much value in shite like Louis Vuitton

OPs mom's pic...
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
25188 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:19 am to
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I think she doesn’t like the way she looks.

quote:

Nah my mom is super tiny and puts to much value in shite like Louis Vuitton and my girl is 5’10 former volleyball chick that doesn’t give a dam about materialistic stuff

Because that is what’s important when thinking about the spouse of my son or daughter. Not the person’s character or morals.
This post was edited on 12/23/21 at 10:24 am
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82897 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:19 am to
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I made my mom understand last year that it’s not her choice, but she hasn’t really let up and now it has me second guessing myself.


Sounds like you were a wuss and didn't back it up then

Telling your mom to stop it isn't going to stop anything. Backing up your actions is the only thing that will. This means no more answering the phone and pretending it's all dandy every time she calls. This means declining invitations to gatherings where your SO isn't welcome.

This isn't hard stuff, man.

Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
134082 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:19 am to
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Basically it’s just the girls in my family that don’t really like her. The dudes like her just fine and treat her nice



Probably means she’s well endowed and nicer looking than your female relatives
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
11030 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:19 am to
Just start banging dudes, then you don’t have to worry about it
Posted by MoisterOyster
On a reef
Member since May 2017
127 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:22 am to
She is not black.
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
15037 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:22 am to
quote:

Breaks my heart that momma don’t approve

Is there a reason why she doesn't like her?
Posted by MoisterOyster
On a reef
Member since May 2017
127 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:26 am to
We’ve been dating for a year and both of us in mid 20’s trying to figure our lives out.

Neither of us are trashy i just think they want me to dump her and move back home. I low key wanna move back home too but BR kinda blows
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
14998 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:27 am to
Family acceptance is nice, maybe even desirable. If you defer to your family and break off the relationship BE DAMN HONEST with the girl as to why...it will help her going forward

As for your family, unless there is some compelling reason to dislike your SO tell them to 'get over themselves'
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
73737 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:27 am to
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My mother and I welcomed my brother's wife with open arms,
I have to ask for action pics of this...


Posted by MoisterOyster
On a reef
Member since May 2017
127 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:28 am to
Yes, it’s not the character they don’t like. I can’t quite put my finger on what they don’t like about Her though. I think it’s a good idea to ask them why the hell they don’t like her
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
36127 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:29 am to
Dude, you’re putting way too much stock in your mom’s opinion as old as you are.
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
47422 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:29 am to
don’t put her in that situation
stay home, build a fire, get naked and drunk
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
29291 posts
Posted on 12/23/21 at 10:29 am to
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She is not black.

It would be cooler if she was.
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