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Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:33 pm to
Posted by CorkSoaker
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:33 pm to
Did I type that?
Posted by Skillet
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Posted by LCA131
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:35 pm to
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, but what's a reasonable expectation on volume for validation? once a week?





QUIT counting. Every time she needs it.
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:36 pm to
you would break it down to a formula

Is it really so hard to do it every time they have a complaint? It takes two minutes

Unless they just bitch constantly, then maybe they aren’t the one
Posted by liz18lsu
Member since Feb 2009
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:38 pm to
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Every time she needs it.


Or wants
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:39 pm to
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you would break it down to a formula

you should know more than most people that i'm not normal and trying to force me to be normal would be a mistake
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:43 pm to
Yes. So just do it every time
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:45 pm to
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not a nurse, but is there no medication for this?


Three cures:

A. Learn to get along.

B. Divorce

C. Mysterious car accident....
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
298305 posts
Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:45 pm to
On a male dominated board where 75% of the threads are bitch threads, and the others get sidetracked by arguing, someone makes a thread bitching about women bitching

Maybe it's just some of you
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:45 pm to
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Yes. So just do it every time


Why? Love?

frick that, doesn't build character/resolve on her part. Only enforces a bail out mentality.

I'm involved with you, you should know that's enough to to be behind you, in whatever.
Posted by Rouge
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:48 pm to
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So just do it every time
I've done this before

I made a note of every time she had.some random bitch. Within 24 hours, i countered with a made up bitch about something.

Within two weeks, she had a sit down conversation about her concerns on my level of discontentment.

We broke up within a month of that talk
Posted by SportsGuyNOLA
New Orleans, LA
Member since May 2014
20733 posts
Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:51 pm to
Bitching is what women do.

At some point, YOU need to decide if the one you’re currently seeing is worth putting up with.

If she is, shut up. If she isnt, move on. You can not change a woman. Don’t bother trying. It’s not gonna happen.
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:56 pm to
I don’t follow your thought pattern at all

Telling someone you see why they’re upset (caring about their emotional well being) is one of the most emotionally healthy things you can do in a relationship

In fact, studies show that people with borderline personality disorder were frequently invalidated by their parents, which was definitely my experience
Posted by LCA131
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 8:56 pm to
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I've done this before

I made a note of every time she had.some random bitch. Within 24 hours, i countered with a made up bitch about something.

Within two weeks, she had a sit down conversation about her concerns on my level of discontentment.

We broke up within a month of that talk


Oweo, is this you?
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
15281 posts
Posted on 5/5/18 at 9:01 pm to
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Telling someone you see why they’re upset (caring about their emotional well being) is one of the most emotionally healthy things you can do in a relationship 



Agreeing with their emotions, right or wrong, is great?

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In fact, studies show that people with borderline personality disorder were frequently invalidated by their parents, which was definitely my experience



Maybe you were wrong.

ETA women who need constant affirmation of their thought process is ridiculous. Especially at the point where the man is repeating exactly what a woman says, so as not to get in an argument.
This post was edited on 5/5/18 at 9:04 pm
Posted by ZappBrannigan
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 9:22 pm to
How you doin'?
Posted by tigerstripedjacket
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Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 5/5/18 at 9:28 pm to
Thank god for this thread. Now that we have all the responses let’s go ahead and make the necessary changes.
Posted by CrimsonTideMD
Member since Dec 2010
7115 posts
Posted on 5/5/18 at 9:31 pm to
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In fact, studies show that people with borderline personality disorder were frequently invalidated by their parents, which was definitely my experience


Had they treated you the exact opposite, you’d still be saying the same thing.

BPDs always find some excuse to lay blame on anyone but themselves.
Posted by starsandstripes
Georgia
Member since Nov 2017
11897 posts
Posted on 5/5/18 at 9:34 pm to
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Course.....we also didn’t live together then so it was easier for him to escape me or me to just avoid him when I was moody.


And here, ladies & gentlemen, is the secret.

You should always maintain separate residences.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
298305 posts
Posted on 5/5/18 at 9:51 pm to
Women who feel entitled or have been spoiled are far more negative than other women. It all comes down to men accepting it because they believe it's normal, and it's not.

People will complain If it benefits them. Stop letting it benefit them.
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