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Posted on 3/31/17 at 10:36 pm to
Posted by AbuTheMonkey
Chicago, IL
Member since May 2014
8610 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 10:36 pm to
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Anyone who says they wouldn't date a woman with a kid.. You are limiting yourself, someone with a child could be the perfect person for you, but you are not even going to find out because she has a kid? Not to mention, you could be a positive influence on the kid. I understand wanting your own kid first, but sometimes life doesn't go the way you plan it.. IDK, that just seems like a big limitation.


I view these things pretty differently than these Red Pill folks and like to think I am more enlightened than that, but I kind of agree with them here.

Maybe it's a function of where I live, but single mothers are pretty much out without even a second thought. There are tens of thousands of attractive, single, successful, have-their-shite together, possibly-wife material kind of girls here in Chicago in the 23 to 35 range. Absolutely zero need to dip into that well, and I think that's kind of the socialization around here, too.

If you live in a major city, unless you have seriously limited options as is because of whatever reason, you're doing a major disservice to yourself by dating a single mother when there are a thousand or ten thousand girls in your area who would do violent things to date you. Sorry, that's just how humans are.
This post was edited on 3/31/17 at 11:25 pm
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20169 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 12:41 am to
quote:

Big Black Cock bruh.



i know what it means... but the guy said he "wouldn't date a girl with a history of BBC," i hoped for more clarity on this statement
Posted by Chuckd
Louisiana
Member since May 2013
797 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 12:54 am to
quote:

Bad feet


That's really a deal breaker? I have no idea what my wife's feet look like and couldn't care less.
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 12:57 am to
send me a pic of your wife's feet and i will tell you if they are bad or not


ugly feet is an absolute game over deal breaker. if a girl can only be into tall dudes or dudes with this or that dammit i can be into chicks with perfectly shaped and manicured feet
Posted by nola000
Lacombe, LA
Member since Dec 2014
13139 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 6:41 am to
quote:

Bible thumper
Anti-marijuana
Materialistic
Shallow
Social media addiction
Too much of a dog or cat person
Yaps too much


^Now THIS is a list I can live with^
Posted by Dick Jacket
Member since Nov 2016
1587 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 6:42 am to
It's the standard OT response to this type of thread
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 6:48 am to
quote:

Maybe it's a function of where I live, but single mothers are pretty much out without even a second thought. There are tens of thousands of attractive, single, successful, have-their-shite together, possibly-wife material kind of girls here in Chicago in the 23 to 35 range. Absolutely zero need to dip into that well, and I think that's kind of the socialization around here, too.



Oh give me a fricking break

Are you trying to tell me if you found the woman of your dreams - she fit every checkbox you wanted in a woman - arse, tit size, face, hair color, height, figure, intellect, political views, religious views, EVERYTHING - that you would dismiss her simply because she has a kid? Really?

I highly doubt that.

There is this girl I work with at my new job. She is really hot. Couldn't ask for much more in a woman. But she has an 8 year old daughter, she had her when she was 19 and now is 27. That was 8 years ago. Mistakes happen. Are we supposead to reject women simply based on one mistake made 8 years ago? Nobody is perfect. It's stupid and judgemental to reject a woman based on a mistake made 8 years ago when you make plenty of mistakes yourself.

Posted by Bayoumike
Member since Mar 2017
647 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 6:51 am to
quote:

If you live in a major city, unless you have seriously limited options as is because of whatever reason, you're doing a major disservice to yourself by dating a single mother when there are a thousand or ten thousand girls in your area who would do violent things to date you. Sorry, that's just how humans are.


You sound like you're of very limited intelligence. I doubt that anybody is doing "violent things" to date you.
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 6:53 am to
quote:

You sound like you're of very limited intelligence. I doubt that anybody is doing "violent things" to date you.



Women wont date men like that

Women don't respect men who talk that way and are that judgemental. So if any woman would want to date his arse it wouldn't be a good one

Good women go for men who actually have a heart and are caring and understanding. Men who will be there for her and view her needs as greater or equal to his own.
Posted by LSU-MNCBABY
Knightsgate
Member since Jan 2004
25222 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 6:54 am to
Lack of ambition and the spacey ditz types were always a big turnoff for me back when I was dating.

Nothing worse than a girl you couldn't talk to who wanted nothing more than to be a housewife.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 7:13 am to
quote:

Good women go for men who actually have a heart and are caring and understanding. Men who will be there for her and view her needs as greater or equal to his own.


Woman love assholes. You have a lot to learn kiddo
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
73830 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 7:41 am to
quote:

I have no idea what my wife's feet look like...
How is this even possible unless you are blind?

If I spent a weekend or more with a woman, I knew every nook and cranny of them.
quote:

...and couldn't care less.
She knows this too. She's probably already found someone who shows her more attention. It wouldn't be hard to find.

Good luck with your bold strategy there Cotton.
Posted by Gulf Coast Tiger
Ms Gulf Coast
Member since Jan 2004
20797 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 7:42 am to
When I was dating it we

Smoking and kids

I was under 22 though
Posted by DeoreDX
Member since Oct 2010
4308 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 8:08 am to
Has or had a penis.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
37908 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 8:21 am to
quote:

Woman love a-holes. You have a lot to learn kiddo


Sad as this statement is I've always found it to be true. I spent most of my teenage years being a nice guy. It didn't get me shite. Hit my 20s and turned into a sarcastic, a-hole prick and got far better results.
If I was nice, I got ignored. If I was a complete dick they were interested.
Posted by Kraut Dawg
Member since Sep 2012
4744 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 8:24 am to
This post was edited on 11/8/20 at 2:21 pm
Posted by SDVTiger
Cabo San Lucas
Member since Nov 2011
96143 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 8:26 am to
quote:

It's stupid and judgemental to reject a woman based on a mistake made 8 years ago when you make plenty of mistakes yourself.


You said the complete opposite in the other thread

I thought you were alpha and would never pick a chick with baggage?

3.5 billion
Posted by donRANDOMnumbers
Hub City
Member since Nov 2006
17414 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 8:43 am to
Poor guys in this thread who aren't married have no clue
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 8:46 am to
quote:

Oh give me a fricking break Are you trying to tell me if you found the woman of your dreams - she fit every checkbox you wanted in a woman - arse, tit size, face, hair color, height, figure, intellect, political views, religious views, EVERYTHING - that you would dismiss her simply because she has a kid? Really? I highly doubt that. There is this girl I work with at my new job. She is really hot. Couldn't ask for much more in a woman. But she has an 8 year old daughter, she had her when she was 19 and now is 27. That was 8 years ago. Mistakes happen. Are we supposead to reject women simply based on one mistake made 8 years ago? Nobody is perfect. It's stupid and judgemental to reject a woman based on a mistake made 8 years ago when you make plenty of mistakes yourself



I'm confused. I thought you said a single mother was on your dealbreaker list?


This can't be a goldennugget post....it's wayyyyyy too rational.
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 4/1/17 at 8:54 am to
It takes a real man to date a single woman

If you reject the woman because she's a single mom and you're not a real man
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