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re: Politics and Family at Christmas don't mix

Posted on 12/22/19 at 7:27 am to
Posted by NoSaint
Member since Jun 2011
12576 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 7:27 am to
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may come as a shock, but most people are not qualified or capable of having a rational political discussion


Luckily every poster in this thread is 100% correct and fully educated in forming their own political stances. You know, minus anyone that disagrees with my own- those people are morons.
Posted by stapuffmarshy
lower 9
Member since Apr 2010
17507 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 7:29 am to
The horror. She has an opinion and shared it. How will you make it through the day you poor poor thing.


Suck it up buttercup. When they're dead and really gone you'll wish they were there to bitch about some jackass who has ZERO effect on your real life.
Posted by Sidicous
NELA
Member since Aug 2015
19296 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 7:34 am to
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She probably just needs a peach mint. Offer her a peach mint.
... and then refuse to give it to her. :rimshot:
Posted by Meauxjeaux
102836 posts including my alters
Member since Jun 2005
46369 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 7:50 am to
Every time she brings Trump! up, politely tell her that you all don’t talk presidential politics and Trump! is still the president.
Posted by greygoose
Member since Aug 2013
14739 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 7:50 am to
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In my entire life I've never been to a thanksgiving or Christmas and heard political or religious talk. Most people used to have a bit of restraint about that silliness. Today people forget real life isn't twitter.


I have a 1st cousin who lives in another state. I love her dearly, but she is liberal concerning her politics. We don't ever bring up politics. She's a Bama fan, so we just argue about that. LOL!
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 7:52 am to
Just bitch slap the crazy bitch to put her in her place.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 8:03 am to
I kinda wish sometimes our family political discussions turned vicious and ugly. We talk politics all the time but it’s always civil and respectful. Well, except for my wife’s ignorant cousin, but other than him it’s fine. And both sides of the aisle are fairly well represented. That actually is maybe why it’s always so civil. Were it lopsided towards one side, I’d guess some bullying and shouting down would be going on.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
138184 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 8:17 am to
We decided years ago to not be home at Christmas to avoid family drama.
Posted by GoAwayImBaitn
On an island in the marsh
Member since Jul 2018
2906 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 8:18 am to
Tell her there's a good reason women weren't allowed to vote back in the day
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5466 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 8:40 am to
I have an ongoing debate with my SIL. They live in Seattle and she's of color. I'm not sure if she's Indian, Middle Eastern, or what, but she's definitely a flaming liberal. Last night we were talking and she asked me how I felt about intersex people. Told her I have her no idea what that is, but there are 2 choices: male or female. Everything else is simply defined as mentally ill.
Posted by TT9
Seychelles
Member since Sep 2008
91793 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 8:41 am to
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Trump


quote:

wussies
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
66950 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 8:41 am to
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Turn on Fox News and run it the entire weekend.

I wonder how many people employ this strategy.
Either that or the opposite, MSNBC.
Posted by littlePNdaB
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2010
837 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 8:42 am to
Right before they leave, thank her for her political discussions, as prior to her coming you were planning to not vote. Let her respond, cut her off and say you all will be voting trump now.
Posted by Hogbit
Benton, AR
Member since Aug 2019
3091 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 8:54 am to
This is sad.
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
17490 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 8:55 am to
At my family gatherings it's basically always been understood that we don't speak politics. Most of my family would lean on the liberal side, but I do have some right leaning people as well.

For example, 2 years ago at the thanksgiving dinner table. My aunt literally brought it up out of nowhere, ( I personally think she wanted to rile people up)"You know what, I personally think Trump is right. We do need a wall, and we need a lot less people on welfare" At that point, I got up from the table to fix myself a stronger drink and to take my food to the couch to watch football. I was not getting in the middle of this. My other aunt rebutted, " you know I always suspected you were a dumbass, but you only get dumber with age. Im sorry for dropping you down the stairs as a baby. It's all my fault.

This led to a 20 minute long argument filled with yellimg, screaming, and curse outs. Funny thing is, they weren't even arguing over politics stuff mainly, it was stupid sibling rivalry stuff. Worse pary is, by the end of the night, they were both back in the house laughing and talking like they werent about to kill each other earlier. fricking women.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
36768 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 9:10 am to
They can mix if you have people who are respectful of others who have differing opinions. I’ve had political discussions with my cousins who are staying at my house and we don’t necessarily see eye to eye on everything, but it leads to good discussion/conversation because we’re open to hearing the other side and don’t automatically assume that someone who believes something different than us is an idiot/a-hole.
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
32122 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 9:13 am to
My whole family is fairly conservative except for my sister so it doesn’t really come up. She’s a Bernie lover but she’s also an unmarried cat woman that lived with my parents till she was 27 and works for my dad, so she doesn’t really say shite around them. I’m probably the most right wing and politically conscious of both sides, but I give her room to talk when it’s just the two of us, because she can’t do it around my parents. We don’t agree on much but when things come up it’s a polite conversation.

Everybody recognizes that Trump is a bit of an idiot and a jerk but the alternative isn’t something we support. I’ve never heard anything unkind or argumentative brought up during holidays.
Posted by davyjones
NELA
Member since Feb 2019
35755 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 9:15 am to
Get that shite outta here. Makes to good'a sense.

Add to that knowing the moment when complete impasse occurs and move along. Textbook reasonable family political conversation.
Posted by BigB0882
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2014
5422 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 9:15 am to
You should have just told her very politely that it is a family rule that politics is not discussed in any way during family gathering, especially during holidays. Then it wouldn’t come across as you not agreeing with her position but just informing her of a family rule she wouldn’t have known about. If she got offended by that then she would get offended by anything.
Posted by ellishughtiger
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Member since Jul 2004
21182 posts
Posted on 12/22/19 at 9:16 am to
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All my family votes Trump. No liberal wussies in my family


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