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People who talk over other people

Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:03 pm
Posted by Yeahbuddy35
Swagtown USA
Member since Nov 2021
175 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:03 pm
Do some people not have the instinct to stop their sentence when other people are talking, or when two people start talking at the same time and one of them need to stop talking to listen to the other? I work with two guys who do this and when they are together they will both be trying to talk over each other for for 10-15 seconds straight and it baffles me. Does this come from ego and thinking what you have to say is more important than others?
Posted by BrohemAlem11
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
13505 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:05 pm to
They're called narcissists. They either cut you off or talk over you because thier words are more important. I had a buddies wife who was like this....the entire friend group has stopped inviting them places because of it
Posted by Stexas
SWLA
Member since May 2013
6888 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:06 pm to
Why not ask them to stop? Then again maybe going to an anonymous message board and writing vaguely about it may get better results.
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
19524 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:10 pm to
Not supporting either one over the other, but the Secretary of State held his own against Ted Cruz, and that takes some doing. Like two chihuahuas fighting over a bone.
Posted by SidewalkTiger
Midwest, USA
Member since Dec 2019
68346 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:11 pm to
I used to find myself doing it when I was younger, mostly in situations where I knew where the other person was going in their statement and I was already replying.

I've tried to work hard at not doing it
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
38259 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:11 pm to
There definitely is a lack of self control in it
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
60040 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:12 pm to
I’ve noticed a diminishing in conversational etiquette for years. Talking over others is common, but the big one is interrupting. I’m going to blame the usual culprits here.
Posted by James11111
Walnut Creek, Ca
Member since Jul 2020
5548 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:15 pm to
I had a tendency to interrupt people from time to time when my thoughts got ahead of me. Ive worked on improving myself in that manner and rarely do it any more.

I try not to judge other people when they do it because it doesnt always mean they are a jerk.
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
56315 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:16 pm to
I only do it at Afters, but everyone does it at Afters, and its hella fun.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
74075 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:18 pm to
There's one guy at work who will start talking in circles and repeating himself because he doesn't know how to finish a thought, so if you don't cut him off at some point, he'll pass out. I cut him off all the time and have no problem talking over him and asserting my dominance. It is necessary.
Posted by IlikeyouBetty
Bossier City, LA
Member since Nov 2010
1609 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:19 pm to
Wait until you meet a sentence finisher.
Posted by StreamsOfWhiskey
The Woodlands, TX
Member since Jun 2013
853 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:20 pm to
My wife gets in me about interrupting. Once she hung out with some of my friends and met my mother, she realized that if you didn’t interrupt, you’d get sucked into one of the longest and most boring conversations ever.

If a person often gets spoken over, one need ask themself whether they’re too verbose.
Posted by Herschal
Land of the Free
Member since Sep 2011
2149 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:25 pm to
quote:

People on cocaine talk over other people


Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
9907 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:27 pm to
My dad and uncle would do this. For a good 5-8 seconds they’d both be rolling.

It taught me how not to have a conversation with others.
Posted by Pedro
Geaux Hawks
Member since Jul 2008
38664 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:27 pm to
My wife’s family is bad about this. Drives me nuts sometimes
Posted by upgrade
Member since Jul 2011
14683 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 4:57 pm to
People who only want to have a one sided conversation.
After a while of no pauses in their stories, my mind will definitely drift and I begin thinking of ways to get away. Sometimes I get self conscious and wonder if they know I’m not paying attention anymore.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
38294 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 5:07 pm to
Ego and insecurity.
Posted by Julz5198
Member since Mar 2023
575 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 5:19 pm to
My daughter in law and sister in law. It’s funny as hell to watch them hold a conversation. Currently we are in the cycle of sister in law not talking to anyone????. That will last a few months. Rinse and repeat
Posted by Sack531
Member since Jul 2019
545 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 5:26 pm to
I'm a painter. It's just not in me to miss a detail. Just cut me off, I'll get the message.
Posted by Jack Ruby
Member since Apr 2014
26791 posts
Posted on 7/26/24 at 6:54 pm to
Zoom/Remote meetings has contributed substantially to this trend rising.

Small delays makes it worse.
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