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Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:16 am to
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53307 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:16 am to
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She is divorced and lost custody of her kids 

She had some kind of serious issues like drugs.
Posted by Breauxsif
Member since May 2012
22295 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:16 am to
Keep the engagement ring. Who uploads pics of a side piece into a shared iPad with your spouse?
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:16 am to


My ex doesn’t seem to see the massive red flags in a woman that lost custody of her kids.

I guess he can help pay her attorney/court costs
Posted by LSUintheNW
At your mom’s house
Member since Aug 2009
36939 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:17 am to
She's a rebound....

Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
36057 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:17 am to
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I just don’t. I destroyed my life 5 years ago and Rome wasn’t re-built in a year.


When I met hubby, he was definitely in a “rebuilding” place. He gave up pretty much everything in his divorce and had been in a terrible rebound relationship that sucked him dry after that.

It just means the right person will want to be by your side helping you to rebuild.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:19 am to
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Who uploads pics of a side piece into a shared iPad with your spouse?


The pic I posted is different woman. There were actually no pics of the other 2 women. He supposedly didn’t start chatting with shiny red lost her kids woman until a month after he filed. I had been moved out way before that.
Posted by Tiger in the Sticks
Back in the Boot
Member since Jan 2007
1792 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:20 am to
My son met our daughter in law on a dating app when he was in his early 30’s. (Bumble, I think). She lived in Hammond, but was at a friend’s house in Baton Rouge when she saw his profile.. She’s a fantastic stepmom to his first son and he adores her. They married last year and had a son together; so basically, we have another grandson because she didn’t change her settings on the app.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
106837 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:25 am to
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She is divorced and lost custody of her kids (kids live in another state now with their dad) and is currently trying to get them back.



Then no worries. She’s just going to shiv him in his sleep at some point. Win win.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:25 am to
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had been in a terrible rebound relationship that sucked him dry after tha


That is a big reason I am waiting to date again. I’ve been hurt enough and am still working through that and healing(obviously since it is so recent). I gotta work on me and what makes me happy and be content on my own.


Last thing I need is another failed relationship to recover from.
Posted by Breauxsif
Member since May 2012
22295 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:29 am to
This red head must have done some pretty serious shite for a Judge to agree for her to lose custody of her kids.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
106837 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:33 am to
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This red head must have done some pretty serious shite for a Judge to agree for her to lose custody of her kids.


I can’t speak for Arizona but here in Kentucky you’d pretty much have to be a raging drug addict or abuser in order to be a woman and lose your kids completely.

Nurse, I realize it’s a sensitive subject but if he’s fricking around with chicks like that, even if it’s not confirmed physically, get tested.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64238 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:33 am to
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Proof that he had been heavily flirting with a coworker via text. Could tell they hadn’t met up yet by texts. Still....that is cheating to me ...it was clear by texts they would have met up outside of work real soon if I didn’t bust his arse.

Also found out the same day he was flirting with one coworker he made out with another one after meeting up with coworkers after work (while I was visiting my father in the hospital). He swears all they did was kiss...but whatever. At this point does it even matter?

Now he is currently dating another coworker. I so want that to blow up in his face. That’s 3 different women from his company he’s been messing with.




Damn. What is with this guy?


Here I thought you said you knew he was "the one" awhile back and you remained close with his family.

This must be a new development.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:33 am to
No idea.



This post was edited on 2/5/21 at 1:07 pm
Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
17375 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:35 am to
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Would auto upload and share with me if he took any pics of Butters



Don’t want to derail the thread but Butters is an awesome dog name.

Really awesome.
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
33559 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:36 am to
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Baggage. Crazy. Kids.

Pick your poison.


When I graduated college, and moved to Dallas, in the early 80's, my best friend was dating, and had a lady with two boys living with him. One of them told him he was going to kill him in his sleep one night.
Posted by supadave3
Houston, TX
Member since Dec 2005
31990 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:38 am to
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just means the right person will want to be by your side helping you to rebuild.


Thank you for saying that. I truly hope so. I’m a much better person now and honestly in a much better and more secure place than I was 6 years ago, it just doesn’t look like it on the first few dates. My car is a 2010, I live in an apartment, I don’t have the fanciest and nicest clothes, etc.

But I’m 100% sober, very solid employment and in a good place career wise for a move up, and just moved to new city with unlimited possibilities. Investing and putting money aside. 2020 being 2020 kinda killed some momentum though.

Your words really felt reassuring to read. Thank you.
This post was edited on 1/31/21 at 11:53 am
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:38 am to
Why so many women? Is he trying to hide something?
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53307 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:39 am to
Dave, are you still working remotely for the company in LA?
Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
17375 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:39 am to
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So who knows the real story. Either she lost custody or she didn’t want her kids living with her. Either way...that’s a red flag imo.


It’s one of the biggest red flags on the planet.

Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
59465 posts
Posted on 1/31/21 at 11:39 am to
He sounds hot (no homo)
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