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Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:19 am to
Posted by LadyTigress
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2017
632 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:19 am to
Bumble/ apps have helped ppl I would think. It's a major ego booster for sure.
Posted by Bluefin
The Banana Stand
Member since Apr 2011
13466 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:19 am to
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but men need to not be so afraid to hear no

This is what landed me in jail for rape.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
37881 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:20 am to
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and now for her daily entertainment and amusement, TD presents today's episode of dear tigress...


reminds me of "one minute inside a woman's head"
Posted by LadyTigress
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2017
632 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:21 am to
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Problem is, women often treat both types of pursuits the same...either meaning that can't tell the difference or simply don't care.


Wow thank you for this response...
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
46002 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:22 am to
For women, a good gauge would be to inadvertently brush his penis with your hand. If he does not respond after the third time, get a little more aggressive.

Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98818 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:22 am to
My biggest problem when picking up women is my wife finding out I'm picking up women
Posted by LadyTigress
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2017
632 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:22 am to
Haha oh yes... that's what fascinates me about the OT, it's like getting inside a man's head. For better or for worse
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:24 am to
a phrase I live by... "never be afraid to ask for what you want"
Posted by tigrbabe08
Member since Apr 2017
219 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:24 am to
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Men need to take more chances


Translation: men should do all the work! now that I'm used up and my looks are fading, why aren't men throwing themselves at me anymore??? It must be fear of rejection, yeah that's it!

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The worst a woman can say is no


Wrong. You'll get pepper sprayed or accused of sexual harassment just for talking to a woman in public nowadays.

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Women will surprise you sometimes and give men a shot when they may not expect it


Yeah, women give men a shot...as long as he looks like Chad and earns 6 figures. Even if he's an admitted child rapist.

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Women love a man who shows confidence and action


Wrong again. Women love money and attention, they simply tolerate everything else.
Posted by c on z
Zamunda
Member since Mar 2009
130695 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:24 am to
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Bumble has been an awesome experiment among my friend group. It turns out girls have just as much trouble putting themselves out there.

Especially when they don't respond with a message after they get matched with someone as required.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
37881 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:24 am to
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Women will surprise you sometimes and give men a shot when they may not expect it.


true. or they may claim rape, harassment, or some other stalker type shite men dont really need to get caught up in.



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Women love a man who shows confidence and action.


then why would you ever say "no" to the poor bastard? You want the guy you WANT to be confident and proactive. the rest need to GTFO. Thats how it really works, right?



Posted by LadyTigress
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2017
632 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:27 am to
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tigrbabe08


Cynical. Got it. Good luck to you.
Posted by Lakeboy7
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2011
28324 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:27 am to
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The worst a woman can say is no


Oh thats not what we fear, its you turning our lives into the 7 Layers of Hell.
Posted by LadyTigress
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2017
632 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:30 am to
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You want the guy you WANT to be confident and proactive


Oh I do. I talk to who I want when I am out. I love striking up convos with strangers, I can talk with anyone
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
46002 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:32 am to
I gave you a legitimate option and you down voted me, without even responding? I feel so rejected, dirty, and used.

Where's the love?
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
130153 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:33 am to
Have you told us your weight yet?
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
25465 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:33 am to
Posted by LadyTigress
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2017
632 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:33 am to
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I gave you a legitimate option and you down voted me, without even responding?


It's sometimes about the peen, Hangit, but not always.
Posted by themasterpater
I travel
Member since Sep 2014
1350 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:33 am to
IMO women are just too much of a pain in the arse these days. You have to straddle some impossible line of being a strong man, but being sensitive. Being in good shape but not better than her. Making good money, but downplay it because of privilege. Give her enough attention that competes with the constant social media look at me shite while still not smothering her. All that is exhausting and not worth it. It's not fear of rejection that runs through my head...it's a cost benefit analysis.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138309 posts
Posted on 8/10/17 at 10:34 am to
Rejection confirms our own perceived inadequacy and our own lack of worth.

Better to ignore or avoid these truths than face them head on.
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