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re: Confession Time (Advice Welcomed) **Updated, pg 15**
Posted on 10/31/18 at 9:11 pm to Ted2010
Posted on 10/31/18 at 9:11 pm to Ted2010
The lowest divorce rate is black woman/white man, so that's a pretty decent tell. Screw white women, all they do is cause trouble and want something for sex. They dont appreciate shite. Stay brown and flaunt that shite in front of white chicks.
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Posted on 10/31/18 at 9:58 pm to Ted2010
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But, there is a potential problem. My S.O. is a black woman. My parents are from an older generation (they are in their 60s.) While they do not have a problem with black folks they certainly think interracial relationships are very wrong. I've heard my whole life say mixing races is wrong.
I know that when I tell them that their future daughter-in-law is black they are going to shite a brick. It's going to cause a strain in my relationship with them and could also strain my relationship with my girl.
So? frick your parents they arent worth their weight in shite if they don't support you.
Posted on 11/1/18 at 4:44 pm to pjab
What if she's okay with the gay?
Posted on 11/1/18 at 5:00 pm to Ted2010
How dark are we talking? Light, Mocha, or Midnight?
It shouldn't make a difference, but I have found older racist folks are more tolerant if the skin is lighter.
It shouldn't make a difference, but I have found older racist folks are more tolerant if the skin is lighter.
Posted on 11/1/18 at 5:02 pm to Ted2010
I am not reading through all these pages, just read the OP and Update.
You owe your parents nothing besides being a good person and treating people well.
You marry and do what you want with your life. Raise good kids and teach them this is America and they can be whatever they want. Especially with Dad's white male privilege helping.
You owe your parents nothing besides being a good person and treating people well.
You marry and do what you want with your life. Raise good kids and teach them this is America and they can be whatever they want. Especially with Dad's white male privilege helping.
Posted on 11/1/18 at 5:08 pm to Ted2010
I've only read the OP and the update on page 15.
OP, do what makes you happy. Your SO sounds like a great person and if you make each other happy, that's all that matters.
Your mom (and dad) will hopefully come along in time, but you have to worry about yourself. If you leave a great woman because they can't accept her, will you forgive them? Will you be able to accept them?
None of this is your fault. You aren't doing anything to the family.
Be with the woman you want to be with and go be happy. That's all that matters.
OP, do what makes you happy. Your SO sounds like a great person and if you make each other happy, that's all that matters.
Your mom (and dad) will hopefully come along in time, but you have to worry about yourself. If you leave a great woman because they can't accept her, will you forgive them? Will you be able to accept them?
None of this is your fault. You aren't doing anything to the family.
Be with the woman you want to be with and go be happy. That's all that matters.
Posted on 11/1/18 at 5:17 pm to East Coast Band
White male - black female have the lowest divorce rates
White male - whites female is the second lowest divorce rate
Black male - white female is the highest divorce rate
All the others are in between. Can’t remember off the top of my head.
So it depends on the races
White male - whites female is the second lowest divorce rate
Black male - white female is the highest divorce rate
All the others are in between. Can’t remember off the top of my head.
So it depends on the races
Posted on 11/1/18 at 6:30 pm to ZappBrannigan
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What if she's okay with the gay?
C’mon...
Posted on 11/1/18 at 7:04 pm to Ted2010
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I can't accept it.I'll never accept it it's just not right and I can't believe you're doing this to our family."
You should’ve dropped the divorce bomb here bro
Posted on 11/1/18 at 7:07 pm to Ted2010
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I'd definitely be interested in hearing more from people in interracial relationships.
My cousin from Dallas only dates black chicks, has kids from two different black chicks and is currently married to one. His dad's not real fond of black folks.
I'll text him right now and see what he says.
Posted on 11/1/18 at 7:32 pm to Marciano1
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This is America, baw. Interracial relationships will draw some negative attention anywhere, especially in the south. It has nothing to do with Catholics, Baptists, urban areas, rural areas or anything
You couldn't be more wrong. I hear it from people who have lived both up North and the South. They all say up north is more racist. You have to remember, in the South white people have lived around black people for generations. Cities, towns and neighborhoods are much more mixed down South than they are up North. They just don't have the same volume of black people up North that they have down here. Much higher percentage of the population in the South is black.
Both my wife and I grew up in south Louisiana our entire lives around black people. We were both totally weirded out when we had to move to St Louis and Austin after Katrina. Would go months without seeing black people and the black people that did live there lived in very specific, segregated neighborhoods that were small in both size and number.
Still, don't take it from me, just ask Randy Newman...
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We are rednecks, we're rednecks
We don't know our arse From a hole in the ground
We're rednecks, we're rednecks
And we're keeping the nlggas down
Now your northern nlgga's a negro
You see he's got his dignity
Down here we're too ignorant to realize
That the North has set the nlgga free
Yes he's free to be put in a cage In Harlem in New York City
And he's free to be put in a cage On the South Side of Chicago And the West Side
And he's free to be put in a cage In Houghton in Cleveland
And he's free to be put in a cage In East St. Louis
And he's free to be put in a cage In Fillmore in San Francisco
And he's free to be put in a cage In Roxbury in Boston
They're gatherin' 'em up from miles around Keepin' the nlggas down
This post was edited on 11/1/18 at 7:33 pm
Posted on 11/1/18 at 7:36 pm to Ted2010
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She's from an older generation and I guess set in those ways
this is b.s. and don't let her off the hook. like i said in the earlier message, my ex's grandmother grew up in Vidor, TX, about as racist a town as you can get, she loved me and so did that whole side of the family.
If she chooses to get over herself and be a grownup everything will be fine, but if she doesn't then know that your mom is immature and unable to get past her own ego. Some can't unfortunately, but don't give up on her because then all the BS she's been telling herself will become a self fulfilling prophecy in her eyes.
Just tell your mom you love her, you've made your decision, and it has nothing to do with her so there's nothing for her to "accept" or "get over" but her own insecurities. but be nice about it.
Posted on 11/1/18 at 7:38 pm to Ted2010
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what a count
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That's not nice
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what a count
Posted on 11/1/18 at 7:40 pm to East Coast Band
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Heck, my mother got upset that I married "inter-religiously". (is that a word?)
Bigger deal than interracial IMO
Not dating black girls because of cultural difference is fine, IMO
Parents getting irate about it is ridiculous, who gives a shite
Posted on 11/1/18 at 7:40 pm to Ted2010
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Because I would very much like to take my SO and my kids too my mom's house to meet my mom and my family over there for Thanksgiving
Only option is for you to go to thanksgiving in blackface. It has to be done. Trust me.
Posted on 11/1/18 at 7:43 pm to Kujo
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lowest divorce rate is black woman/white man
The Jeffersons had it right all along. I'll be damned.
Posted on 11/1/18 at 7:47 pm to TigrrrDad
What your story proves is what we all already know. Most white people that get labeled racist arent actually racist. They just have a big problem with black men and when you look at the state of culture among black males in America, can you really blame them? It's not a race thing, it's a culture thing.
Most of these people don't have a problem with their sons marrying black women, but they almost all have a problem with their daughters marrying black men.
My father-in-law's wife is Ethiopian and she can't stand the black people in America. Won't have anything to do with them.
Most of these people don't have a problem with their sons marrying black women, but they almost all have a problem with their daughters marrying black men.
My father-in-law's wife is Ethiopian and she can't stand the black people in America. Won't have anything to do with them.
Posted on 11/1/18 at 8:57 pm to nola000
I want my kids to look like me, I don’t see how that makes me racist
Posted on 11/1/18 at 9:02 pm to Ted2010
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I can't accept it.I'll never accept it it's just not right and I can't believe you're doing this to our family."
So worried about appearances
Posted on 11/1/18 at 9:15 pm to Ted2010
Just curious, how’s the sex life?
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