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For those who divorced before the age of 30

Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:13 am
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
78259 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:13 am
At what point did you realize you made a mistake getting married at such a young age?
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
134428 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:13 am to
About the time she told me she wanted a divorce.


Of course, I also got out with a lot of life ahead of me and I won't be in my 50s once my kids are grown. So it's not so bad.

Lucky for me my ex had the decency to let it be over once it was over and not drag it out and take me for all I was worth.
This post was edited on 8/24/15 at 9:18 am
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
40761 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:15 am to
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At what point did you realize you made a mistake getting married at such a young age?



This would have been sad if it happened to me, considering I was a month shy of my 30th birthday when I got married.

I'm drilling that into my kid's head. I may even sabotage a relationship of theirs to keep them out of wedlock.

Married before 25? No way. I came pretty close to it at 25, and I would have missed a lot. Close call.
This post was edited on 8/24/15 at 9:18 am
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
34192 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:16 am to
If you are asking, you most likely already know the answer
Posted by PolyPusher86
St. George
Member since Jun 2010
3357 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:17 am to
There's a lot of young people who have no clue what they want out of life and they'll drag you along looking for it if you allow it. 30 is a good age to get married.
This post was edited on 8/24/15 at 9:18 am
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:19 am to
When that count arranged an intervention.

Really? You got my brother here for this shite? The guy doesn't call on my birthday but you got him to drive across three states to come talk about my "problem"?

frick her.
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
70292 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:21 am to
My wife said she knew on the honeymoon. Kept trying to make it work, finnaly realized he was a complete douchebag, and started thinking about best way to end it.

Here comes ksayetiger and it was a done deal. She was 25 at the time.
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
61036 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:21 am to
I think you still have feelings for her. Maybe she will take you back. Good luck buddy
Posted by Emteein
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2011
4000 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:22 am to
I got married at 31. Never understood why some are in such a hurry to get married. Why tie yourself down when you are young. The best part was when I had graduated and had a real job, actually had money to play with. Got all that out of me, before I got married.
Posted by WillyLoman
On Island Time
Member since Dec 2007
1722 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:22 am to
When we were leaving the reception. No shite. She was pissed and wouldn't say a word to me when we got in the car. At that moment I was thinking, wtf have I done.
Posted by Commandeaux
Zachary
Member since Jul 2009
7881 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:22 am to
quote:

At what point did you realize you made a mistake getting married at such a young age?


Ashley Madison got you?
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:23 am to
quote:

think you still have feelings for her. Maybe she will take you back. Good luck buddy


Thanks bro, I really shouldn't be talking about this. The wounds are too fresh........
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39273 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:24 am to
I realized we were different people with different ideals.

Moved on. (shrugs)
Posted by JJBTiger2012
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2013
1891 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:24 am to
quote:

There's a lot of young people who have no clue what they want out of life and they'll drag you along looking for it if you allow it. 30 is a good age to get married.


This. Young couples get married before they even know who they are. Sometimes the transformation of a person from HS, college, then real world is insane. I'm 30 and I'd say a solid 60% of the ppl I know who married young are devorced or in terrible marriages. If I had married some of the chicks I dated in my early 20's I'd be a miserable miiiiserable man. Instead, I held of, married a good one, and couldn't be happier.
Posted by ellishughtiger
70118
Member since Jul 2004
21182 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:26 am to
spinoff...how do everyone feel about marriage at 40?
Posted by SidewalkDawg
Chair
Member since Nov 2012
10274 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:27 am to
The first time I caught that crazy bitch snorting a line of coke of my brothers dick was one thing. But what really sealed the deal for me came when she reorganized my vintage collection of Magic the Gathering cards. frick you bitch that took me hours to organize by card rarity and vintage!

Posted by LSU_Saints_Hornets
Uptown NO,LA
Member since Jan 2013
9739 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:27 am to
quote:

About the time she told me she wanted a divorce.



Score one for the BBC!
Posted by elprez00
Hammond, LA
Member since Sep 2011
31510 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:31 am to
quote:

There's a lot of young people who have no clue what they want out of life and they'll drag you along looking for it if you allow it

Damn thats a true statement right there.
Posted by Jimbeaux
Member since Sep 2003
21678 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:33 am to
quote:

This. Young couples get married before they even know who they are. Sometimes the transformation of a person from HS, college, then real world is insane. I


Why do you think it's taking your generation so long to "know who they are"?

This is a serious question.

My best guess is over protective parents and a bubble-wrapped world environment. But that's just my own "older guy" perspective. I'm really interested to hear from people in their 30's on this.
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
76951 posts
Posted on 8/24/15 at 9:34 am to
A lot of people I know that married in their late teens/early 20's are still married. Most of them seem happy but you can tell a few of them aren't going to last much longer.

I had to talk a friend out of proposing to his girlfriend freshman year of college. He swore that he loved her and she had said that she wanted to marry him. Six months after convincing him it was best to wait, she was sucking another dude's dick.
This post was edited on 8/24/15 at 9:35 am
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