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re: Just made one year without having sex :Update pg 19:
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:20 pm to liz18lsu
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:20 pm to liz18lsu
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Getting back out there is scary, but it will happen. Don't dwell.
God I'd be so out of touch with the modern dating scene. I haven't been on a date in 15 years that wasn't with my wife. All I know is going to bars and picking up women or meeting them through friends.
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Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:21 pm to yellowfin
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Hey liz wanna have sex?
You available around mid-April?
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:21 pm to liz18lsu
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Are you confident, without being cocky
Ahh, The famous womanly advice to men to "be confident, not cocky." And yet every woman I ask what differentiates the two and give examples, none of them can do it.
Can you?
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:22 pm to Loaner1231
You could be this guy LINK
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:25 pm to Tester1216
quote:sometimes eager beats pretty
Something something beats eager?
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:25 pm to Stiles
quote:
Ahh, The famous womanly advice to men to "be confident, not cocky." And yet every woman I ask what differentiates the two and give examples, none of them can do it.
Can you?
The only difference between you and the OP is at least he had the cajones to make a thread declaring he hasn’t gotten laid in a year +.
That and most likely a few inches of height but maybe not.
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:27 pm to Stiles
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Ahh, The famous womanly advice to men to "be confident, not cocky." And yet every woman I ask what differentiates the two and give examples, none of them can do it. Can you?
Approaching a woman - Confident
Approaching a women and being a douche instead of just talking to her, showboating - Cocky
Happy?
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:29 pm to liz18lsu
Only d-bags don’t know when they’re being d-bags.
**sets self up for patented Owlie response**
**sets self up for patented Owlie response**
This post was edited on 1/21/19 at 8:30 pm
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:29 pm to Stiles
quote:
Ahh, The famous womanly advice to men to "be confident, not cocky." And yet every woman I ask what differentiates the two and give examples, none of them can do it.
Can you?
What women mean when they say "be confident, not cocky" is...
Be Confident:
1) Have a secure job that provides enough resources to provide a lot of entertainment for the courtship period; enough resources to provide a nice house in a good school system even if she takes a few years off once babies arrive.
2) Be able to articulate success in said job quickly and vaguely; no one should really know what you do for a living outside of the job title.
3) Have outside personal interests that have no need for girlfriends; for example, being part of a running club that runs paces too fast for the average person to keep up with or be a musician in a band that actually pays gigs. There should be zero attachment to these hobbies.
4) Don't speak of personal interests or hobbies to anyone; let others speak of them for you. When finding a girl that is worth settling for, involve her in them as best as she can handle.
5) Be able to discuss how past failures have led to current successes; display optimism for the future.
Being cocky:
1) Discussing how much money you make or worst of all, discussing investment opportunities in friendly get togethers.
2) Bragging about accomplishments such as completing a triathlon or being an award winner at a crossfit event.
3) Announcing that you "don't care" or "don't give a shite" about...well anything. It's a bad look and looks more arrogant and ignorant than confident.
4) Acting like nothing has ever phased you negatively in any way and that you've earned everything in life on your own merit.
5) Giving the cold shoulder to girls or making disrespectful comments because you think girls prefer a subservient position in the relationship.
I don't know why I just typed all of that.
This post was edited on 1/21/19 at 8:30 pm
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:30 pm to Loaner1231
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I fought really hard to make her happy, made a lot of sacrifices, and every time something she was complaining about was remedied a new complaint would crop up in short order. Even though I was miserable most of the time, when she decided to end things I fought my arse off trying to keep it together.
How long have I been sleeping?
How long have I been drifting alone through the night?
How long have I been praying I
Could make it right
If I closed my eyes and tried with all my might
To be the one you need . . . .
Jackson Browne, Late for the Sky
Yours is a common story.
This post was edited on 1/21/19 at 8:31 pm
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:32 pm to Stiles
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Ahh, The famous womanly advice to men to "be confident, not cocky." And yet every woman I ask what differentiates the two and give examples, none of them can do it. Can you?
Confidents means knowing what’s your strong suit and playing that up. Cocky is knowing what’s your strong suits and being an a-hole because you’re so focused on what’s not your strong suit that you’re insecure AF.
Date smarter women.
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:32 pm to StringedInstruments
What he said.
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:34 pm to StringedInstruments
quote:
1) Have a secure job that provides enough resources to provide a lot of entertainment for the courtship period. 2) Be able to articulate success in said job quickly a vaguely; no one should really know what you do for a living outside of the job title. 3) Have outside personal interests that have no need for girlfriends; for example, being part of a running club that runs paces too fast for the average person to keep up with or be a musician in a band that actually pays gigs. There should be zero attachment to these hobbies. 4) Don't speak of personal interests or hobbies to anyone; let others speak of them for you. When finding a girl that is worth settling for, involve her in them as best as she can handle. 5) Be able to discuss how past failures have led to current successes; display optimism for the future. Being cocky: 1) Discussing how much money you make or worst of all, discussing investment opportunities in friendly get togethers. 2) Bragging about accomplishments such as completing a triathlon or being an award winner at a crossfit event. 3) Announcing that you "don't care" or "don't give a shite" about...well anything. It's a bad look and looks more arrogant and ignorant than confident. 4) Acting like nothing has ever phased you negatively in any way and that you've earned everything in life on your own merit. 5) Giving the cold shoulder to girls or making disrespectful comments because you think girls prefer a subservient position in the relationship. I don't know why I just typed all of that.
1 - Nope
2 - Nope
3 - I like other girls
4 - He bought a motorcycle, I didn't give "approval" because that isn't our relationship, he loves it, that makes me happy
5 - Sure
1 - Ew
2 - Ew
3- Big ew
4 - Psychopath
5 - Welllll….
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:34 pm to liz18lsu
Let me check my calendar
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:35 pm to Tester1216
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Confidents means knowing what’s your strong suit and playing that up. Cocky is knowing what’s your strong suits and being an a-hole because you’re so focused on what’s not your strong suit that you’re insecure AF. Date smarter women.
*applause* Well said
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:36 pm to yellowfin
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Let me check my calendar
It's always full *womp womp*
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:38 pm to Tester1216
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Confidents means knowing what’s your strong suit and playing that up.
No doubt. When I was close to 300lbs, I still had personality and never met a stranger. My strong suit. I could talk to fence post. Lost 100 and still have it, even though married now and don'tneed to, but it helped in sales. You're right though. He needs to "cater" to his strongest attribute.
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:38 pm to liz18lsu
quote:just like your "whomp whomp"
It's always full *womp womp*
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:39 pm to Rouge
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just like your "whomp whomp"
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:40 pm to Lynyrd
Women are sooo much more forgiving than men. Effort is sexy AF. That’s goes a long way with a lot of women and if she’s a good woman it really is the little things.
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