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re: Just got served divorce papers today
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:08 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:08 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
quote:18 months of counseling, sounds like you should ask for a refund.
She says I know what to change but refuse to. I am freaking clueless
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:08 am to uway
quote:
What about that is hard to understand?
he claimed that the statement "it takes 2 to save a marriage" was false and that his life proved that
the simple fact that at some point she began to try again proves that it does, indeed, take 2 to save a marriage
if she had never decided to try again, it wouldn't have matter how much he fought for her, because it takes more than one to save the marriage
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:08 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
Thats tough man! Hope you make it through okay, and your kids especially. At least give your kids a great example of how to handle the situation gracefully.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:09 am to uway
quote:Thank you. It's encouraging to know at least one person out there gets it.
He is clearly saying that it was all him at some point. Later, after he has persevered alone, she began trying again. Had he not persevered, she never would have had that chance.
What about that is hard to understand?
This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 10:11 am
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:10 am to arcalades
Were you ever served divorce papers?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:10 am to Salmon
quote:No, your lack of understanding led you to believe that.
he claimed that the statement "it takes 2 to save a marriage" was false and that his life proved that
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:10 am to TigerHam85
quote:Yes
Were you ever served divorce papers?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:11 am to arcalades
quote:
No, your lack of understanding led you to believe that.
uh...what?
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:11 am to arcalades
quote:
No, your lack of understanding led you to believe that.
No that is exactly what you said
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:12 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
Be the best dad that you can when you have that opportunity. My parents split when I was in high school and it took a while for my dad to realize this. Control what you can control.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:12 am to Tigertown in ATL
quote:
You guys with this Alpha/Beta b.s. are deluded.
The stupid chest thumping of these young guys on this board related to this is laughable. Wait until reality kicks you in the balls a few times as you get older and see how Alpha you are at all times. Most of you guys are pussies.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:13 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
My parents are divorced...I feel for your kids...I was too young to realize what was happening. Whatever you do...DO NOT GET A count GIRLFRIEND. I haven't stayed at my dads house in 3 years bc I was fed up with that bitch. Best of luck to you
She was the one my dad was sleeping around with and treated me like shite when I was kid. Nobody believed me. That bitch doesn't talk to me anymore she knows better. I would never hit a girl but if I got one clean shot on that count I'd break her fricking jaw
She was the one my dad was sleeping around with and treated me like shite when I was kid. Nobody believed me. That bitch doesn't talk to me anymore she knows better. I would never hit a girl but if I got one clean shot on that count I'd break her fricking jaw
This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 10:17 am
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:13 am to More beer please
quote:this is what I'm saying. Get past all the other. This shouldn't be about me. Let's keep this about the OP.
He is clearly saying that it was all him at some point. Later, after he has persevered alone, she began trying again. Had he not persevered, she never would have had that chance.
This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 10:16 am
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:14 am to TigerHam85
quote:
Were you ever served divorce papers?
I was.
I kept trying.
Marriage ended anyway.
I'm glad I kept trying.
I am better because of it.
Kids are better because of it.
I believe she is better because of it.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:14 am to arcalades
quote:
It absolutely takes two to wreck a marriage, just like it takes two to save one.
Those are inaccurate absolutes
You are either lying to yourself or have the short term memory of table.
This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 10:16 am
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:15 am to Tigertown in ATL
quote:
I was.
I kept trying.
Marriage ended anyway.
obviously you didn't try hard enough and you are a giant pussy
signed,
arcalades
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:16 am to arcalades
Ignore the articles I provided which disagree with your baseless facts about life. 
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:18 am to BugaPainTrain7
That sounds bad but it's the truth...again best of luck to you...nobody should have to go through that especially your kids.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:18 am to Salmon
quote:
I was.
I kept trying.
Marriage ended anyway.
obviously you didn't try hard enough and you are a giant pussy
signed,
arcalades
I don't think he would say that though.
Enjoyed the conversation guys. This is going nowhere so I am leaving.
Try to keep it civil and see the other side of things. That's a hard thing to do when emotion is involved.
p.s. I'm heading to the F&D Board to have heated discussions about hamburgers.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 10:18 am to More beer please
quote:No. One person can absolutely wreck a marriage. One person can absolutely save one.
You are either lying to yourself or have the short term memory of table.
It doesn't take two. Two can wreck a marriage, but just one can wreck a marriage.
Two can save a marriage, but one can save a marriage, also.
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