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re: Shared Custody
Posted on 1/4/19 at 1:12 pm to Grit-Eating Shin
Posted on 1/4/19 at 1:12 pm to Grit-Eating Shin
Adding 
to every post without adding any substance is a pretty shitty form of arguing.
But hey, continue attacking my perceived insecurities while ignoring my arguments. You'll probably win.
to every post without adding any substance is a pretty shitty form of arguing. But hey, continue attacking my perceived insecurities while ignoring my arguments. You'll probably win.
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 1:14 pm to Festus
Thats fair, but I'm not making it a out me. I made it about the selfish divorcees (not you) and the children that suffer.
I mean, look at all the people replying to this thread about their divorce? Is jumping to divorce not a cultural problem in your opinion?
I mean, look at all the people replying to this thread about their divorce? Is jumping to divorce not a cultural problem in your opinion?
This post was edited on 1/4/19 at 1:18 pm
Posted on 1/4/19 at 1:15 pm to GAAtty70
Depends on age of the child, how close you live to each other, work schedule, etc.
I initially had a rotating 2, 2, 3 which really didn’t fit with my work schedule. So One week I get my kids every Thursday, Friday, and half Saturday and the other is Thursday-Sunday. Still have to pay child support and I carry their insurance.
I initially had a rotating 2, 2, 3 which really didn’t fit with my work schedule. So One week I get my kids every Thursday, Friday, and half Saturday and the other is Thursday-Sunday. Still have to pay child support and I carry their insurance.
Posted on 1/4/19 at 1:21 pm to Displaced
quote:
Is jumping to divorce not a cultural problem in your opinion?
It absolutely is, and I'm saying that as one who went through it. But there are many where it wasn't a mutual divorce. And it's not fair to blame them both for the actual divorce.
People jump to divorce nowadays much too quickly. And it's cultural for many. Just know, for others, it's not. They fight for the marriage, and literally have no choice in the outcome. That's the truth. Don't beat up those people.
Posted on 1/4/19 at 1:24 pm to Festus
quote:
But there are many where it wasn't a mutual divorce. And it's not fair to blame them both for the actual divorce. People jump to divorce nowadays much too quickly. And it's cultural for many. Just know, for others, it's not. They fight for the marriage, and literally have no choice in the outcome. That's the truth. Don't beat up those people.
Without a doubt, I hated everything about it and didn’t want to get divorced even though our marriage was pretty miserable.
Posted on 1/4/19 at 1:27 pm to Festus
quote:I would think that it is typically not mutual, but just because one side initiated it, doesn't mean the other side is blameless regardless of their willingness to seek help. The unwillingness to even attempt to fix a marriage is a major character flaw.
But there are many where it wasn't a mutual divorce.
Posted on 1/4/19 at 1:28 pm to Displaced
quote:It's hard not to laugh at your level of sheer ignorance.
Adding to every post without adding any substance is a pretty shitty form of arguing.
And I'm not arguing with you, so I don't really give a shite.
quote:Your "arguments" are nothing more than judgmental tripe, and it's not worth acknowledging. So I will just continue to mock you.
while ignoring my arguments
Posted on 1/4/19 at 1:29 pm to Displaced
Man...once a woman has stepped out...it’s done. You can pretend it isn’t over...but you’re in denial.
At that point you’re trying to drag a dead horse. Best just to cut your losses and make some jerky for the long walk ahead.
At that point you’re trying to drag a dead horse. Best just to cut your losses and make some jerky for the long walk ahead.
Posted on 1/4/19 at 1:31 pm to Displaced
quote:
but just because one side initiated it, doesn't mean the other side is blameless regardless of their willingness to seek help.
Never said it was. No one has.
But are you blameless for anything negative in your marriage? Or completely perfect? And if you have made even 1 mistake ever, does that make you trashy?
Look, no use trying to argue with you, I think you've made up your mind. Good luck in your marriage. Real talk.
Posted on 1/4/19 at 1:32 pm to GAAtty70
It all depends on the mental stability of your ex. If she is rational, it is completely possible.
Posted on 1/4/19 at 2:05 pm to GAAtty70
I haven't read all the replies, but you need a good attorney to help you through this. Once I hired a bulldog attorney who knew the ins and outs, things were a lot easier. It cost $6,000 up front, but you'll be paid back over the long haul.
Good luck
Good luck
Posted on 1/4/19 at 2:14 pm to fr33manator
quote:
Man...once a woman has stepped out...it’s done. You can pretend it isn’t over...but you’re in denial.
Truth man. I've been trying to make it work for 6 years since she stepped out. For the kids, last year was complete hell and what do you know she was still stepping out. A man can only take so much, you wanna wake up everyday and wonder is she going to work or get some?
No way to live.
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