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re: How do you feel about spanking children?
Posted on 1/24/14 at 9:44 am to inadaze
Posted on 1/24/14 at 9:44 am to inadaze
quote:It may not be a necessity, but in my view, in certain situations and done properly, it is good parenting that can lead to development and understanding.
I just don't see why spanking is a necessity.
quote:Just giving an honest response to your question, but to get into a full discussion of world views, mine and others', and give the topic its appropriate due is beyond what I am willing to get into in this thread.
Alright. You brought it up. I think I might see why you think spanking is a good idea.
This post was edited on 1/24/14 at 9:46 am
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Posted on 1/24/14 at 9:45 am to CoCo311
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Because I will take you over my knee...
I will take you over my knee
Posted on 1/24/14 at 9:47 am to WDE24
OK. You were right. I remain unconvinced.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 9:50 am to inadaze
quote:Yep. I knew you would. Now that you see my penchant for being right, follow my advice and bookmark this thread and come back to it when you have a 4 year old child. You may still resist spanking, but you will have a better understanding of why parents use it as a tool.
OK. You were right. I remain unconvinced.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:05 am to WDE24
I couldn't imagine ever hitting a child to teach them a lesson or whatever.
Issue resolvement by violence is a bad lesson to teach IMO.
Issue resolvement by violence is a bad lesson to teach IMO.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:09 am to TheDoc
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Issue resolvement by violence is a bad lesson to teach IMO.
and you are entitled to your opinion.
There are some situations that do not alow time for explanations. The threat of a spanking makes my son stop what he is doing immediately because he knows I am going to do it if he does not listen.
It works and it is for his protection.
It upsets me when I have to do it, but I am here to be a parent not a buddy.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:14 am to hardhead
You better do what I say or I'll hit you!
Pretty Substandard lazy parenting IMO.
Pretty Substandard lazy parenting IMO.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:14 am to hardhead
quote:
It upsets me when I have to do it
Why do you have to do it?
You don't.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:15 am to TheDoc
quote:
You better do what I say or I'll hit you!
yes that is lazy parenting
but that is not always the case for spanking
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:20 am to Salmon
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This post was edited on 10/3/20 at 9:24 pm
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:21 am to Huey Lewis
I do find it quite funny that the people against spanking generally use hyperbole and generalizations when making their argument, but at the same time always feel intellectually superior 
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:25 am to TheDoc
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You better do what I say or I'll hit you! Pretty Substandard lazy parenting IMO.
What about you better do what I say or I take away your stuff, put you in time out, or let you do something you would like to do?
It's all the same just showing that actions have consequences.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:25 am to TheDoc
quote:
Pretty Substandard lazy parenting IMO.
quote:
IMO
lazy my arse
Getting out of the chair to dole out a spanking requires effort. And I can do it without spilling my beer, that takes lots of practice.
are you entertained?
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:26 am to hardhead
quote:
but I am here to be a parent not a buddy.
Thank you!! A parent that actually gets what parenting is about.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:26 am to Scrowe
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It's all the same just showing that actions have consequences.
but the violence!!!
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:33 am to inadaze
Like random children or your own kids? Bc I have 2 different opinions on that.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:34 am to Salmon
It teaches a child that it is OK to hit when you are angry or when you want to gain control of the situation. It teaches a child that the bigger person is in control and that their worth and value is not in their own hands.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:36 am to tigerinthebueche
Numerous studies have found that the destructive and far-reaching effects of spanking can follow a child long after the punishment has ended. Kids who are spanked are more likely to suffer from aggression, low self-esteem and low I.Q., and they also are more likely to suffer from substance abuse and domestic violence as adults.
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:37 am to TheDoc
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It teaches a child that it is OK to hit when you are angry or when you want to gain control of the situation. It teaches a child that the bigger person is in control and that their worth and value is not in their own hands.
you are full of opinions
and by opinions i mean shite
Posted on 1/24/14 at 10:38 am to hardhead
Says the person that hits their child.
I have facts on my side. What do you have?
I have facts on my side. What do you have?
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