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re: Does no one dress up for funerals anymore?

Posted on 5/6/23 at 11:25 am to
Posted by eitek1
Member since Jun 2011
2790 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 11:25 am to
I wear a full on suit to every funeral I go to. It's a sign of respect for me. I'm not going to change either.

Half the time, folks that don't know me think I work at the funeral home because of how I'm dressed.
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
7739 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 11:26 am to
Nephew had a grad awards ceremony at a baptist church last Sunday. Several kids in trucker hats with mullets hanging out. And wouldn’t remove them when asked. shite grinds my gears.
Posted by SpotCheckBilly
Member since May 2020
8429 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 11:29 am to
Wore a suit to the last funeral I attended. Wore my best AU hoodie to the one before that -- was out of town and had nothing better to wear. I apologized for my attire, but the family member I went to support didn't seem to care.

I certainly didn't care what people wore when I buried my folks.
This post was edited on 5/6/23 at 11:30 am
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
33112 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 11:33 am to
Ain’t a fashion show baw

Focus on who you’re there for

Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
64133 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 11:33 am to
Probably a lot of cargo shorts and columbia fishing shirts with the prominent College football team's logo
This post was edited on 5/6/23 at 11:36 am
Posted by LCBayou
Member since Oct 2016
672 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 11:50 am to
Add to that people who take selfies with open caskets on their phones during visitation.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
29615 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 11:52 am to
I don’t even go to many funerals. Why would I? It’s not like the deceased is going to come to mine.
Posted by tylerlsu2008
Monaco
Member since Jul 2015
1521 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 11:54 am to
I was at one last weekend. Most men were in suit in tie, but all had a coat on.
Posted by tylerlsu2008
Monaco
Member since Jul 2015
1521 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 11:55 am to
quote:

I put on my good Sunday church jeans for funerals, me.


What about your church boots, baw?
Posted by Hoodie
Donaldsonville, LA
Member since Dec 2019
3671 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 11:56 am to
My grandma passed a few years back and an uncle wore jean shorts and grass cutting shoes to the funeral.

I’ve toned done my dress at services to not outdo others so badly.
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
19681 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 11:58 am to
I do but honestly, i don’t see the point.
Posted by Pauvetibete
Member since Apr 2022
1810 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 12:00 pm to
My best friends dad passed a few years ago. Dude owned his own mechanic business, was damn good. He only work the best Cintas blue work pants and those stripped shirts they have. That's what he was buried in, and if I had shown up in a suit, he would have haunted me.
Posted by zsav77
Member since Oct 2011
6277 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 12:00 pm to
Went to my mother in law’s funeral in a suit. Only the funeral parlor workers were wearing suits as well.

Lots of country folk, but still.
Posted by Cregg
Orange Beach
Member since Jul 2017
2402 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 12:01 pm to
This post was edited on 5/6/23 at 12:03 pm
Posted by LeGrosChat
Bangladesh
Member since Feb 2016
633 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 12:04 pm to
The days are long going of folks even dressing up, just wearing crocs, wrinkle rags, sweatpants evrywhere.

I even see baws wearing ball caps in funeral homes. What is the deal with guys not taking off their hats while inside a building. The hat was meant for outside wear.
Posted by T
Member since Jan 2004
9889 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 12:07 pm to
What’s worse? Not dressing up for a funeral or posting on tigerdroppings while at a funeral?

I say it’s a tie. Both disrespectful.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
121244 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 12:19 pm to
I think part of it has to do with the change in how we do funerals. A lot of people do not do wakes the night before the funerals anymore so it is a much shorter process in general and depending on the person who passed away (if its someone younger), there are more people who are dressed to go to work after.

But if there is a wake, I wear a pair of dress pants and a button down and a coat to the funeral. Older generations wear suits to both, but it depends on where the person is from.

If you go to a funeral for someone who lives in a small community, there are people who dressing up means their best pair of jeans with a collared shirt. I went to a funeral a few years ago when a dude came in with blue jeans and his motorcycle "gang" jacket (I say "gang" because it wasn't like the hells angels or anything, it was pretty much some wanna bes), but it has evolved over the years and it has become much more casual.

Personally, I think we need to go back to being less casual. In all aspects, not just at funerals.
Posted by bird35
Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
13532 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 12:22 pm to
I went to a funeral where a teacher died so most of the people there were teachers.

90% of people were in a tie and jacket or Sunday dress.

Probably depends on who died.
Posted by Bryno1960
Off River Road
Member since Aug 2013
3694 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 12:24 pm to
It depends on where you live to me. I went to a funeral in Bogalusa for a friend I went to high school with. Most of those good ole country boys had on jeans and a nice shirt. I didn’t wear a suit but was dressed up…shirt and tie.
This post was edited on 5/6/23 at 6:13 pm
Posted by poochie
Houma, la
Member since Apr 2007
6765 posts
Posted on 5/6/23 at 12:26 pm to
Daddy never was the Cadillac kind.
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