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Disney as a Single Dad

Posted on 2/21/22 at 11:32 am
Posted by Hat Tricks
Member since Oct 2003
28896 posts
Posted on 2/21/22 at 11:32 am
Recently divorced and looking to take the kids to Disney. I have a 9 year old and an almost 6 year old. They have each been before, when I was still with my ex wife. They were 6 and 2 at that time. The visit was pretty easy then because the two-year-old could not do a whole lot. So one of us would ride swap with the older kid while the other kept my youngest.

Just wondering what the best way to tackle Disney would be now as a single Dad. I know the common sentiment is going to be don't do it but I really want my youngest daughter to get to experience Disney like her older brother did at his age.

Are we going to be limited in what we can all do together? I know there are several 3 seat rides. Is my oldest old enough to ride as a single on some rides while I sit next to the youngest?

I know these are pretty vague questions but any suggestions are welcomed.
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
23717 posts
Posted on 2/21/22 at 11:51 am to
Yeah you seem to be on track. I think you are over worrying it as long as your 9 year old will play along and understand that you can't leave your 6 year old behind to take her on the "bigger" kids rides.

Go for it and have a great time. Those are solid times to go as they are still young but beyond needing a nap.
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
34138 posts
Posted on 2/21/22 at 11:56 am to
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Are we going to be limited in what we can all do together?

that really depends on your 9 year old. My parents let my brother and I run rough shod through Disney when I was 12 and he was 9. I get that it was a different time back then (90s). If he can handle sitting alone, he will be fine. Also, he needs to realize, Space Mountain and other few coasters may not happen this trip.

The other option is to bring a cousin his age so they can be a pair or see if your folks want to go/group trip with family.
Posted by DingLeeBerry
Member since Oct 2014
11724 posts
Posted on 2/21/22 at 12:07 pm to
I did something similar a few years ago while my wife was at a conference. It was different because of ride limitations but also gave us a chance to explore and do some of the things that get overlooked when you are focused on the rides.

Also a good time to do character dining because you only get stuck with 1 adult charge.
This post was edited on 2/21/22 at 12:15 pm
Posted by TTB
LA to L.A.
Member since Nov 2006
3124 posts
Posted on 2/21/22 at 12:20 pm to
Find a single mom with similar age kids and go together?
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
53509 posts
Posted on 2/21/22 at 12:32 pm to
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My parents let my brother and I run rough shod through Disney when I was 12 and he was 9. I get that it was a different time back then (90s).


Eh, stick a couple of Airtags on them and let them go

There's enough iPhones roaming around Disney that they'll constantly update.
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
34138 posts
Posted on 2/21/22 at 12:45 pm to
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Eh, stick a couple of Airtags on them and let them go


That's not the worst idea.
Posted by WhiteMandingo
Member since Jan 2016
7546 posts
Posted on 2/21/22 at 7:44 pm to
We went as kids a few times we had to meet at a certain place each park at 6pm and then we would eat and spend the afternoon together. This was before cell phones. I we did that stuff now days my parents would be in jail. I was 8 and my best friend ripping through the park we each got a 50.00 a day and we got to keep the change.
Posted by SLafourche07
Member since Feb 2008
10050 posts
Posted on 2/22/22 at 8:13 am to
Why are y’all saying the 6 year old “can’t” ride some rides?

Last year we took my then 5 year old (month before she turned 6) and she rode everything except Everest.

Granted she’s always been tall for her age so that may be an issue. But you may be able to do everything if your younger one is adventurous and tall enough.
Posted by Hat Tricks
Member since Oct 2003
28896 posts
Posted on 2/22/22 at 8:33 am to
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Why are y’all saying the 6 year old “can’t” ride some rides?


I guess my concern would is any rides that might require an accompanying adult for the 6 year old. Would my 9 year old need one too or is he going to be good to go by himself on most rides.
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
23717 posts
Posted on 2/22/22 at 2:03 pm to
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Why are y’all saying the 6 year old “can’t” ride some rides?


You may be right, but also not all kids like roller coasters especially young ones or other rides like Soarin can scare them. All depends on the kids.
Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
21103 posts
Posted on 2/22/22 at 3:07 pm to
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I guess my concern would is any rides that might require an accompanying adult for the 6 year old.

Pretty sure all the rides in disney are height restricted, not based on age.

Height requirement list
You can basically just plan it off from here.

I would consider partnering with another adult(s) w kids. That way if there are rides your youngest can't/won't do, you can ride share so one adult stays with her while the other rides with the older kids; then the other adult can ride once you get off w some of the other kids. Never know when she might freak out right before you get on the ride
Posted by Btrtigerfan
Disgruntled employee
Member since Dec 2007
23661 posts
Posted on 2/22/22 at 4:29 pm to
Do you have a teenaged niece or nephew that you could borrow for the price of a free trip?
Posted by jmh5724
Member since Jan 2012
2690 posts
Posted on 2/22/22 at 10:18 pm to
Im in the same situation as you except twin 9 year olds. My 7 year old is 46” so I knew there are some things he cant ride. I was more worried about one of them being scared to ride something and then none of us could ride so I invited my mom and paid her way since she already helps a lot. I’ve run into the issue before of one kid refusing to do something and basically holding the rest of us hostage
Posted by MikeBRLA
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2005
17156 posts
Posted on 2/23/22 at 7:22 am to
Just because you are a “single dad” doesn’t mean you have to do Disney alone with the kids. Invite a grandparent, older niece/nephew, or other trusted person to help you out. Or better yet, a “nanny”
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