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Posted by arcalades
USA
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:18 am to
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at least save your marriage till a few more kids reach 18.
absolutely
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:19 am to
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He can fix the problems and be happy.


can he? it seems like he has tried for 18 months
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41887 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:19 am to
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Tell her whatever she wants to hear


when did men become such fn pussies?
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:20 am to
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can he? it seems like he has tried for 18 months
so, 18 months. woopty doo. If it takes 18 years, do it. That's what life is. It takes hard work. Relationships aren't easy nor free. Hard work doesn't mean it's bad or unenjoyable.
Posted by More beer please
Member since Feb 2010
46408 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:21 am to
Is it confirmed that she was cheating?
Posted by Chad504boy
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Member since Feb 2005
177116 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:21 am to
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when did men become such fn pussies?




when you gotta pay child support on more than 4 kids.
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:21 am to
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when did men become such fn pussies?
when that's what it takes to keep your family together. Implying we are pussies is just your pride talking. I don't think someone is a pussy for doing what it takes. Swallowing pride takes a lot of courage.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
62712 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:22 am to
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That's possible, but a decades-old marriage and trying to woo your 22 year old girlfriend aren't the same, I'm guessing.


Sure there are differences, but they both involve women. IMO a lot of these issues with wives are exactly because some men decide to treat wives differently.
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:22 am to
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when did men become such fn pussies?
says the "man" hiding on a message board
This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 9:23 am
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41887 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:23 am to
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Swallowing pride takes a lot of courage.


id rather have my pride than be a servant to some post-wall 50 year chick with seven kids who is 30 years past her prime. just lol at that life
Posted by genuineLSUtiger
Nashville
Member since Sep 2005
77203 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:23 am to
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Really nice people that seemed like the perfect couple.


There is no such thing. It's a fantasy created by the media and marketeers.
Posted by Chad504boy
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Member since Feb 2005
177116 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:24 am to
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id rather have my pride than be a servant to some post-wall 50 year chick with seven kids who is 30 years past her prime. just lol at that life


some chick to you
some wife (for the moment) to him
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:24 am to
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id rather have my pride than be a servant to some post-wall 50 year chick with seven kids who is 30 years past her prime. just lol at that life
Like I said, it's not ideal. I'd rather be with my kids than have my pride and whatever else you are describing. Maybe you don't have kids or don't care about your kids.
Posted by EyeoftheEldrick12
Member since Jul 2012
1949 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:25 am to
bitches are crazy. all of them.
sorry to hear it man
Posted by More beer please
Member since Feb 2010
46408 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:25 am to
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id rather have my pride than be a servant to some post-wall 50 year chick with seven kids who is 30 years past her prime. just lol at that life


Exactly, he can try to save the marriage all he wants but if it isnt reciprocated then whats the point?

You just make yourself miserable for the rest of your life.
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
45504 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:26 am to
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when did men become such fn pussies?
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85678 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:26 am to
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That's what life is. It takes hard work. Relationships aren't easy nor free. Hard work doesn't mean it's bad or unenjoyable.


sounds fine on paper, but what if his wife is 100% done?

how much groveling should one do for someone that has completely checked out of a relationship?
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
86740 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:26 am to
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Like I said, it's not ideal. I'd rather be with my kids than have my pride and whatever else you are describing. Maybe you don't have kids or don't care about your kids.



Yeah, if the last 25 years are wrapped up in that chick and our huge family together, I'm not going to be eager to get back out there and live it up with my pride intact. But that's because I'm an adult.

Granted, he may be forced to do that, and he may ultimately find that is one of the ways to deal with it, but it wouldn't be my first choice.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85678 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:27 am to
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id rather have my pride than be a servant to some post-wall 50 year chick with seven kids who is 30 years past her prime. just lol at that life


your insecurity screams out with every post you make

Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
86740 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:28 am to
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sounds fine on paper, but what if his wife is 100% done?



I mean all of this shite takes objectivity, which most people don't do well. Is she 100% done? If so, is it because of her or you? Could you have made that choice harder for her? Can you still?

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