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re: Signs that your wife/GF is cheating on IG?
Posted on 11/3/25 at 1:49 pm to markthetiger
Posted on 11/3/25 at 1:49 pm to markthetiger
Can you tell the story?
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Posted on 11/3/25 at 1:50 pm to TDsngumbo
Probably was
This post was edited on 11/3/25 at 1:51 pm
Posted on 11/3/25 at 1:51 pm to bbarras85
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does she rock that homeless look like mine does 90% of the time?
homeless chic.
Posted on 11/3/25 at 1:53 pm to Rex Feral
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That's way too much effort than just using WhatsAp
That's the thing, we'd check there and that raises flags. If my wife had that app, I'd be a little suspicious, but I wouldn't look twice at a word game. OPSEC is the name of the game when it comes to cheaters.
Posted on 11/3/25 at 1:59 pm to The Silverback
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Is there a way to tell besides DMs with unknown men? Or is this topic stupid and anxious (and weak) energy to begin with?
Changes in sexual appetite with you. Has she cut you off or has the frequency increased dramatically?
Sudden increase in exercise or concerns about weight and how she looks.
Did she suddenly start shaving her vagina? That’s a dead give away.
Change in schedule. Working late? Or on weekends?
Buying new clothes/jewelry.
New hobbies.
New Piercings or tattoos
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Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:04 pm to The Silverback
this is a very nayab-like post...
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:07 pm to The Silverback
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If I never browsed or picked out unknown male follower on IG and if I didn’t check who’s liking what posts, I would never think anything was wrong.
Basically, remove IG from the equation and I would say our relationship is totally fine, no reason not trust, and she invests weeks at a time of her time to come see me (she’ll come and stay 2-6 week a time). She also buys her own plane tickets and has already bought some Christmas gifts for some family members of mine.
Like I said, No me browsing IG = zero worry, thoughts about cheating, etc.
Perhaps it’s no more than a mental construct made through an anxiety loop.
Are you saying she’s not messaging dudes on IG? Or you don’t know if she is? I’m so confused.
Y’all are dating, sounds somewhat serious considering she knows/ buys gifts for your family. But it’s long distance….IDK man, I wouldn’t do a serious long distance relationship if I could avoid it but you signed up for this trip, so I’d say get over your anxiety and enjoy your time together or let her go.
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:12 pm to The Silverback
Check. If you find what you already know the answer to, put all of her shite by the road on refuse day and change the locks.
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:13 pm to Robin Masters
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Changes in sexual appetite with you. Has she cut you off or has the frequency increased dramatically? Sudden increase in exercise or concerns about weight and how she looks. Did she suddenly start shaving her vagina? That’s a dead give away. Change in schedule. Working late? Or on weekends? Buying new clothes/jewelry. New hobbies. New Piercings or tattoos
Changes in sexual appetite with you. Has she cut you off or has the frequency increased dramatically?
No. It’s as normal. When things heat up or one of us wants it. Unchanged.
Sudden increase in exercise or concerns about weight and how she looks.
No. She’s always been worried about her appearance because she used to work for a famous beauty industry company (one that’s world-wide). She’s also a microblading eyebrow artist.
Did she suddenly start shaving her vagina? That’s a dead give away.
No change.
Change in schedule. Working late? Or on weekends?
No.
New Piercings or tattoos
No.
Buying new clothes/jewelry.
No. Sometimes she’ll wear new earrings for a while (ones she’s already had) but nothing here has changed.
New hobbies.
She likes playing certain games (like on her iPad) and sometimes starts playing new ones, that’s about it.
New Piercings or tattoos
No.
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:21 pm to The Silverback
[ If I never browsed or picked out unknown male follower on IG and if I didn’t check who’s liking what posts, I would never think anything was wrong.]
Man, without making a big deal out of it, I'd just point blank ask her who the guy is. "I see some guy named _____ is on your IG and keeps liking all of your posts. Who is this clown?"
Man, without making a big deal out of it, I'd just point blank ask her who the guy is. "I see some guy named _____ is on your IG and keeps liking all of your posts. Who is this clown?"
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:23 pm to The Silverback
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weak) energy to begin with?
If you have to worry about your wife cheating on you, you picked the wrong wife.
Real talk.
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:24 pm to WonPercent
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Man, without making a big deal out of it, I'd just point blank ask her who the guy is. "I see some guy named _____ is on your IG and keeps liking all of your posts. Who is this clown?"
Or start liking all his likes
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:24 pm to Dadren
She’s not. That I know of.
She has about 500 followers. One of them who follows her is Eastern European in NYC who’s a software engineer. She lives in NYC too but is from Taiwan and has been here 3 years. Her English is just so-so, at best. No mutual followers that I can tell, his account is private too.My GF doesn’t post on IG often.
I first noticed this follower about 6-7 months ago. When my Gf made two public posts in May on her IG, he didn’t “Like” either.
Also, since I discovered that follower (I don’t know exactly when they started following each other) there’s no signs she’s cheating, she comes to see me for long periods of time, she talks about a future together, and she buys her own plane tickets.
My GF made two posts on IG last week for the first time since May.
One was of a tree changing colors with a caption about Fall season and the other was her and some friends and family in Halloween costumes.
The Eastern European “Liked” both.
Like I said, if I weren’t on IG at all, this conversation wouldn’t be happening. I would tell you “I have zero worries”. This all stems from an unknown follower on IG who has nothing in common with my Gf but lives in the same city “liking” two posts last week.
It’s either random (which evidence suggests it is, because things would have happened, there would be real signs, etc). We’ve seen no signs.
Or if it wasn’t random (option 2) - then they would have met in public somewhere or on a dating app and then took it to IG. Given that this follow happened at least 6 months ago, we would have seen actual signs long ago (because she would be “done” if she were seeking guys in public, or on dating apps)
She has about 500 followers. One of them who follows her is Eastern European in NYC who’s a software engineer. She lives in NYC too but is from Taiwan and has been here 3 years. Her English is just so-so, at best. No mutual followers that I can tell, his account is private too.My GF doesn’t post on IG often.
I first noticed this follower about 6-7 months ago. When my Gf made two public posts in May on her IG, he didn’t “Like” either.
Also, since I discovered that follower (I don’t know exactly when they started following each other) there’s no signs she’s cheating, she comes to see me for long periods of time, she talks about a future together, and she buys her own plane tickets.
My GF made two posts on IG last week for the first time since May.
One was of a tree changing colors with a caption about Fall season and the other was her and some friends and family in Halloween costumes.
The Eastern European “Liked” both.
Like I said, if I weren’t on IG at all, this conversation wouldn’t be happening. I would tell you “I have zero worries”. This all stems from an unknown follower on IG who has nothing in common with my Gf but lives in the same city “liking” two posts last week.
It’s either random (which evidence suggests it is, because things would have happened, there would be real signs, etc). We’ve seen no signs.
Or if it wasn’t random (option 2) - then they would have met in public somewhere or on a dating app and then took it to IG. Given that this follow happened at least 6 months ago, we would have seen actual signs long ago (because she would be “done” if she were seeking guys in public, or on dating apps)
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:26 pm to WonPercent
Wouldn’t that look bad on me though? Wouldn’t that make me look even worse and be a huge red flag to her?
Also, he only liked her last two posts - which both were last week. All her previous posts, no sign of him. And I would think if she wanted to hide someone on IG, that she wouldn’t do it in the first place because I follow her IG and I’m able to see who likes or comments on her posts.
Also, he only liked her last two posts - which both were last week. All her previous posts, no sign of him. And I would think if she wanted to hide someone on IG, that she wouldn’t do it in the first place because I follow her IG and I’m able to see who likes or comments on her posts.
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:28 pm to ChatGPT of LA
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Dude, just typing that makes me know you are the biggest pussy on the board.
UNITYYYYY
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:31 pm to Mikes My Tiger
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I don't know why some of yall got married. My biggest concern with my wife is if she eats sushi without me.
None of them are married to their best friend.
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:36 pm to The Silverback
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Also, since I discovered that follower (I don’t know exactly when they started following each other)
Are they following each other or is he just following her? Some rando on Insta can follow every woman on there. Look at all the Bobs and Vagene dudes. If he is just following her she might not even realize it.
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:36 pm to The Silverback
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It’s either random (which evidence suggests it is, because things would have happened, there would be real signs, etc). We’ve seen no signs.
Or if it wasn’t random (option 2) - then they would have met in public somewhere or on a dating app and then took it to IG. Given that this follow happened at least 6 months ago, we would have seen actual signs long ago (because she would be “done” if she were seeking guys in public, or on dating apps)
You’re going to drive yourself batshit crazy with this.
You’re e-stalking a rando who liked a couple of your girl’s IG posts (like seriously, you know way too much about this dude). Might he be a problem? Maybe. Ask her who he is or just let it go dude.
And if you can’t (or won’t) do either, let her go. This is not worth your mental health. Her work (microblading, right?) demands that she have an IG account and following if she’s going to be successful. You knew this and you also knew that she was a plane ride away. Like I said, this is the trip you signed up for so you have to make peace with it or let her go. Anything else is choosing misery.
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:38 pm to Dadren
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You’re e-stalking a rando who liked a couple of your girl’s IG posts (like seriously, you know way too much about this dude). Might he be a problem? Maybe. Ask her who he is or just let it go dude. And if you can’t (or won’t) do either, let her go. This is not worth your mental health. Her work (microblading, right?) demands that she have an IG account and following if she’s going to be successful. You knew this and you also knew that she was a plane ride away. Like I said, this is the trip you signed up for so you have to make peace with it or let her go. Anything else is choosing misery.
All of this!!
Posted on 11/3/25 at 2:47 pm to The Silverback
I think it would depend on how you said it. You could almost make it sound like a joke. "Idk who _____ is, but I'm one more like away from kicking his arse." lol
The more I hear though, I think you might be imagining this. Did this same guy go through her older pics and like some of them also? Are there pics of you and her on her page? If so, did the guy like the pics with just her, but not like the one's with you in it? MF are gonna shoot their shots on social. Having a profile isn't the healthiest thing for a relationship, but doesn't mean she's cheating.
The more I hear though, I think you might be imagining this. Did this same guy go through her older pics and like some of them also? Are there pics of you and her on her page? If so, did the guy like the pics with just her, but not like the one's with you in it? MF are gonna shoot their shots on social. Having a profile isn't the healthiest thing for a relationship, but doesn't mean she's cheating.
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