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Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:27 pm to Samson
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"She said she was on the pill"
What a dumbass.
It doesn't matter if you've been dating a chick for two years; if you're not trying to have kids, you pull out if you're hitting it raw.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:27 pm to Samson
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he basically told me that he doesn't want any kids and is looking for a way to avoid paying child support. He asked about the military because he was hoping that they'd cover the child support. His biggest concern is that once his grandparents find out about it, they are going to cut him off financially because an unplanned pregnancy isn't part of their "plan" for him.
Damn, at 21 stepson still has a lot of growing up to do - military might help with that, but in today’s PC world, who knows.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:30 pm to HempHead
PUlling out ain’t saving you if you’re hitting that poon raw, boyo.
This myth needs to die.
What he shoulda did was pull out with a condom on when fricking trailer trash hoes that have convict baby daddies.
This myth needs to die.
What he shoulda did was pull out with a condom on when fricking trailer trash hoes that have convict baby daddies.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:30 pm to Philzilla2k
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:31 pm to Samson
Tell him about the bright side to all of this, in about 19 yrs he’s gonna get what seems like one hell of a raise.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:32 pm to Samson
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Sadly, no. That's another shocking thing. My stepson is a good-looking kid, into fitness, eating right, working out. He's built, six pack, all that. But he sets his standards very low when it comes to females. I mean this chick is OK, but certainly nothing special.
... and that’s why she trapped his arse. 1. You say he looks good. 2. His family (grandparents) has money.
She was looking for a check to take care of her other kids
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:33 pm to Samson
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I told him that if that's the route he wants to take, I can't help him anymore.
My main question is do you pronounce it "root" or "rowt"?
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:33 pm to Athos
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PUlling out ain’t saving you if you’re hitting that poon raw, boyo.
Granted, you've got to know a woman's cycle. Natural family planning isn't foolproof but it ain't a crapshoot.
If it was that big of a risk, I'm either infertile or just unbelievably lucky.
This post was edited on 4/24/20 at 4:35 pm
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:40 pm to wileyjones
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False.
Didn’t this happen to Boris Becker like 30 years ago?
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:41 pm to danilo
Join navy, marry the girl. He’ll get better benefits with a wife and kids. It’ll provide for the kids/baby mama, and it’ll give him time away to think things through. During that time he’s likely to grow up a decent bit and find out where his priorities are. He’ll come out better disciplined with VA benefits and a good resume starter.
That would be the best course of action if he really doesn’t want anything to do with the baby mama/kids.
Also, do paternity test before all this.
That would be the best course of action if he really doesn’t want anything to do with the baby mama/kids.
Also, do paternity test before all this.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:41 pm to danilo
Seriously man, go back and read my last link.
Baby traps gonna baby trap until they realize there's nothing to gain from it. She's trying to get one for her other kid. Unless I missed something saying otherwise in the past few pages, there's a *high* likelihood she's either lying completely or it's not his.
Get him to bring her his own pregnancy tests, have her pee on em, and watch the damned things. And if positive, get a paternity test asap. And he should tell her in no uncertain terms that he'll do the legally mandated penance but *won't* be any part of their lives. That'll get any babydaddy fantasies out of her head.
If it turns out that they actually are his and she doesn't conveniently "have a miscarriage" after finding out her BS isn't working, he can always do whatever he wants at that point. Don't play her game.
Almost like I've played this game before. No unwanted babymamas.
Baby traps gonna baby trap until they realize there's nothing to gain from it. She's trying to get one for her other kid. Unless I missed something saying otherwise in the past few pages, there's a *high* likelihood she's either lying completely or it's not his.
Get him to bring her his own pregnancy tests, have her pee on em, and watch the damned things. And if positive, get a paternity test asap. And he should tell her in no uncertain terms that he'll do the legally mandated penance but *won't* be any part of their lives. That'll get any babydaddy fantasies out of her head.
If it turns out that they actually are his and she doesn't conveniently "have a miscarriage" after finding out her BS isn't working, he can always do whatever he wants at that point. Don't play her game.
Almost like I've played this game before. No unwanted babymamas.
This post was edited on 4/24/20 at 4:42 pm
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:41 pm to Samson
Then I’ll tell you exactly what’s going to happen. Your step kid is going to dirtbag and avoid all responsibility. The girl is going to get back with jailbird when he’s released. Your wife is going to sneak him money and/or is going to try to be involved with the grandkids.
The only question is, who is going to step up and be an adult? So far, I see your wife as being the only person with a brain in this whole thing.
For the record. You’re the stepdad. You don’t count. You probably won’t like the result if you cross your wife. It’s her call. I can’t think of a single woman I’ve known who would voluntarily walk away from her grandkids.
The only question is, who is going to step up and be an adult? So far, I see your wife as being the only person with a brain in this whole thing.
For the record. You’re the stepdad. You don’t count. You probably won’t like the result if you cross your wife. It’s her call. I can’t think of a single woman I’ve known who would voluntarily walk away from her grandkids.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:47 pm to Kcprogguitar
Your stepson done messed up A-a-Ron. He can step up and be a man or he can let more kids grow up without knowing their fathers.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:49 pm to Samson
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I think he's really looking for a way to not have to pay child support
If that's the case, he's screwed. The only way to avoid paying child support is not having children.
He should man up now.
This post was edited on 4/24/20 at 4:50 pm
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:49 pm to Athletix
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Join navy, marry the girl. He’ll get better benefits with a wife and kids. It’ll provide for the kids/baby mama, and it’ll give him time away to think things through. During that time he’s likely to grow up a decent bit and find out where his priorities are. He’ll come out better disciplined with VA benefits and a good resume starter.
Financially this is the only option, unless he’s studying to be a neurologist
This post was edited on 4/24/20 at 4:51 pm
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:50 pm to Samson
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OK, so my stepson (21) is a student at Texas State, has about 1.5 years left until he graduates. He just found out that his girlfriend (who he's not in love with, and who has no intention of marrying) is pregnant with twins. He has tried to convince her into giving the twins up for adoption but she is intent on keeping them (not to mention she already has another kid!) So, what are some options? He is considering maybe joining the Navy once he graduates. I think he's really looking for a way to not have to pay child support but from what I told him, I don't think there's really any way around that. He made a dumb mistake not wearing protection with a girl who is basically a frick buddy and now he's on the hook for the next 18 years. Advice/suggestions?
Wow what a man he has become.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:52 pm to Samson
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yeah, I told him the main thing he needs to figure out is whether he wants to be a part of these kids' lives or not. I really don't think he does. I think he just wants to run away and hide and hope it goes away. But that's not an option. Whether he's a part of their lives or not, he's going to have to pay suppo
You part of the problem also. Tell this spineless mofo to man the fuk up and be there for his kids. Child support lasts 18 years i suggest you tell him he needs to get 2 jobs and quit college right now and to do online courses.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:56 pm to Samson
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Ironically, his dad did the same thing to him. Left my wife (never married her) and just paid child support. Saw him maybe once or twice a year when he came to Louisiana to visit his own parents. His real dad sucks.
It’s not irony if a predictable outcome is achieved; it’s a pattern. Hopefully he can be man enough to break the pattern.
This post was edited on 4/24/20 at 5:03 pm
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