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re: Possible Tinder Rape...in BR
Posted on 7/30/14 at 2:43 pm to The Pirate King
Posted on 7/30/14 at 2:43 pm to The Pirate King
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I don't mean to offend, but how does describing the savagery of the act including gory details about semen running down your leg and him taking you from behind to a bunch of pervs on the internet provide any kind of positive for you?
calling others pervs to throw off your own perversion...creepy
not one guy in here has made any pereverted comments towards liz...that i have seen
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Posted on 7/30/14 at 2:43 pm to LesMiles BFF
Your partner can consent and not be into it. Any married man knows this
Posted on 7/30/14 at 2:44 pm to liz18lsu
Awesome answer. 
Posted on 7/30/14 at 2:44 pm to LouisianaLady
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I mentioned in these threads before how common it is when we're young and someone you're crazy about (say, your high school sweetheart) wants to have sex. And he's pushing and pushing and trying and begging. Say you're snuggled in bed or on the couch and he's just trying to hard and you like him a lot but you would have never initiated sex yet because you're not ready. And you don't want to lose your boyfriend or for him to be angry with you and you eventually stop fighting back even though you didn't say "YES LET'S DO IT!"
You may have missed it, but Liz said she disassociated herself while he was performing the act.
Posted on 7/30/14 at 2:46 pm to Thib-a-doe Tiger
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Your partner can consent and not be into it. Any married man knows this
I know you're half joking, but not being into it and dissociating are two different things and look very different.
Posted on 7/30/14 at 2:48 pm to LesMiles BFF
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You may have missed it, but Liz said she disassociated herself while he was performing the act.
I did see that
Not all that different. I imagine any time you're being convinced to do something you don't want to do, there's a chance you disassociate. It's common in rape victims.
Ideally, everyone would kick major arse, but it's just not always reality. Liz did what was best for her.
Don't know if you're ever read Sanctuary by Faulkner, but people criticize Temple in the book because after being kidnapped and used for sex, she starts drinking and initiating sex with the men who kidnapped her and raped her. She becomes seemingly into the sex and many readers are like WTF? But she's disassociating. As you read the book, there is little to no inward narration from Temple even though we are seeing the story through her POV. She has mentally blocked all processing of the things around her and just goes along with it all. She's basically a zombie walking around, getting drunk, having sex.
Random reference, but this made me think of it.
Posted on 7/30/14 at 2:49 pm to liz18lsu
I do understand you've been through a lot, and having not been through something like that (my mother has), obviously I don't fully understand. I was trying to see the logic in it. Do you speak about it like this in person to other people, or just in anonymity? Are you getting it there for awareness purposes or therapeutic purposes?
I am genuinely curious, I'm not trolling, saying you deserved it, etc. Obviously the guy is a piece of shite and knew what he did and should burn.
I am genuinely curious, I'm not trolling, saying you deserved it, etc. Obviously the guy is a piece of shite and knew what he did and should burn.
Posted on 7/30/14 at 2:50 pm to LouisianaLady
I was accused of rape once because the girl had a boyfriend and felt bad. This lasted about 60 minutes until her friends got to her and told her what the frick was up.
Posted on 7/30/14 at 2:57 pm to The Pirate King
Thanks for the honesty Pirate. I am a very blunt person, but haven't gone into the details. The anonymous nature of this thread helps. It helps seeing that there are good people out there who want to understand, and hearing the horror of something like this may make people make better decisions. Including myself. I am much more reserved these days. In a healthy way, but I do hope sharing has allowed some posters to see that the risks can be very real, on both sides.
Broke, I am so sorry you went through that.
Broke, I am so sorry you went through that.
Posted on 7/30/14 at 2:59 pm to liz18lsu
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Broke, I am so sorry you went through that.
I'm just saying it to say that there is a very real and very scary male side to this whole thing. This could have very well ruined my life. All because she didn't want her boyfriend to know that she cheated on him.
Posted on 7/30/14 at 2:59 pm to liz18lsu
Like I said, my mother was abused by her father and grandfather. She has never spoken about it to us besides in abstract, so your approach is so much different than hers. I try to understand everyone.
Posted on 7/30/14 at 3:04 pm to Broke
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All because she didn't want her boyfriend to know that she cheated on him.
this and the "she realized she was being videoed" memes are scary as frick
Posted on 7/30/14 at 3:04 pm to Broke
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I'm just saying it to say that there is a very real and very scary male side to this whole thing. This could have very well ruined my life. All because she didn't want her boyfriend to know that she cheated on him.
Like I said earlier in the thread, I have a friend that was accused of rape for a few weeks, but the girl never took it to the cops.
She just passed it through our group of friends that she had been raped by him.
Before I knew she accussed him of rape I was "this" close to banging this chick in the same manner my friend did (yeah, sloppy seconds and all that shite), but I didn't. THANK frickING GOD because I could have been in the same position.
Anyway we all figured she was full of shite based on her actions after the "rape".
This post was edited on 7/30/14 at 3:06 pm
Posted on 7/30/14 at 3:10 pm to LesMiles BFF
after your post and broke's, i'm going to add: everyone disputed my comment about this, but how many people know broke? he's a person they know who has falsely been accused of rape
Posted on 7/30/14 at 3:11 pm to SlowFlowPro
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everyone disputed my comment about this
What comment? I haven't read the entire thread?
Posted on 7/30/14 at 3:12 pm to SlowFlowPro
quote:yes, it is. rape is scary as frick too. This is why we talk about education and about being smart in what you do.
this and the "she realized she was being videoed" memes are scary as frick
I'd talk about odds but whatever, it's pointless.
This post was edited on 7/30/14 at 3:14 pm
Posted on 7/30/14 at 3:12 pm to LesMiles BFF
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but the girl never took it to the cops
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Anyway we all figured she was full of shite based on her actions after the "rape".
which were?
are you certain she wasn't?
Posted on 7/30/14 at 3:13 pm to Broke
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What comment?
a large % of people know somebody who has been falsely accused of rape
Posted on 7/30/14 at 3:14 pm to Topwater Trout
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which were?
She continued to try and frick him days later.
If a guy rapes you, you certainly don't try and frick him again.
Posted on 7/30/14 at 3:15 pm to SlowFlowPro
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a large %
I don't know that I would say a large percentage but it certainly does happen. I'm proof. And this is the first time I've mentioned it anywhere outside of 1 friend.
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