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re: Just got served divorce papers today
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:56 am to FLBooGoTigs1
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:56 am to FLBooGoTigs1
quote:Are you even an adult? See if you can get past those adolescent thoughts. This is the real, grown up world. This is not TV or movie world. This is not happening in your brain. Women with 7 kids don't go around looking to jump another men's dicks like you think. It's possible she cheated, but it's highly unlikely.
believe it or not she is riding cock somewhere else.
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:57 am to arcalades
quote:
so your wife did nothing to save your marriage? it was all you?
For a long time it was just me
She decided not to leave you. (Why, I'm not sure at this point.)
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:58 am to CadesCove
quote:I'd love to see you find that quote. Take a screen shot of it please.
You stated that 100% capitulation to her demands is what saved your marriage.
quote:It's a message board forum; I can't tell everythng.
If they don't know the full story, it's because you aren't telling it. If incorrect, expand and educate them.
Their problem is they jump to all kinds of stupid, unreal conclusions that they think are absolute truths. .
Posted on 7/14/15 at 9:58 am to arcalades
quote:
He can do what is ideal later. For the time being, he can tell her what she wants to hear if that's what it takes.
"honey. all that stuff I said to keep you on board in Summer of 2015, well, I didn't mean it. Hugs?"
You really don't seem to understand basic communication ground rules....truthfulness is the only way to communicate.
The lady is accusing him of not being sincere when he says he will quit bullying, so you think he should just lie some more.
quote:all of it
Which is the crappy part?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:00 am to SoulGlo
SoulGlo nails it. Best advice I've read.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:00 am to More beer please
These threads make me feel a lot better about gay marriage in a way. Obviously most people no longer believe in marriage anyway, thinking its a matter of convenience in the end.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:00 am to arcalades
quote:
The day after the end of the world.
signed--God
I'm mean spirited because of posts like this.
It just blows my mind that people go through life with this kind of mentality.
A part of me wishes I'd have studied the human brain so I can figure out what is wrong with you fricking people.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:00 am to arcalades
quote:
I'd love to see you find that quote. Take a screen shot of it please.
quote:
As much as it sucks for him personally, he needs to change his attitude, everything needs to be yes, of course, whatever you say
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:01 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
I'm sorry this happened to you man but why in the world would you put this shite out in a public message board? That's just dumb as hell
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:01 am to CadesCove
quote:No, she left. Apparently, your reading comprehension is tiny.
She decided not to leave you.
She left, I didn't give up, and I got her to come back. Let's see if we can keep this about the OP. My marriage is safe. It's his we are working on, well some of us are. Most of you are working against him.
quote:I'm not surprised. You are of the world. You think like this world. You don't understand or recognize good.
(Why, I'm not sure at this point.)
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:01 am to LNCHBOX
Old school when the guy says he wants into the fraternity by the copy machine.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:02 am to TigerHam85
quote:
I'm mean spirited because of posts like this. It just blows my mind that people go through life with this kind of mentality. A part of me wishes I'd have studied the human brain so I can figure out what is wrong with you fricking people.
Doesn't make sense for you to be mean spirited because you think other people are ignorantly going about their own lives.
Also, do you believe the path you are traveling will yield more joy than that chosen by the OP? I don't. You seem angry and bitter.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:02 am to arcalades
Her sucking cock is what I meant. Dude you get your head out of your arse. Woman or man cheats in a marriage the trust is broken. I was married 12 years and I was a great dad to my 3 kids and a good husband not great. My ex started back to school and I watched the kids and worked my arse off to pay for her school. Well she found something better I guest and I to got served papers at my work. So frick your real world shite
This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 10:03 am
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:02 am to arcalades
quote:
No, she left. Apparently, your reading comprehension is tiny.
Sorry, I skipped over much of what you said because so little of what I read from you made sense.
quote:
My marriage is safe.
Now who is speaking in false absolutes?
Don't feel bad, it is becoming more and more apparent why your wife was about to bail. You are clinging desperately to minutiae and semantics in your argument. Women hate that shite.
This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 10:07 am
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:03 am to arcalades
quote:
She left, I didn't give up, and I got her to come back.
Unless you got her to come back against her will, then she had something to do with it
so no, it was not all you
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:04 am to arcalades
quote:
Are you even an adult? See if you can get past those adolescent thoughts. This is the real, grown up world. This is not TV or movie world. This is not happening in your brain. Women with 7 kids don't go around looking to jump another men's dicks like you think. It's possible she cheated, but it's highly unlikely.
On average, nearly 50-60% of women have affairs.
Real World
quote:
Thus, we see that women are more likely than men to have an affair when they’re not bonded in their primary relationship (and therefore are seeking that bond elsewhere), while men are more likely than women to have an affair despite feeling close to their wife.
quote:
Among women who stated that they were actively cheating, 57 percent reported feeling love for their affair partner, while only 27 percent of the men said they felt love for their mistress. This type of information furthers the conclusion that women who cheat are much more likely than men to be seeking an emotional bond, and that they may in fact feel such a bond even if their affair partner does not.
LINK
But please, keept going about how unlikely it is.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:05 am to Salmon
quote:
Unless you got her to come back against her will, then she had something to do with it
so no, it was not all you
He is clearly saying that it was all him at some point. Later, after he has persevered alone, she began trying again. Had he not persevered, she never would have had that chance.
What about that is hard to understand?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:06 am to TigerHam85
quote:No, you just think that is why. That is an excuse
I'm mean spirited because of posts like this.
quote:There is a reason, but you can't yet understand that reason.
It just blows my mind that people go through life with this kind of mentality.
quote:Studying the brain wouldn't help you.
A part of me wishes I'd have studied the human brain so I can figure out what is wrong with you fricking people.
At the least you should understand, don't be a quitter. Some of you people would never give up on a client if it was a million dollar deal, but you will tell this guy to give up on his marriage.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:06 am to TopHog1
quote:Don't call it dumb just bc you can't understand it.
I'm sorry this happened to you man but why in the world would you put this shite out in a public message board? That's just dumb as hell
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:07 am to FLBooGoTigs1
quote:so sorry bro. I know what you're feeling.
Her sucking cock is what I meant. Dude you get your head out of your arse. Woman or man cheats in a marriage the trust is broken. I was married 12 years and I was a great dad to my 3 kids and a good husband not great. My ex started back to school and I watched the kids and worked my arse off to pay for her school. Well she found something better I guest and I to got served papers at my work. So frick your real world shite
BTW,I'm done playing Capt. Save-a-Hoe. If i ever marry again it will be for money. Tried marrying for love the first time.
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