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re: I think I ruined my marriage
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:45 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:45 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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I called her some real harsh names and told her to grow up.
Well, that wasn't very bright. Do you want your wife and your marriage or do you want to be friends with the ex? Pick one. If you pick your wife, you've got a lot of apologizing to do IF that even works after you've called her names. That sort of thing is difficult to forget.
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I refuse to talk to my wife and won’t allow her to speak to me because I know the conversation will lead there.
It's going to be hard to apologize if this continues....
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Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:47 am to CocomoLSU
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I have female friends that I talk to here and there, and it's totally fine (and my wife doesn't give a shite). I also text/talk to friends' wives on occasion as well, as I am friends with them too.
The difference is that there's literally nothing shady about it at all, and no reason for anybody involved to be mad/jealous/etc. Because everyone involved trusts their significant others,
Some of you are so stupid with the "men can't be friends with women, and vice versa" bullshite.
The situation matters as always here. Are you taking trips with these women without your wife? Having one on one text conversations, Facebook messenger? Do you talk with these women about sensitive topics typically reserved for someone like your wife? Go to lunch or dinner with these women without your wife?
These are the very things that foster cheating and one that can start out innocent but then grow. These are the situations you don't out yourself in. Eventually, that relationship moves to the sexual realm of the woman is remotely attractive.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:48 am to CocomoLSU
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You're a weird dude, man.
1) if you are not hanging out with them and talking to them a couple times a year (2-3x) then you arent friends and "she isnt your best friend in life" either and its certainly not a problem
2) no im not the "weird dude" anything but. I just understand the fricking realities. you are over here saying you are good friends with a female acting like you are hanging out all the time as a married man which if you are....is absolutely going to cause issues in your marriage.
do wtf you want...but men cant be friends with females by themselves.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:49 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
I think yall are both shitty people that made a mild situation 10x worse with shitty childish actions...mainly you.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:55 am to jizzle6609
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7 downvotes.
I wonder if any of these folks know how high the divorce rate is.
I also wonder if they realize the divorce rate has skyrocketed since social media.
I wonder why that is?
my question is why the frick as a male are you trying to be just friends with a female? its weird AF
like wtf do you talk about?
all these guys act like they are so pure and just want to be friends...its a fricking lie they are telling themselves....but my question is why would you even want to?
and frankly if you have a female friend and you havent imagined what it would be like to smash or atleast what they look like naked....well you need to have your testosterone checked.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:56 am to BrohemAlem11
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I think yall are both shitty people that made a mild situation 10x worse with shitty childish actions...mainly you.
why is the wife shitty? because she called him on his shite?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:56 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
This is a great example of why grown men should not have Facebook. I deleted my account in 2016 and never looked back.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:57 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
You’re a moron. Playing with gasoline near a fire and wonder why you got burnt.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 9:59 am to lsu777
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my question is why the frick as a male are you trying to be just friends with a female? its weird AF
like wtf do you talk about?
all these guys act like they are so pure and just want to be friends...its a fricking lie they are telling themselves....but my question is why would you even want to?
and frankly if you have a female friend and you havent imagined what it would be like to smash or atleast what they look like naked....well you need to have your testosterone checked.
Im with you. After marriage the line has been drawn.
One thing I havent heard on here yet is how the other husband would feel.
Its very messy "talking with women friends". The fact that people think they can avoid a car wreck in this situation is crazy to me. Things happen, but if you dont put yourself in the position you will be fine.
To each his own.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:00 am to lsu777
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and frankly if you have a female friend and you havent imagined what it would be like to smash or atleast what they look like naked....well you need to have your testosterone checked.
Fact.
Oh, and Ill help you out, youre gay.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 10:04 am
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:02 am to lsu777
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my question is why the frick as a male are you trying to be just friends with a female?
Not specifically cocomo, I don't know his situation, but there are a bunch of posters on this board that openly admit they have sex maybe a couple times a year. Even more openly get giddy talking about taking trips without their wives and getting away from them.
These posters are in very unhappy marriages and have a skewed perspective of how a healthy marriage should be. I don't believe men and women can't be friends but like I posted above, if you're one on one conversating through text, Facebook, etc. without your wife knowing, having conversations about sensitive topics like love, sex, etc., meeting for meals without your SO, these are recipes for disaster and cheating.
Unless these women are ugly and fat, the man is waiting till the opportunity presents itself to jump and take it to sex.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 10:06 am
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:03 am to jizzle6609
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One thing I havent heard on here yet is how the other husband would feel
100%
and I am not the type to get upset but if my wife is consistently talking with another guy.....im gonna have an issue mainly because it is disrespectful
just like i wouldnt do that to my wife, wouldnt want her to do that either
just like my wife wouldnt post half naked pictures on facebook, because its disrespectful.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:03 am to CajunTiger78
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This is a great example of why grown men should not have Facebook. I deleted my account in 2016 and never looked back.
Its just a freeway to cheat.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:06 am to Oates Mustache
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Not specifically cocomo, I don't know his situation, but there are a bunch of posters on this board that openly admit they have sex maybe a couple times a year. Even more openly get giddy talking about taking trips without their wives and getting away from them.
These posters are in very unhappy marriages and have a skewed perspective of how a healthy marriage should be. I don't believe men and women can't be friends but like I posted above, if you're one on one conversating through text, Facebook, etc. without your wife knowing, having conversations about sensitive topics like love, sex, etc., meeting for meals without your SO, these are recipes for disaster and cheating.
Unless these women are ugly and fat, the man is waiting till the opportunity presents itself to jump and take it to sex.
correct
many posters here have a fricked up marriages and are weird AF with shite and it shows
and look if you are going on guys trips to vegas randomly that isnt ok either
just like girls trips to places like maimi with just the married wives is not ok.
both are recipes to put people in bad situations
and frankly unless its fishing or hunting trip why the hell would you want to take a vacation without your wife?
if you need to vacation away from your wife...that is an issue in and of itself
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:09 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
This can’t be real.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:10 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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Anyone else have or had a wife get angry when seeing post on Facebook between an old fiancé and yourself?
Nope, I keep all my exes beyond arm's reach for a reason.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:12 am to lsu777
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and frankly unless its fishing or hunting trip why the hell would you want to take a vacation without your wife?
I've asked this question so many times in these threads. I feel like I'm the only male poster here that is with someone I actually love, like to spend time with, like to take trips with, is a true friend.
I can't imagine sitting around with excitement and anticipation at the day I get to run out of the door to get away from my SO. It's really strange to me.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:12 am to Galactic Inquisitor
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old fiancé
this is also something i didnt comment on
how many people does the OP think have former Fiancé's? i only asked once because i knew it was right, would imagine most that have successful marriages are the same.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:14 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
It may be innocent but you going all ham on her for being upset is next level wrong on your end.
She should have known you stayed in touch, though you shouldn't have been. Max random question or update on something she heard about that you should know about, like a close friends divorce. Ooopps I guess that'll be her update to the former exes she stays in touch with.
She should have known you stayed in touch, though you shouldn't have been. Max random question or update on something she heard about that you should know about, like a close friends divorce. Ooopps I guess that'll be her update to the former exes she stays in touch with.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:14 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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I think I ruined my marriage
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