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re: dating in 2021
Posted on 1/30/21 at 11:44 pm to Lincoln Dawson
Posted on 1/30/21 at 11:44 pm to Lincoln Dawson
Sex and nothing more for your own safety. Wait 3 dates max for sex
Use hinge
Use hinge
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Posted on 1/31/21 at 12:45 am to The Spleen
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shite, college was easy. Some nights you just had to say hi to a girl and she'd come back to your house. Or maybe it was just my irresistible charm and gorgeous looks.
until Obama basically said half of all female college students are victims of sexual assault.
but dating is easier when you're young and all in the same place and horny.
Posted on 1/31/21 at 12:54 am to Lincoln Dawson
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dating in 2021
Seems easier than it was in 1991.
I’m jealous at how easy it is to hook up now compared to when I was single.
I never got to live the single life in the app age.
Posted on 1/31/21 at 8:36 am to beerJeep
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Baggage. Crazy. Kids.
Pick your poison.
That’s been my experience. If they like me back, they’re either crazy or difficult home situations that I don’t have the patience for. I would date a girl with a kid, or even 2 but it makes everything so difficult. I’m not a rich man so I don’t have that going for me, but I think I’m decent looking for a 45 year old and a a good guy, but I don’t really like most of my options out there.
Posted on 1/31/21 at 8:42 am to supadave3
I’m nervous about my baggage with my family. Like is that gonna send a guy running for the hills when I actually do try and start dating??
No kids as y’all all know, but I deal with a lot with my dad and his mental illness. And help manage all medical care, appointments, etc. As well as helping out my mom and siblings at times.
No kids as y’all all know, but I deal with a lot with my dad and his mental illness. And help manage all medical care, appointments, etc. As well as helping out my mom and siblings at times.
Posted on 1/31/21 at 8:44 am to lsunurse
Dating as an adult caregiver? Blessings to anyone who can manage that.
Posted on 1/31/21 at 8:46 am to lsunurse
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I’m nervous about my baggage with my family. Like is that gonna send a guy running for the hills when I actually do try and start dating??
No kids as y’all all know, but I deal with a lot with my dad and his mental illness. And help manage all medical care, appointments, etc. As well as helping out my mom and siblings at times.
What age range would you be looking at?
Posted on 1/31/21 at 8:46 am to Lincoln Dawson
Met my wife on OkCupid years ago. I will have to find where she is hiding her meth. I made it clear that all drugs are to be split 50/50.
This post was edited on 1/31/21 at 8:47 am
Posted on 1/31/21 at 8:47 am to lsunurse
quote:It definitely won’t help
Like is that gonna send a guy running for the hills when I actually do try and start dating??
Posted on 1/31/21 at 8:47 am to RedPop4
Oh I don’t do daily care to my family. I maybe actually see them once a month, maybe more often if my dad has lots of appointments. I live 35-40 minutes away from them so really try to stick to boundaries and only help them with stuff they can’t manage on their own.
But when my dad has medical appointments I have to go with him. If there are issues going on I have to get involved. I’ve gotten better with maintaining boundaries though and my family has gotten much better at respecting those boundaries.
But when my dad has medical appointments I have to go with him. If there are issues going on I have to get involved. I’ve gotten better with maintaining boundaries though and my family has gotten much better at respecting those boundaries.
Posted on 1/31/21 at 8:50 am to supadave3
My father who is in his late 50s used POF. It was nothing but crazy women. One was on real house wives of Atlanta for a few episodes. Got off because her husband wanted a divorce while filming.
Long story short, her family is filthy rich. After a few months of dating, the woman’s parents offered them a million dollars to get married right away. I’m assuming she wanted back on the show. He said frick that and left her arse.
Long story short, her family is filthy rich. After a few months of dating, the woman’s parents offered them a million dollars to get married right away. I’m assuming she wanted back on the show. He said frick that and left her arse.
Posted on 1/31/21 at 8:51 am to BluegrassBelle
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And in the meantime, enjoy yourself. Go do all the things you’ve wanted to do but couldn’t (for whatever reason) with your ex. IMO that was my biggest point of growth between relationships
This is good advice. I’ve definitely been trying to ‘enjoy the journey’ more lately than I used to be while in search of ‘a destination’ that it seems I may not ever arrive at.
This post was edited on 1/31/21 at 8:53 am
Posted on 1/31/21 at 8:53 am to Mo Jeaux
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What age range would you be looking at?
I guess 40 to 50? I’ll be 43 soon.
I have mostly dated guys a little younger than me (my ex husband 2 years younger) so don’t mind younger....but they likely would want kids.
Posted on 1/31/21 at 9:49 am to lsunurse
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I have mostly dated guys a little younger than me (my ex husband 2 years younger) so don’t mind younger....but they likely would want kids.
I'd imagine most guys that are 40 and want kids probably already have them assuming they've already been married. Maybe not all but I'd guess 40 is towards the end of the new father scale.
Posted on 1/31/21 at 10:09 am to fallguy_1978
I know my ex still wants kids and he is 40.
It does piss me off a little that my ex husband can just go date a younger woman and get to become a father like he always wanted. And I don’t have that same option.
Even after all he put me through. Not feeling the need to tell me that he was having doubts before I put my body through hell and multiple surgeries and painful procedures over 5 years trying to give him a baby. Cheating on me right after I was grieving my recent IVF failing and while I was dealing with my father being hospitalized at the time. That fricker could still get what I will never have.
Biology just sucks
It does piss me off a little that my ex husband can just go date a younger woman and get to become a father like he always wanted. And I don’t have that same option.
Even after all he put me through. Not feeling the need to tell me that he was having doubts before I put my body through hell and multiple surgeries and painful procedures over 5 years trying to give him a baby. Cheating on me right after I was grieving my recent IVF failing and while I was dealing with my father being hospitalized at the time. That fricker could still get what I will never have.
Biology just sucks
Posted on 1/31/21 at 10:12 am to lsunurse
How about 29 yo and 3 states away 
Posted on 1/31/21 at 10:14 am to lsunurse
I had my youngest when I was 43. Trust me, the joke is on him!
Posted on 1/31/21 at 10:15 am to lsunurse
Geez nurse I’m really sorry
Posted on 1/31/21 at 10:16 am to Indfanfromcol
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Long story short, her family is filthy rich. After a few months of dating, the woman’s parents offered them a million dollars to get married right away. I’m assuming she wanted back on the show. He said frick that and left her arse.
Ngl I prolly would have taken it
Posted on 1/31/21 at 10:17 am to jimbeam
I want nothing to do with a 29 year old. Sorry When I say younger...I mean more mid to late 30s. I would really rather date someone closer to my age. But I realize many single men my age are likely aiming for the younger ones so I may have to look at men a little older when I’m ready.
This post was edited on 1/31/21 at 10:18 am
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