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Posted on 5/6/17 at 7:41 pm to
Posted by DupontsCircle
Dupont Circle
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 7:41 pm to
We're getting married in Ireland on the Cliffs of Mohar.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 7:42 pm to
Hope her hair holds up in rainy weather
Posted by DupontsCircle
Dupont Circle
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 7:43 pm to
If it rains there is a castle down the road that's our back up venue, b according to the wedding planner.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 7:43 pm to
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And this is why the institution of marriage has gone down the tubes and why divorce rates are so high. To a lot of women these days getting married as all about the wedding/ceremony and no thought given to actually living as a married couple. They just want the ceremony.



happens all the time in LA/the south. Attractive women find a good ole baw to marry around 20-24, have the big ceremony, have a couple kids, share all the pics on FB for attention, then realize around 35-40 that the annual trip to Destin and bi-monthly trips to Chili's aren't enough to keep her interested.
This post was edited on 5/6/17 at 7:46 pm
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 7:44 pm to
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and I didn't include the photog in that price

I also got most things free (food, alcohol, cake, venue, chairs, etc)


Well shite. That's a pricey band or button pushing dj
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 7:45 pm to
Here is to the 5% chance it doesn't rain
Posted by DupontsCircle
Dupont Circle
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 7:45 pm to
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the annual trip to Destin and bi-weekly trips to Chili's aren't enough to keep her interested.


Sounds like a terrible life.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 7:46 pm to
Music was free...BIL and friend (opera singer that tours Europe) sang for wedding and reception

That basically just included the dress, my suit, and misc things
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 7:55 pm to
You can't really jump in here and dispute my post with your 5k comment about me not having creativity.

Getting everything for free isn't creative


This post was edited on 5/6/17 at 7:57 pm
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 7:56 pm to
I know.

I just like telling you that you are wrong.
Posted by Jon Ham
Member since Jun 2011
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 7:59 pm to
quote:

quote:
the annual trip to Destin and bi-weekly trips to Chili's aren't enough to keep her interested.


Sounds like a terrible life.


Yeah, honey chipotle chicken crispers and trips to a beautiful beach and ocean must be terrible.
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 7:59 pm to
I'll see you this football season
Posted by Fe_Mike
Member since Jul 2015
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 8:15 pm to
The fact of the matter is, if you go cheap on a ring and have the means to do otherwise, people are going to judge you. Whether that is right or wrong for them to do does not change the fact that it will happen.

Your fiancee-to-be could say, and mean (in the solitude of your home), that she doesn't give a rats arse if you propose with a ring pop. However, every time someone gets excited and says "Ohh show me the ring!!" she's going to cringe with embarrassment if she has to hold up the scrap parts from someone else's diamond that her cheap 100k+ making fiance bought her. And people will talk behind your back about it and make fun of it. Again, whether that's right or wrong I'm not here to argue, but that's what will happen. The ring isn't for you, it's for her. If it's within your means to make her extremely happy and proud with something she should be keeping forever, and you love her, maybe think about doing that. Even if it seems ridiculous to spend 2 months salary on a rock. Later in life she may think it's ridiculous for you to spend 6 months salary on a 451 cubic inch piece of rolling metal that was made in the 60's. But you'll do that anyway because it's something for you to show off and be proud of.

This rant only applies to people with the means to do so. If you're a teacher and your potential spouse is a part time waitress (not that there's anything wrong with that), obviously people will be understanding if the ring doesn't blind them.

And for the people who think the idea of trying to impress people with a rock is archaic and played out and stupid and made up by petty humans, penguins been doing that ish forever. And penguins are awesome.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 8:15 pm to
I spent 28K
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 8:29 pm to
I always love these threads. Everyone comes in explaining why spending $10k or whatever on a ring is such a waste of money and only an idiot would do it, but these are the same people that will basically call anyone who spends less than $75k on a car a "poor."
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 8:36 pm to
Remember, you can always upgrade later
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 8:49 pm to
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If she really loved you and wanted to spend the rest of her life with you she would give no fricks. You could give her a ring from a cereal box and she would be content. So why feed her materialistic desires to compete with other women. Where does it end? If you spend that much on a ring, she will want to milk your bank account dry for other things which women compete with each other like purses, clothes, vehicles, etc.


I'm sorry that some woman trampled you.
Posted by Relham10
Ridge
Member since Jan 2013
20548 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 8:51 pm to
Don't spend a lot. Marriages don't last anyway.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 5/6/17 at 8:55 pm to
We got good deals by using highly talented friends for all of the services. We were very creative on decorations to keep the price down and we skimped on flowers
Posted by Jon Ham
Member since Jun 2011
29655 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:03 pm to
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And people will talk behind your back about it and make fun of it.


Oh the horror! Dumb bitches and foolish men with nothing better to do will laugh about a piece of jewelry to fill the void in their souls. Here, take all the money I have and give me the biggest shiniest rock I can buy!
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