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Posted on 12/28/24 at 2:38 pm to
Posted by Rza32
Member since Nov 2008
4426 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 2:38 pm to
Only if they were friends before he got married.
Posted by Locoguan0
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2017
7245 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 2:41 pm to
A man can have female friends and control himself. Grown boys cannot.
Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
20806 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 2:58 pm to
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A man can have female friends and control himself. Grown boys cannot.


Who do people have affairs with?
Does it ever start as “friends”?

What % of males over 21 can put themselves alone with a woman, discuss relationships, drink alcohol and shut down any further interest IF it occurs?

Is it 100%, 1000 times in a row? Or is there a thing called temptation that needs boundaries to avoid even the appearance of impropriety?

If I go about town with a woman half my age day after day, does this respect my wife?

Should we go to a nude beach and hang out?

Are there any limits in your world?

Where do you draw the line as a real man?

If she asks me to touch her boltons- as a friend- is that ok?

Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98849 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 3:08 pm to
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A man can have female friends and control himself. Grown boys cannot.


For myself, it’s not that I can’t be friends with a female and not frick her….i just don’t want to be friends with a female I’m not fricking
Posted by FireawayLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2023
1808 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 3:15 pm to
Weird melt from a chick. Wasn’t putting out so hubby went else where I’ll take for $1000 Alex??? Maybe you should go get your T checked so you wouldn’t be so angry and enjoy sex again like you will pretend to while trying to find your next husband.
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
24717 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 4:14 pm to
The only way is if I don't find her attractive.
Posted by Cracker
in a box
Member since Nov 2009
19195 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 4:17 pm to
Mind your own business boy
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
9228 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 4:25 pm to
I have never been friends with a woman that was even remotely attractive that I didn't at least think about having sex with. Any man who says otherwise is either lying or deep in the closet. It's how straight men are wired. Pussy on the brain 24/7.
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
60826 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 4:28 pm to
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If she asks me to touch her boltons- as a friend- is that ok?
They all do that when they are recently installed. It’s a major insult if you do not.

Or so I’ve heard.
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
9228 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 4:31 pm to
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I feel like I'm the only male poster here that is with someone I actually love, like to spend time with, like to take trips with, is a true friend.

You're not the only one. My wife is my best friend and partner in crime. No one I would rather be with than her.
This post was edited on 12/29/24 at 10:27 am
Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
20806 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 5:16 pm to
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They all do that when they are recently installed. It’s a major insult if you do not. Or so I’ve heard.


I’ve heard to really be a good friend and properly ASSess the bolt-ons, that you really must get nipple to nipple.

Otherwise, you can’t really give a scientific opinion.
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
138513 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 5:26 pm to
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now to clarify.....I’m not talking friends wife........ your wife’s friends or co workers….....I’m talking friends you call up once a month to shoot the shite, friends you sit on back porch and drink a beer with, someone you play cards with all without your wife…

Any married man that has a female friend like this is probably gay
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
60826 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 5:39 pm to
Then you know way more than I was told. But at that point, it sounds less than noble.
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
37375 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 7:09 pm to
wtf are you talking about? Can you read…what in the frick makes you think I’m female?
Posted by IndianMoundFireworks
Member since Oct 2021
855 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 8:21 pm to
I don’t even know where to begin with this stream of consciousness babbling rant
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37536 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 9:09 pm to
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what in the frick makes you think I’m female?


Incessant bitching and lack of logic to start
Posted by White Bear
Deer-Thirty
Member since Jul 2014
17431 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:19 pm to
There’s only one reason to hang around women who aren’t blood kin.
Posted by LA Lightning
Member since Jun 2023
816 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 12:16 am to
I have not read the prior posts, but will submit some facts that you all will discount as impossible.

I was faithful to both the women I married, and I believe it was clear to them that I would be. They were not. Both were young and quite beautiful and gave in to temptation and flattery of constantly having men desire them.

That said, while married to first wife, an ex-girlfriend who also attended our wedding was a sometimes overnight guest in our home.

While married to second wife, first (then ex) wife joined us and my in-laws for dinner in a restaurant. Father-in-law declared in front of his daughter (my then wife) that my ex was "a quite impressive young lady" - which was understood by all, that in his vocab, was the equivalent of "smokin' hot". He was wondering, without saying it, why we had ever divorced (of course because she couldn't keep her pants on, though I didn't think anyone was entitled to an explanation).

After divorce from second wife, I stayed for a short time as a house guest with my friendly first wife and her then current husband (number three). We are friends to this day, and have gone out to dinner both together and separately. Between husbands, this first ex let me know that she would marry me a second time "because she didn't realize what she had" the first time and had messed up. I was over her by then.

I am also very good friends with a former girlfriend and her husband in a neighboring state and usually see them about once a year. We have also gone out to dinner and to baseball and football games together. We are all mature adults and understand that we have certain ethical beliefs.

For several decades I got phone calls periodically from young ladies I had dated in college, from as far away as Los Angeles and New York, who also stopped in to visit when they were in the locale.

I'm sure that none of this would be possible but for the fact that all of them knew me well enough to know that I was 100 percent trustworthy, and would never cheat on my vows or be a party to cheating by others.

Posted by Lickitty Split
Inside
Member since Apr 2017
4143 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 12:33 am to
You sound damaged and insecure. I’d say seem therapy but you’re only going to get crazy people trying to convince you to continue giving them your money.
Posted by kc8876
Member since May 2012
3633 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 3:08 am to
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This post was edited on 12/29/24 at 3:11 am
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