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Posted on 7/3/17 at 12:50 pm to
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 12:50 pm to
sounds like you dodged a bullet and easier on you that you didnt have to brake things off. On to the next one.
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 12:51 pm to
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We were really happy until a week ago. Had 4th plans and she just stopped wanting to see each other

Newsflash, sparky. One week ago, she fricked the guy she's spending the 4th with for the first time. She's his problem now.

Quit putting the pussy on a pedestal, smarten up, and move on.
This post was edited on 7/3/17 at 12:52 pm
Posted by NASA_ISS_Tiger
Huntsville, Al via Sulphur, LA
Member since Sep 2005
8223 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 12:52 pm to
I'm no matchmaker but I'd caution you about "falling in love/lust" too soon after a divorce. You psyche is probably not the strongest in the world right now. If she wants to go, let her go. If you chase her you will likely not like the outcome. If she wanted to stay in the first place, she would have stayed.

You can't will someone back into a relationship. It's a losing situation for all. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off..and go find another one.
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
90057 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 12:55 pm to
quote:

Pos:
1. She's beautiful
2. Young and smoking body.
3. Really kind and thoughtful
4. Good family
5. Doesn't smoke
6. We have a blast together

Cons:
1. She doesn't have a job nor an education after high schoo
Bro.

She fricks guys for however long it serves her and moves on. She's probably a stripper or some type or amateur escort who just sleeps around and has fun all the time. Have you met her friends? What are they like?

If you like her...my advice would be get away from her.

ETA: She married a military guy at 18? fricking run.
This post was edited on 7/3/17 at 12:57 pm
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
31030 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:01 pm to
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She doesn't have a job nor an education after high schoo


I stopped reading Cons after the first one. Unless she is your high school sweetheart and you are one year out of high school dump her. Run and never look back.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
79144 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:14 pm to
quote:

Cons:
1. She doesn't have a job nor an education after high schoo

This is enough to break it off or not even let it start.
Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
69549 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:16 pm to
quote:

divorced earlier this year


quote:

been dating a 20 year old 


Idiot.
Posted by Brazos
Member since Oct 2013
20557 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:16 pm to
Man does anybody on the OT date just a regular woman? They are all smokeshows, pretty impressive if you ask me.
Posted by T Blair
Member since Feb 2013
409 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:18 pm to
Posted by SamuelClemens
Earth
Member since Feb 2015
11727 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:20 pm to
She sounds nice. However, you should give yourself 10 relationships and several years before settling down again.
Posted by lnomm34
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2009
12702 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:22 pm to
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This post was edited on 10/31/25 at 5:23 am
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98837 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:22 pm to
quote:

She doesn't have a job nor an education after high schoo


You better be loaded
Posted by emboslice
Member since Dec 2012
4521 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:24 pm to
quote:

She has been in and out of the hospital all her life for things like brain surgery.
tough. Dating one now... or I should say I was as of a few days ago, but recently split. Some people just arent themselves anymore post-surgery, or they have to figure out who they are again with a completely different mindset.

I wouldn't be in any serious relationship with a 20 yr old. That's just me, I'm 26
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
15281 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:24 pm to
What about a 19 yr old?
Posted by GermantownTiger
Member since Jan 2015
3337 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:25 pm to
I'd be worried about someone with no job or school bc what is she doing with all her free time while you're at work?
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98837 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:30 pm to
Same thing a stay at home mom/wife with an education would do I'd imagine
Posted by emboslice
Member since Dec 2012
4521 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:32 pm to
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if this is on your "negative" list, let her go because you don't deserve her. If you were with her and she got sick, would you dump her? Serious question

didnt dump my girl when she got sick and had surgery, have been with her throughout all over the recovery and changes. But at the end of the day, when you have a surgery on such an important part of your brain it WILL change you. The way you think, the way you act, your friends, sex drive, everything . I can't answer for the OP perspective.
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
14605 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:32 pm to
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but this was the first person I've dated since the divorce.


Trying to get back????? You "dated" for a month and a half, puppy love. Come on, bro. I've had headaches that lasted longer than that. That's not dating. You should be glad. At least you know now, puppylove. Good luck. You are definitely going to need it in today's dating world with this mentality.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
49636 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:37 pm to
Am I the only person who thinks this thread and his other thread in which he told the girl off for not going home with him, are troll threads?
Posted by TheAlmightySmash
New Orleans
Member since Jun 2014
5489 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 1:38 pm to
Honestly, run. run and don't look back.
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