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Been in the Dumps Lately- Need a Reset

Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:32 pm
Posted by 3PieceSpicy
Metairie
Member since Jan 2021
7887 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:32 pm
Last 15 months or so have been tough. World has been getting back to normal as of late, but I’m having a hard time getting back to my normal self. My interests aren’t as interesting, nothing is as funny as it used to be, nothing is fulfilling (work accomplishments don’t make me feel anything), and all I want to do with my free time is lay in bed. I’ve had periods like this before, but I’ve always been able to drag myself out of them. This feeling has been more extended than usual. I feel truly stuck and like time is passing me by.

Any tips and encouragement from the OT would be appreciated. I’m a pretty private person, so I’m not one to bring this type of thing to family, friends, significant other. I don’t want people to think it’s their fault in some way or they aren’t enough to make me happy.

In all honesty, I feel like this Covid thing kind of tripped me up a bit. I was actually enjoying life, in the best shape of my life, etc and then the shutdowns happened. I’m a young adult that lives alone and while it was nice to unplug for a bit, the months without physical human contact took a toll and I’m having a hard time getting back into the swing of things.

Posted by HogBalls
Member since Nov 2014
9032 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:33 pm to
Tinder whores
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
10814 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:34 pm to
Go speak to a psychiatrist. Guarantee he/she will know exactly what you’re saying and will make perfect sense of it for you.
Posted by McCaigBro69
TigerDroppings Premium Member
Member since Oct 2014
45303 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:35 pm to
My situation is pretty similar but I’ve been in the office every day aside from my two weeks with the Wuhan.

If you have the ability to go work back in person do it.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148915 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:35 pm to
quote:

nothing is fulfilling
have you tried a 3 piece spicy

Posted by KingOrange
Mayfair
Member since Aug 2018
12913 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:36 pm to
You have come to the right place for this information.
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
66950 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:37 pm to
Seriously, it looks like you've been done exactly what the Democrats want every one to be.
Lazy and unmotivated.
Get your arse out of the house. Go to a park and hike. Ride a bike. Volunteer at a shelter. Do something that is fulfilling for your soul. Don't be crushed by the news of the world. You are the result of what the media wants us to be. Turn off the TV for good. Read a book. Run a 5k. Anything
Posted by lsuguy84
Madisonville
Member since Feb 2009
26860 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:37 pm to
Posted by SouthernStyled
Member since Apr 2021
1307 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:37 pm to
quote:

the months without physical human contact took a toll 


Get laid. Pay up front if you have to.
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
5957 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:39 pm to
Popeye’s and Tinder.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
41843 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:39 pm to
How old are you Baw?
Posted by thejudge
Westlake, LA
Member since Sep 2009
15125 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:40 pm to
quote:

Any tips and encouragement from the OT would be appreciated. I’m a pretty private person, so I’m not one to bring this type of thing to family, friends, significant other. I don’t want people to think it’s their fault in some way or they aren’t enough to make me happy.


quote:

the months without physical human contact took a toll and I’m having a hard time getting back into the swing of things.


Find real people like the ones mentioned above to tell the second quote to.

Blood work wouldn't hurt.

Weight loss either. Get to a gym. They are busy now with lots of activity. Go strike up a conversation with someone. Find your local bar and sit and have a beer and find someone to talk to there.

If it helps I generally feel like shite most days due to a colon resection killing my sleep cycle, but I get up out of bed daily. You can do it.

Leave your phone plugged in the kitchen at night so it doesn't distract you. I bet you lie up at night fricking with it.

Work out after work.
Take a hot shower when you get home.
Go to bed about same time daily.
Don't bring your phone to bed.

Sleep is everything. Actual Deep Sleep must be obtained.
Posted by hojo
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2005
1366 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:40 pm to
Personal fulfillment/purpose, I believe, only comes in doing something worthwhile for others. You said you're single and living alone. You need to find an outlet which allows you to find purpose in doing something rewarding for someone else. What/who/how is up to you. When you can't get out of bed for yourself, do it for someone else.
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
23156 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:40 pm to
Get back in touch to what made you happy. I get in a funk every now and again, I just power through it. Solo fishing trips really help to clear the mind.
Posted by little billy
Orange County, CA
Member since May 2015
8469 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:42 pm to
Stay active is most important thing. Do stuff. Anything. Bike ride. Hike. Fish. Find and be with people with mutual interests.

What not to do: isolate, do nothing, stare at your phone for hours.

Basically don't:

quote:

all I want to do with my free time is lay in bed. 


Get on an antidepressant if necessary.
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
25422 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:44 pm to
quote:

the months without physical human contact


We’re you people legitimately not hanging out?

Christ.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
43666 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:44 pm to
Find a new porn genre that’s way different from what you’re used to. You’re gonna have to dive deep and go through some stuff that will probably disgust you but once you find the one you’ll be a new man for a few months.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:46 pm to
Start working out and speak to a psrink.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
37863 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:50 pm to
quote:

the months without physical human contact took a toll and I’m having a hard time getting back into the swing of things.


What does this even mean? You haven’t been laid ina year or you haven’t had social contact with anyone? Took a toll how? Did you forget how to smile or talk to people? Either you were introverted before or you’re full of shite now. Either way,
Get out of the house and go be social. It’s not difficult but you gotta make an effort.
Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
180464 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:55 pm to
quote:

Go speak to a psychiatrist.


And then with the new "red flag" laws Dems are pushing he will never be able to own a gun. It's sad that this guy probably needs some help but will be punished forever if he seeks it.
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