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re: Is a secksless marriage reason enough for divorce?
Posted on 2/10/26 at 8:44 am to Will Cover
Posted on 2/10/26 at 8:44 am to Will Cover
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“chicken and egg” question. Does a couple’s increased marital satisfaction lead to increased sexual satisfaction, or is it the other way around?
I would put money on the marital quality being the egg.
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Posted on 2/10/26 at 8:52 am to MrFreakinMiyagi
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But if your wife isn’t having sex with you, you should make a strong effort to turn yourself into someone that she does want to frick.
100% this. I wonder how many of the guys complaining are 40% bodyfat.
Posted on 2/10/26 at 9:09 am to Turnblad85
Told my wife years ago that if sex stops, we will stay married, but I will be getting another woman to have sex with. It's never been an issue. 26 years and two kids later, we are still having fun.
Posted on 2/10/26 at 10:18 am to Turnblad85
If the marriage is sexless, there are bigger issues that need to be addressed. There likely is little to no communication/trust/etc.. Address those issues, betrayal, and any past trauma both parties may have and sex will take care of it's self.
Posted on 2/10/26 at 10:50 am to dyslexiateechur
I can't even comprehend that.
When you are married and you dont do everything in your power to help her in her time of need, I've got not use for you.
The men in the family should directly address him, by whatever means necessary.
When you are married and you dont do everything in your power to help her in her time of need, I've got not use for you.
The men in the family should directly address him, by whatever means necessary.
Posted on 2/10/26 at 10:55 am to cbree88
quote:
What you’re describing in this post makes it sound like they are. Lol
Basically, if you’re wife is in a bad mood or acting up in any way then just get on her and frick here and she will be made right.
Not at all...works when that is the problem....otherwise youre liable to be shot.
Posted on 2/10/26 at 10:55 am to N2cars
Maybe I’m misunderstanding but not everyone wants to be helped. What if she refuses therapy? What if she lies to you & lies to her therapist when she finally does go? Like others have said there are always underlying reasons why she doesn’t want sex. In my case I did everything possible to help for more than a decade & my efforts made no difference. In fact after my divorce my ex wife said she would have left her too if she were a man.
Posted on 2/10/26 at 10:56 am to Turnblad85
quote:is a symptom of something else
secksless marriage
Posted on 2/10/26 at 11:02 am to Loup
quote:
trying to "get points" by folding towels and sh*t until they've done enough to get some tail.
I've heard that referred to as chore-play vs foreplay
Posted on 2/10/26 at 11:04 am to Turnblad85
quote:Medical (health related) or by someone's choice?
Is a secksless marriage reason enough for divorce?
Posted on 2/10/26 at 11:06 am to Turnblad85
If you want sex and your partner refuses, yes divorce is a valid option. So is being celibate or jerking it. Just don’t cheat.
You can remain friends after divorce which is basically what you are anyway.
You can remain friends after divorce which is basically what you are anyway.
Posted on 2/10/26 at 11:21 am to goldeneagle007
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more than a decade
I think you did more than enoug and are to commended for trying to maintain your marriage,.
Posted on 2/10/26 at 11:28 am to Don Quixote
And that never works, either.
Posted on 2/10/26 at 11:59 am to RedPop4
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And that never works, either.
no it doesn't and worse it sets up a false expectancy for both parties and saps your self-respect
Posted on 2/10/26 at 1:40 pm to Don Quixote
That's exactly right. It reinforces entitlement.
Posted on 2/10/26 at 1:57 pm to Turnblad85
Marriage is a sexual non-compete agreement
Posted on 2/10/26 at 1:59 pm to Trapped in time
quote:How so when she starts banging her new man within months.
You can remain friends after divorce which is basically what you are anyway.
Posted on 2/10/26 at 2:28 pm to AwgustaDawg
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My wife has delivered 2 kids and is 59. We have been bumping uglies since she was 20 and I was 22. She was as sexy if not more so this morning when I left her warm body and kissed her goodbye as she was when she was 20 and her tits pointed skyward and you could bounce pennies off her belly. She is my wife, best friend, mother of my kids and has my back no matter what. We have laughed and cried together, we have cussed one another for anything other than a child of god, we have been broke, we have had money....she knows me better than I know myself and I am the same person for her....that is sexier than ANY physical characteristic of female sexuality. If you aren't as physically attracted to your wife after 38 years as you were the day you first saw her I feel badly for both of you
Yes sir I couldn’t have said it better. I’m more turned on by my wife now than ever before and the sex just gets better.
Posted on 2/10/26 at 2:37 pm to Turnblad85
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s a secksless marriage reason enough for divorce
Yes … next question.
Posted on 2/10/26 at 3:15 pm to tigergal918
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I didn't even want my kids to sit on the couch with me, much less have my husband touch me.
My wife was on an IUD for 5 years after our second child. We probably had sex 5 times in 5 years. A month after removing the IUD, she became a totally different person. She wants it much more than I do and gets very upset when we go more than two days without. She's been off BC for 8 years and says she's never getting back on it.
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