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re: My mother is winning at crazy
Posted on 7/15/15 at 12:18 am to tigerclaw10
Posted on 7/15/15 at 12:18 am to tigerclaw10
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The bad thing is, that sounds like my mother. Everything is hers. She doesn't even have a job. She gets disability for some stupid shite. Dad is the bread winner in the house. He just doesn't wanna argue with her crazy arse.
News flash- she's not disabled or handicapped, she's handy-capable!
And she's a solid 3*.
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Have a nice day!
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Posted on 7/15/15 at 12:34 am to lsuwontonwrap
No. I don't give a shite who she likes. I date who I want.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 12:38 am to Scruffy
Very true. I shouldn't have moved back in. And she's the person who is a total bitch because of all the stupid stuff she did as a kid. Drugs, moved out at 16, always making trouble.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 12:38 am to tigerclaw10
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No. I don't give a shite who she likes. I date who I want.
Have you tried sitting down and having an adult conversation with her... Obviously these problems aren't something new and sometimes the best way to work through them could be better communication... It never hurts to try, one thing you don't need to do during the conversation is get pissed and storm out because at the end of the day this woman will always be your mother and if nothing else she needs the respect that comes with that.
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Very true. I shouldn't have moved back in. And she's the person who is a total bitch because of all the stupid stuff she did as a kid. Drugs, moved out at 16, always making trouble.
This explains her overprotective attitude... If you would've told this in the beginning it might have helped shine a brighter light on your situation...
This post was edited on 7/15/15 at 12:41 am
Posted on 7/15/15 at 12:40 am to tigerclaw10
quote:Good. First step is knowing where you fricked up.
Very true. I shouldn't have moved back in. And she's the person who is a total bitch because of all the stupid stuff she did as a kid. Drugs, moved out at 16, always making trouble.
Scruffy lived at home the summer after freshman year to work and build his resume. Never again. That shite sucked.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 12:44 am to AU4real35
I've sat down and talked to her about a lot of this. At one point I was a DD for a girl and we had been going steady. So at about 3 as I'm sober and not coming home because I'm sleeping at her house, she calls me to come home. I told her no. She freaked out. How do you fix that? I don't think you can.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 12:56 am to tigerclaw10
Im having to stay at home for a month in between undergrad and med school and it suckksssssss
Posted on 7/15/15 at 12:56 am to tigerclaw10
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I've sat down and talked to her about a lot of this. At one point I was a DD for a girl and we had been going steady. So at about 3 as I'm sober and not coming home because I'm sleeping at her house, she calls me to come home. I told her no. She freaked out. How do you fix that? I don't think you can.
She doesn't want you following in her foolish footsteps and she is overbearing because of it... She probably doesn't even understand that she's being this controlling and if she does she thinks it's beneficial... You're in college and are detaching from the nest, a lot of mothers try to hang on to their little boy as long as possible... Even though she pisses you off, show her respect and love her and you won't have any deep regrets when you're older.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 1:09 am to AU4real35
I regret this truck in her name for sure. But I'll be an engineer soon so I'm not too worried.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 1:27 am to tigerclaw10
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tigerclaw10
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Lacassine
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She doesn't even have a job. She gets disability for some stupid shite. Dad is the bread winner in the house. He just doesn't wanna argue with her crazy arse.
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always making trouble
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drugs
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moved out at 16
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truck
The picture is starting to become very clear.
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we had been going steady
This post was edited on 7/15/15 at 1:29 am
Posted on 7/15/15 at 2:30 am to tigerclaw10
It's just some shite you have to put up with for a little while longer. Mom's will always give you shite and try to control you, it's just how they are. Plus you're still in college and don't really have the kind of job to be financially stable yet.
But once you graduate and start living on your own paycheck for good, no help from them at all, then you can start to bitch at them for being controlling, until then, just suck it up. You're gonna be an engineer and your a junior, just tough it out two more years and then you can do whatever the frick you want and they can't say shite about it.
But once you graduate and start living on your own paycheck for good, no help from them at all, then you can start to bitch at them for being controlling, until then, just suck it up. You're gonna be an engineer and your a junior, just tough it out two more years and then you can do whatever the frick you want and they can't say shite about it.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 5:26 am to WicKed WayZ
Let me in at 12 last night, got pissed and told me to take my stuff and get out at 4:45
Posted on 7/15/15 at 5:53 am to tigerclaw10
It will be hard to do but you need to cut the strings now don't have conversations with her and only to your dad. Your dad is the wedge, he enables her activity by not putting his foot down. I know I have lived it.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 8:29 am to tigerclaw10
I'm sure it has already been said.. If you really have a problem with following your parents rules then don't stay in their house. If you truly feel like you completely provide for yourself then you are a "guest" in their house and an a-hole for not adhering to their wishes. You don't "pay for all your stuff" when you're staying in their house all summer and they're probably paying for all your food. If you want to act like you're an adult act like an adult. Nothing about your OP is acting like an adult.
Edit: I didn't read the thread because I can barely stand the ignorance in your first post.
Edit: I didn't read the thread because I can barely stand the ignorance in your first post.
This post was edited on 7/15/15 at 8:31 am
Posted on 7/15/15 at 8:38 am to tigerclaw10
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This post was edited on 7/19/15 at 4:53 pm
Posted on 7/15/15 at 8:46 am to tigerclaw10
Sit and have a talk with your dad. Do it as a man, not a child whining about something that you don't like. present your case from a logical position, and let your dad handle your mom.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 8:55 am to BRgetthenet
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She is asserting her dominance as the alpha in their home.
I bet she's the kinda chick who puts a chastity cock cage on his daddy and only lets him eat her out from the back.
Okay now on topic.
OP, the good answers are the ones that involve establishing some distance and at least the threat of buying a new vehicle on your own.
This post was edited on 7/15/15 at 8:56 am
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:02 am to tigerclaw10
Yeah, im sure they spent more money on you over the years. Chalk this up to paying off a debt, and then she wont have anything over your head.
Posted on 7/15/15 at 9:05 am to tigerclaw10
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have a full ride to college so all that is paid for. And my scholarship also pays for housing
then if your parents dont subsidize any part of your life, there's no reason to even bother getting mad at your mom.
just live in an apartment, pay your bills, shut up, be respectful to your mom...but who gives a shite what she has to say
oh, and you're an idiot for putting any piece of property that you bought (assuming you bought the car with your own EARNED money) in someone else's name
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