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Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:12 pm to
Posted by El Segundo Guy
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Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:12 pm to
I've been divorced twice. Life was rough for a few years after divorce #1 because of finances. However, I started slaying poon and then met #2. We were only married a year and a half. Got divorced and then played the field and had a lot of fun, which led me to #3. I couldn't be happier or more satisfied than I am with my life and situation.
Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11949 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:15 pm to
Hahaha that it was sir! School was so small that it kinda made it that way
Posted by El Magnifico
La casa de tu mamá
Member since Jan 2014
7017 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:16 pm to
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Women are generally unhappy most of the time. They are rarely happy with their husband, kids, career and home. They hate work. It pisses them off and they always think they do more than you
fricking this! I live with this shite everyday. It sucks but,
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some other guy raising my kids
is far from ok with me. Will not happen
Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11949 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:16 pm to
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He wants the 5'6", 112 pound girl he married. She has had three kids and is going about a buck ninety now. She sees all the Oprah shite telling her that he should be attracted to her no matter what.

She decided to look around for some loving and found out that 190 pounds is hard to give away. So she is upset with that. Then, when you ignore her some more her upset goes to anger.

She is going to continue to be mad until you begin tearing it up again.


Holy shite that is funny AF
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85635 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:17 pm to
Actually studies show that children raised by married parents (even if they're unhappy) fair much better than children of divorce

Go to counseling, op
Posted by crispyUGA
Upstate SC
Member since Feb 2011
16249 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:18 pm to
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taking my kids on trips without a control freak present


Sounds great, except the kids part.
Posted by Jimmydatiger
North Endzone
Member since Dec 2011
369 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:18 pm to
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Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
72111 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:19 pm to
what studies? Not being the "link?" a-hole, just genuinely curious.
Posted by bayourougebengal
Member since Mar 2008
7236 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:20 pm to
Suggest marriage counseling, and actually take it seriously when you go. You might have some faults you don't even realize.
Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11949 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:20 pm to
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1. Hire a housekeeper
2. Cook or go out more often
3. Use babysitting more often to go out on dates.
4. Buy her shite that pampers her. Spas and stuff like that.
5. Quit having kids. They're a pain in the arse.
6. Go on vacation more often.
7. Arrange for her to spend time with her girlfriends or sister or whatever she wants


You forgot to add: 8. Get a new fricking job to afford all of the shite you will have to be buying her arse...
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
41897 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:22 pm to
You hit the nail on the head with this one!
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
41897 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:29 pm to
Here's my advice

1. Hire a housekeeper
2. Cook or go out more often
3. Use babysitting more often to go out on dates.
4. Buy her shite that pampers her. Spas and stuff like that.
5. Quit having kids. They're a pain in the arse.
6. Go on vacation more often.
7. Arrange for her to spend time with her girlfriends or sister or whatever she wants

1.As far as a housekeeper, we pretty evenly split the chores: cooking dinner, laundry, cleaning, etc
2.I cook at least half of the meals every week.
3.We are fortunate to have parents that are willing to watch the kids anytime we need/want to. Typical dates are dinner, movies, or grocery shopping. Bored to death with this.
4. I could do better with this one. I'm a fiscal conservative, to put it lightly.
5. We are done with having kids. 100%.
6. I agree with this, but it is difficult because of all of the activities and sports our kids are involved in.
7. She gets to do this quite a bit.
Posted by bnb9433
Member since Jan 2015
14763 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:29 pm to
i suggest attending/joining a church if you haven't already. talk to a pastor/someone in the church first and see if she would like to speak to someone together or 1 on 1. marriage is very important and if at all possible, try to save it. you dont want to regret not trying, esp for your kids.
Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11949 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:32 pm to
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I agree with this, but it is difficult because of all of the activities and sports our kids are involved in.

No excuses there... If this
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We are fortunate to have parents that are willing to watch the kids anytime we need/want to
is the case, then leave them and Y'ALL go on vacation. Will be more enjoyable anyway. Decent time to connect with each other ALONE
Posted by Vastmind
B Ara
Member since Sep 2013
5322 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:34 pm to
Think about how her new boyfriend will treat your kids
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
41897 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:35 pm to
You're right. We haven't taken a vacation together since we got married. Other than a couple one-night trips to ball games, we are always at home. Not sure how this happened, but it did.
Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11949 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:37 pm to
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Not sure how this happened, but it did.

Very, very easily. Work, kids, life, etc. etc.... If you want it back, get that shite back.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
41897 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:37 pm to
Not something I want to think about at all. I know that nobody would ever treat them better than I do, but just the thought of them having another male parent in the picture makes me nauseous.
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
92500 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:40 pm to
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You're right. We haven't taken a vacation together since we got married.


dude.

women are easy.

happy wife = happy life.

they say they're all about the kids but that shite gets old every day when you're out the door going to work ogling well-dressed women in heels all day while they're at home cleaning dirty diapers and trying to make something for dinner you won't complain about.

you just need to surprise her..make her feel special. surprise her with a couple massage or an unexpected out-of-town for the night having arranged the sitter ahead of time.

they just want to know you are thinking about them and still find them sexy and to have some 'adult time'.

most of the time she's bitchy, its honestly because she wants to see MORE of you, and you take this as a reason to further distance yourself = divorce city.

all it takes is a tiny bit of effort on your part to show her she's still special and i PROMISE the bitchy will disappear.
Posted by htownjeep
Republic of Texas
Member since Jun 2005
7792 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:40 pm to
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We haven't taken a vacation together since we got married.
Really try and do this even if it is just a small weekend type of thing. Hell, you don't even have to leave town every time but get a hotel room, hit a few restaurants/bars and see/do some things together and try to reconnect. Don't go down without a fight.
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