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Posted on 11/15/25 at 6:01 pm to
Posted by Arthur Bach
Member since Jul 2016
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Posted on 11/15/25 at 6:01 pm to
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sounds like she needs some tough love, unfortunately.


Rolling the dice with the tough love suggestion when her brain chemistry is so out of whack.

I would be at an Al-Anon meeting in the next hour. And checking out Palmetto outside of Rayville.
Posted by Craft
Member since Oct 2019
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Posted on 11/15/25 at 6:04 pm to
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Pics?


Not cool.
Posted by Chicken
Jackassistan
Member since Aug 2003
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Posted on 11/15/25 at 6:10 pm to
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Rolling the dice with the tough love suggestion when her brain chemistry is so out of whack.

I would be at an Al-Anon meeting in the next hour. And checking out Palmetto outside of Rayville.
I get it...but she is an adult now...she can't be forced to do something like that...tough situation.

Posted by Veritas
Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 11/15/25 at 6:12 pm to
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WELLBUTRIN XL® (bupropion hydrochloride extended-release tablets) is a prescription medicine used to treat adults with a certain type of depression called major depressive disorder, and for the prevention of autumn-winter seasonal depression (seasonal affective disorder).


They’ll fricking make anything these days.
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 11/15/25 at 6:12 pm to
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Posted by Arthur Bach
Member since Jul 2016
3076 posts
Posted on 11/15/25 at 6:21 pm to
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I get it...but she is an adult now...she can't be forced to do something like that...tough situation.


My father didn’t realize he had more than just a “problem with Jack” and I didn’t even realize I had a problem with drugs/alcohol until I was in recovery.

There is a time for tough love. Now is not that time. It may well work, but I wouldn’t gamble with that.

This is first hand knowledge-A young woman was cut off from her family and basically became a prostitute/victim of human trafficking. This from a very upper class family in a very rich area. She’s clean now and in the program, but how far your own daughter’s rock bottom is-isn’t truly known at the moment.

Trust me-it can get much, much worse. I would also be surprised if she said “Hey dad, I have a problem, I need help. I’m willing.” If it were only that easy.

You are powerless over this situation. Pray. And get to Al-Anon. Godspeed!
This post was edited on 11/15/25 at 6:22 pm
Posted by Bernie Bierman
Member since Mar 2019
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Posted on 11/15/25 at 6:25 pm to
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Posted by specchaser
lafayette
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 11/15/25 at 6:27 pm to
Prayers to you
Just keep loving and hoping but take action and get her into rehab
Also you and your WIFE must see a professional that talk you through the best way to handle
Godspeed
Posted by jimmy the leg
Member since Aug 2007
43576 posts
Posted on 11/15/25 at 6:34 pm to
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If she's bipolar then some psychotropic drugs can amplify that so look into it.


There are different types of bipolar. The wrong meds can make someone suicidal.

I had an extended relative that went through that. They ended up being prescribed lamictal and extended release lithium, which seems to work okay.

As for right now, if she is acting in an uncontrollable manner, I believe that you can call the Coroner’s office. Iirc, they can place her in care for 72 hours. It may give you time to get your plan in place.

A rehab center seems like a wise move, however, she is going to have to figure out a way to be productive in life. That means coming to grips with her reality.

They said that they have a “work book” that helped them out tremendously. I’ll see if I can get the name of it. They swear by it.

Good luck amigo.

ETA - The name of that “workbook” is a mouthful. They also said that she should wait until she is in a better place, and wants to understand / address her bipolar disorder. They said it is enlightening, but also tough to read because when things click, it makes you realize how out of sorts your life has been. In short, they said it’s not just a mirror, but an emotional crawl down memory lane.

They said to buckle up, because it’s going to be tough, and isn’t an overnight fix.

Here is the book:

LINK

Again…good luck amigo.
This post was edited on 11/15/25 at 6:49 pm
Posted by Buck Magnum
Springdale
Member since Dec 2003
11857 posts
Posted on 11/15/25 at 7:12 pm to
There's the one in Northeast Louisiana. Near Rayville I think I just know my buddy went there to get cleaned up.
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
31420 posts
Posted on 11/15/25 at 7:13 pm to
Theres a ton in NELA. I’d recommend Lincoln Nova in Ruston, the best rehab imo


Edit: not saying OPs daughter needs it. A 19 year old getting drunk and snorting stuff doesn’t mean she needs rehab
This post was edited on 11/15/25 at 7:15 pm
Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
Member since Apr 2015
4510 posts
Posted on 11/15/25 at 7:16 pm to
I haven’t seen pics posted. Hotties with these problems are endearing. Uggoes have to see psychiatrists
Posted by BluegrassCardinal
Kentucky
Member since Nov 2022
1938 posts
Posted on 11/15/25 at 7:19 pm to
Yep, I’m looking at some Al Anon groups in Lexington. One meets tomorrow night at 6. Monday I’m gonna really push for a rehab stay.

In the meantime, lots of prayers and a Rosary or two.
Posted by 1BamaRTR
In Your Head Blvd
Member since Apr 2015
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Posted on 11/15/25 at 7:26 pm to
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This board rarely disappoints. Tough crowd

More like it’s an overplayed joke at the wrong time
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
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Posted on 11/15/25 at 7:34 pm to
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Arthur Bach


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I’m in recovery/AA


This tracks

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I lost everything in 2018


Was it because you wouldn’t marry the woman your grandmother wanted you to marry in order to inherit her fortune, but rather fell in love with a trashy woman you saw shoplifting a scarf?
Posted by Tigersaint01
Emerald Isle, NC
Member since Aug 2024
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Posted on 11/15/25 at 7:43 pm to
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This post was edited on 11/15/25 at 9:06 pm
Posted by Arthur Bach
Member since Jul 2016
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Posted on 11/15/25 at 7:53 pm to
Posted by Pikes Peak Tiger
Colorado Springs
Member since Jun 2023
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Posted on 11/15/25 at 7:54 pm to
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I value the opinions and takes y’all have


This statement makes me think your entire story is made up
Posted by Patfic15
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2018
4305 posts
Posted on 11/15/25 at 7:55 pm to
Sorry to read this brother. I pray she finds her Damascus moment soon.
Posted by geauxtigers
Biloxi Mississippi
Member since Nov 2003
2580 posts
Posted on 11/15/25 at 8:01 pm to
i can fix her pics please
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