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Posted by hillcountrywanderer
Buda, TX
Member since Jul 2014
529 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:58 pm to
sounds like you married a real head case.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
12235 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 3:15 pm to
I would post my family's personal business here.
Posted by KyleOrtonsMustache
Krystal Baller
Member since Jan 2008
5171 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 3:21 pm to
quote:

Is it worse to stay together and my kids witness this crap as they age, or is it better to leave while they're young?


I haven't read the whole thread, so this has probably all been said….but,

It takes two people to argue. IF your wife begins some crazy shite remove yourself from the situation. Don't participate in the argument. I'm sure she'll probably yell louder if you don't respond, but she'll be the only person yelling. Make it clear, in a calm manner, that you will discuss any issue she has when she has had time to gather herself.

Secondly, don't start arguments. IF your wife has done something to upset you address it like a man and not a child. Children fight and bicker. Men handle business in the proper manner. Be in charge of the situation. Don't allow anyone to dictate your emotions….you're in control of them.

Consider counseling. If you're woman doesn't want to go, then go by yourself. If it eventually ends in divorce (I hope it doesn't) then at least you can say you tried to better the situation.

Posted by Brendoni
Oklahoma City, Ok
Member since Apr 2009
22283 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 3:25 pm to
quote:

Is it worse to stay together and my kids witness this crap as they age, or is it better to leave while they're young?


If you're only staying together, because of your children, it's a huge mistake. If you love your wife, and want to work things out, you guy's should get help.
Posted by glassman
Next to the beer taps at Finn's
Member since Oct 2008
117953 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 3:31 pm to
quote:

If you're only staying together, because of your children, it's a huge mistake.


Yep.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
298305 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 3:32 pm to
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Wife and I argue probably about once every three days.


Holy shite.
Posted by Huey Lewis
BR
Member since Oct 2013
5080 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 3:34 pm to
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This post was edited on 10/3/20 at 12:49 am
Posted by WildcatMike
Lexington, KY
Member since Dec 2005
43986 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 3:47 pm to
marriage counseling my friend.
Posted by Champagne
Sabine Free State.
Member since Oct 2007
54021 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 3:48 pm to
Huey, you are thoroughly fricked, son.

You have no way out.

Well, wait . . . that's too pessimistic.

I'm sure with a lot of patience, counseling and hope that things can work out for ya'll.

Good luck.

This post was edited on 10/11/14 at 4:03 pm
Posted by brgfather129
Los Angeles, CA
Member since Jul 2009
17360 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 3:52 pm to
Do you believe in love?
Posted by specchaser
lafayette
Member since Feb 2008
2713 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 3:57 pm to
Mother frickin this

To OP, you and esp wife need counseling. If it continues post child, divorce may be best option.
Posted by BuckheadBetty
Buckhead
Member since Jul 2014
333 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 4:02 pm to
Dr Phil's guest line number is 800-BAT-shite
Posted by LT
The City of St. George
Member since May 2008
5163 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 4:05 pm to
quote:

There are more important things than being right. 


Posted by Alltheway Tigers!
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2004
7943 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 4:17 pm to


Your wife is using your son as a weapon and a pawn. She is not a very nice person just on what you post.

Y'all both need some help.
Posted by LT
The City of St. George
Member since May 2008
5163 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 4:23 pm to
Man, I'm so sorry... I can't give any advice you haven't already been given. Counseling seems to have worked in the past... Give it another shot.

I personally couldn't imagine not seeing my babies every day. My wife had some emotional trials after and during her pregnancies. Medicin helped a great deal.
Posted by Sheep
Neither here nor there
Member since Jun 2007
19695 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 4:24 pm to
The elephant in the room:

This one might not be your kid.
Posted by Nawlinsboyinbossier
Bossier City
Member since Feb 2014
689 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 4:28 pm to
I lived it. As bad as the people are that you think she will bring around your kids, there will be worse. It will not get better.
Posted by Big Pun
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
3504 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 4:38 pm to
You planned to sleep when he took a nap but did you let her know that beforehand? While I agree you should be able to, communicating it before early in the morning may have avoided the fight.

My other advice is don't leave because she talks bad about you to him when you fight, if you think she's bad about that now wait until you leave. You will be a no good dad who left them regardless of what you do.
Posted by brass2mouth
NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
20499 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 4:47 pm to
quote:

Looking at the caliber of my wife's ex's (drugs, criminal behavior, etc.),


Maybe you should have done that before getting married to a dumb bitch. Now you're stuck with her, congrats.
This post was edited on 10/11/14 at 4:48 pm
Posted by Adam4848
LA
Member since Apr 2006
19675 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 4:47 pm to
quote:

Probably ever 3-4 arguments, so at least once or twice a month, things are worse than normal and involve my wife grabbing our son in a big show of theatrics, standing there with him saying things like "daddy doesn't loves us" or "daddy is a bad person" etc. and storming off with him, slamming doors and the like.


Did not bother reading one single reply.

Huey, your wife is trashy.
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