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Posted on 12/27/15 at 6:58 pm to WHATASHAME
quote:Thank you
You may, and yes I am....
then you should know that not everyone is called to be married or have kids
So Liz not having might be Gods plan for her.
Posted on 12/27/15 at 6:59 pm to OWLFAN86
i didnt take you for a bible thumper, owlfan86
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:02 pm to Lester Earl
quote:I'm a PK, my Dad, both Grandfathers, all but one Uncle and all but one male cousin were preachers .
didnt take you for a bible thumper, owlfan86
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:03 pm to OWLFAN86
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I'm a Mexican, my Dad, both Grandfathers, all but one Uncle and all but one male cousin are Mexicans .
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:04 pm to ell_13
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You are ignorant, plain and simple.
I'll take that for what it is. A guy who gets flustered that another guy on a message board has a more optimistic take on parenthood, and proceeds to call him names because he disagrees.
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:05 pm to SuperSaint
even if..
Mexicans know all about family
Mexicans know all about family
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:06 pm to Lsupimp
quote:Not at all.
A guy who gets flustered
quote:I'm a parent. A very happy one. But it's not a one size fits all situation.
guy on a message board has a more optimistic take on parenthood
quote:The irony of you not knowing what ignorance is...
proceeds to call him names because he disagrees.
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:06 pm to OWLFAN86
And tend to be very religious
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:08 pm to Lester Earl
quote:
sorry to hear that
quote:its so kind of you to care
Lester Earl
:hug:
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:11 pm to OWLFAN86
PK, I'm gonna say it like this. On Liz' last days on earth, I hope that missing out on raising a family isn't a regret. No religion intended, just getting the most from a short stay here.
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:14 pm to shiftworker
My sister doesn't want kids and she's happy with her life. I don't think she's any less of a person for it
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:16 pm to SuperSaint
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Maybe your genes aren't superior enough to reproduce. Sometimes it's hard to accept your lot in life, but it's for the greater good of society as a whole.
As much as breeders want to believe theirs are, chances are they aren't. But alas, everyone usually thinks their kids and family are superior and oh so special.
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:16 pm to WHATASHAME
quote:I appreciate the sentiment , I don't have kids. Almost did, lost one. It happens to a lot , not even everyone who wants to have children can or do.
PK, I'm gonna say it like this. On Liz' last days on earth, I hope that missing out on raising a family isn't a regret. No religion intended, just getting the most from a short stay here.
I was able to help raise my nephews who's father died when they were 4 and 2. Maybe that's why things went as they did.
Liz is making a choice, I respect her right to make that choice. She might be free to do other things,
Mother Theresa never gave birth but has millions of children
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:17 pm to lsunurse
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I always said I wanted kids and then had a year or so where I seriously reconsidered this stance. Even though I actually want a child now I've accepted that there are consequences for being a woman my age and waiting to have children. I pray that will not be the case for me, but am trying to be realistic and prepare myself for what happens if I missed my window of opportunity
Serious question......how old are you nurse?
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:18 pm to liz18lsu
I have wanted kids (mostly a boy) since I can remember. Growing up and even to this day I have an amazing relationship with my dad. I always wanted that.
I eventually married a woman that wanted the same things in life and whose number one goal was to have a wonderful family and kids.
We are now parents of an amazing 5 1/2 month baby boy. Every aspect of being a parent is better than what I ever could imagine it being. And I pity anyone that isn't interested in kids. I know it's your choice and you're happy without them. But you also will never know the feeling of being a parent. And I couldn't imagine not having that feeling in my life.
Oh and also carrying on the family name. My son is the is the ONLY male of his generation with out last name. And I only have one sibling with the name. So he is single handily carrying our last name currently.
I eventually married a woman that wanted the same things in life and whose number one goal was to have a wonderful family and kids.
We are now parents of an amazing 5 1/2 month baby boy. Every aspect of being a parent is better than what I ever could imagine it being. And I pity anyone that isn't interested in kids. I know it's your choice and you're happy without them. But you also will never know the feeling of being a parent. And I couldn't imagine not having that feeling in my life.
Oh and also carrying on the family name. My son is the is the ONLY male of his generation with out last name. And I only have one sibling with the name. So he is single handily carrying our last name currently.
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:20 pm to ell_13
You are right.I know a lot of guys that melt and rage because they can't go fishing or drinking with the boys when they want to. I'd say they probably do feel a lot more ambivalent about parenthood than somebody who is 100% committed to parenthood. For me, it was an amazing gift and completely intuitive. I don't have any idea what you or others are struggling with. And I can see that an expression of joy about parenthood would be a bummer if you are cynical or torn about it and how it has negatively effected your life.
Posted on 12/27/15 at 7:22 pm to shiftworker
37, turn 38 in March....my window is closing fast
As I have younger siblings with mental disabilities.....I am very aware of the risks of downs that drastically increases after the age of 40. Therefore I will only try until my 39th bday. If it doesn't happen by then, I will have to consider adoption at that point. I refuse to do more invasive fertility treatments (IVF).
As I have younger siblings with mental disabilities.....I am very aware of the risks of downs that drastically increases after the age of 40. Therefore I will only try until my 39th bday. If it doesn't happen by then, I will have to consider adoption at that point. I refuse to do more invasive fertility treatments (IVF).
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