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Posted on 4/6/14 at 6:13 am to
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 6:13 am to
Prays sent. Try to make him as comfortable as possible. Do talk to him and find comfort in The Lords pray.
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
66950 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 7:32 am to
From Alabama, hoping for the best.
Posted by tidalmouse
Whatsamotta U.
Member since Jan 2009
30706 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 7:38 am to
God Bless and Comfort you and your family.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138309 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 7:49 am to
Say everything you need to say

Good, bad, mundane......say it all

My father called his parent's home in the evening of May 14, 2011 to check in on a motorcycle trip he was on with his brother, cousin, and their fans. He was not an avid rider, but he was having a blast.

He spoke briefly with my mother, and i did not insist on talking that evening because i knew that he was tired. Little did any of us know that would be his final night's sleep.

As absurd as it sounds, I will beat myself for the rest of my life for not speaking with him that fateful night. We both knew where we stood. He will always be my best friend, but my heart crumbles at the everlasting knowledge that i was so flippant with my last opportunity to let him know how much I love him.

You have the opportunity to not make the same mistake as I. I trust that you will, or already have, done the appropriate thing.
Posted by Lutcher Lad
South of the Mason-Dixon Line
Member since Sep 2009
7290 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 8:11 am to
Godspeed!
Posted by tidalmouse
Whatsamotta U.
Member since Jan 2009
30706 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 8:18 am to
Rouge,I know how you feel bro.

I lost my Dad in 89'.He was 56.I was 28.

So much unsaid.

Make the most of the time you have with loved ones.
Posted by WicKed WayZ
Louisiana Forever
Member since Sep 2011
33801 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 8:51 am to
Prayers sent
Posted by IonaTiger
The Commonwealth Of Virginia
Member since Mar 2006
33248 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 10:04 am to
I am sorry to hear this. I'll say one for your Dad and your family.

Stuff happens at this age. I am 62 and I just heard that my brother, who is a 60 year old doctor down in Richmond, Va, had to have his appendix removed yesterday on an emergency basis. There appears to be some complications.

Hang in there. And God Bless.
Posted by 756
Member since Sep 2004
15839 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 10:08 am to
done
Posted by droman225
HTown by way of BR
Member since Aug 2011
13467 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 10:14 am to
Thoughts are with you man. I lost my mom when I was 13. It's hard. But hopefully your dad will pull through
Posted by nc14
La Jolla
Member since Jan 2012
28193 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 10:20 am to
You've got it man. Lost mine 1/15, was healthy 82 year old golfer until mid-September. We had some really great times through those tough days, I'd love one more of those. We are all going to die one day, make everything before then special. Prayers that he recovers.
This post was edited on 4/6/14 at 10:22 am
Posted by BuddyLAM
New Orleans
Member since May 2013
2633 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 10:27 am to
Hope he can make it dawg
Posted by TexasTiger89
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2005
26595 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 10:36 am to
Prayers sent
Posted by CP3LSU25
Louisiana
Member since Feb 2009
52570 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 10:42 am to
I will say some prayers for you and your family
Posted by Fearthehat0307
Dallas, TX
Member since Dec 2007
65256 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 10:43 am to
who are the 3 assholes who downvoted this thread?
Posted by zztop1234
Denham Springs
Member since Aug 2008
3713 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 10:51 am to
I've lost just about everyone that was close to me so I know the feeling.
Hang in there
Posted by LosLobos111
Austere
Member since Feb 2011
45385 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 11:00 am to
Not much has happened since last I posted

He's sleeping and on oxygen

His BP was changing wildly last night(was at 205/148 then at like 130/80) his pulse kept changing back and forth from 124 to 65 then settled at 80.

He also was coughing up some weird stuff

Nurse thought it might have been some type of death sign or something

He has home hospice right now(it's not because he was dying earlier but as a temporary fix until we could get a full time aide,it's a long story)

We've struggled getting the right care to come after he got out of the nursing home(aides didn't know what they were doing/management etc. Thank god my mom stayed on top of it.)

It's just upsetting something like this happens after finally getting things right.

I deeply thank you all for the support,i've never really been in a situation like this.

This post was edited on 4/6/14 at 11:03 am
Posted by Gtothemoney
Da North Shore
Member since Sep 2012
17722 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 11:32 am to
Just shed a tear for you.

It's hard having to deal with it. Mortality is some real shite.

God bless.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 11:34 am to
quote:

We've struggled getting the right care to come after he got out of the nursing home(aides didn't know what they were doing/management etc. Thank god my mom stayed on top of it.)
This has been a huge problem with my grandma. In the end, my aunt decided to keep one "okay" aide and just work from. Must've gone through 15 before she decided to go that route. One aide fell asleep on the sofa in the living room while my grandma was having a stroke in the bedroom
Posted by John McClane
Member since Apr 2010
37177 posts
Posted on 4/6/14 at 11:44 am to
Damn man, so to hear that. Prayers are with you and your family.
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